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well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




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ok...i am a guy 14 and i like this girl,shes 14 too.So how i make sure she likes me?I tried asking her out she said no srr im too busy this week...how i know she could like me?or to make her like me?

most guys do it all the time but the biggest and best thing i can think of you can do is FLIRT. flirt with her and see how she reacts back if she flirts back she likes you.=]
*~Stephanie~*

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ok, im 13 and he is 13 or 14 and he kind of good looking but not really but he is really funny and smartand kind ect. anyway he goes to my religion class and we used to have it every monday but it is over until the winter or spring. he told me to chosse winter and we could be in the same class so I said "ok I will" on the last day he asked me my sn but I dont have one yet so he gave me his and wrote (4 when u do ) and a smile face, my step brother told me that he likes me so he asked him on line and he said no I like this girl named Liz. But when I left to go somewhere he said he wanted to talk to me and tell me something but I havent been on line yet so I wasr wondering if he does like me, and if I should ask him myself if he wants to go Ice skating with me? should I or not?

everybody likes more than one person. it isnt a abd thing. he can just be hidding it and not wanting you to know because he scared of rejection. what you should do is ask him. like just to go out the two of you as friends.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok help help....im thinking about getting my boyfriend one of those dog tag things with our picture on it what else should i say thanks xoxo

omg i did the samethign for my bf on his b-day except it was a pic of me and he wears it all the time bc the distance between us. what would really be cute is on the back of it if you write a lil message on it. somethign sweet but true. like "i will always love you forever" or "no matter what you will always be in my heart" or "you will always have my heart" something in that way. hope i helped you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ive had sex with a couple of guys and the last time i had sex was two weeks ago. my "down south" has been itching and kinda sore for two days now. i was taking a shower and i put my finger up there to see wat was goin on and i saw small hard chunks on my finger. i saw like two brown lil things and im not sure if it stds or just chunks of discharge. i have noo idea. i know this sounds nasty and weird but i really need to know! and i want to know if i can get checked for stds without letting my parents know..

i give everyone 5's i promise!!

personaly if i was you and something like that ahppened to me i would get it checked out ASAP. the longer you wait the worse it will get. you dont have to tell your parents the gyno or who ever you want to go to get it checked will keep everything confedental.
*~Stephanie~*

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OKay..me me and my boyfrined have been goiing out for a month..and i get really neverous when i talk to him.What should i do(what should we talk about)Also he is very shy and we wants to kiss but hes shy what should i do!?

go for it. make this first move. i promise you that you will love doing it and that it wont be as hard as the first time. if you dont do it then it wont happen and then you will be sad that you didnt get a chance to see if he is a good kisser. you need to break the shyness between you to. it isnt a good thing to have around each other. hope everything works out for you.
*~Stephanie~*

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I am confused. I am a Christian, and I am trying to figure out, well, what "kind" of Christian to be, like a Catholic, Baptist, etc etc.

My question is, what religion are you, Christian-wise (I have nothing against other religions, I promise!), and why? What are some of your beliefs? Thanks!

i am roman christian cathlic and i was rasied like that. i believe in one God. i prey for virgin mary and honor her except we dont worship her. and everything else that a christian does except for pray for the virgin mary christians dont do that they think it isnt so important. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Do guys really find it sexy if girls gring with each other? im not quite sure and i wanted u guyses opinion

yes they do it shows him that instead of him always being involved in the action that eh can watxch it and still have fun..lol..
*~Stephanie~*

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My breasts began to get bigger around May. I went from 22 A to a 28C in around a month. Now I have little purplish reddish lines on them. They look like little scratch marks leading from the nipple out on. I have the 3 marks on each breast. The 3 scratch marks are on one side of the nipple. What are these? Are they just stretch marks or something, will they go away ???

yes the are stress marks. it means your body is growin faster and it is having a hard time catchin up and yes it normal and it will go away when you get older.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok i got off my period 2 days ago and i after that 2 days i started bleeding a lot more is that normal

yes it is normal depending on your age if your young it wil be werid like that for a while so dont worry.
*~Stephanie~*

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how do you get faster, im active pretty fast but wanna get faster! In lacrosse we have to run 3 miles every day and then endurance training which works most likely cause i feel it, but what specifically type of drills make you faster?

to me a faster runner and not waste so much energy my bf told me this (he plays football) you run on your toes not your heal and when you run you like push yourself foward without falls.hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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is there anyway i can get checked for stds without my parents knowing? or the heatlh center letting them know?

i think planned parent hood has it. and any clinc that you go to it shouldnt tell your parents because it is illegal to let them know without your person. that is like giving someone your personal information that you dont want anyone else to know about. it is ilegal unless u sign the paper sayin it is ok. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Okay so I am a freshmen and I am currently dating this guy in my class we have been going out for 2 months. I also have had a major major crush on this guy who goes to a different school and is one year older than me for the past 2 and 1/2 years. My boyfriend i love being around him and he makes me happy, but when i get home i can't stop thinking about my crush i've told my self that i have to get over him, but i can't! I know it is really stupid to be worrying about this ,but i don't think I will end up marrying my boyfriend because we just want different things. So my question is, should i continue to date my boyfriend and give us a try or should i dump him and keep looking?

to be honest with you from my point of you i think that when you go out with someone that you like if you dont see your self growin old wit them and living a happy life together forever then it modt likely wont last as long.you need to think about the positive and engatives about both these guys be4 you make a decision..hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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Well, i dated this guy last year(my freshmen year, i'm now a sophomore). I broke up with him b/c we dated for two weeks and haden't even held hands yet. I totally regretted it and I know that i should have just talked to him about it instead of ending it right there. Finally this year, I told him how i felt but he said that he just wanted to be friends. Some friends we are, he gives me the "go to hell" look everytime i see him. He's now dating this girl for 2 months and he's STILL all i ever think about! I know that he doesn't feel the same way about me as i do about him but i'm still not over him!! HELP!!

i am sorry to tell you but you made a mistake and lost your chance. you should have thought twice be4 breakin up wit him. the only think now is to stop thinkin about him and move. i ams o sorry.
*~Stephanie~*

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I was just wondering, do y'all spend more time with your bf/gf or with your friends?

boyfriend even though sometimes i try balancing it.
*~Stephanie~*

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when someone goes "ill tap that!" or say "you know you'd tap that!" does it mean have sex basically? thanks in advance, I RATE HIGH for GOOD

your 120% right. it is slang for i will fuck that..
*~Stephanie~*

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hi. i'm 15/m and an in-the-closet homosexual.
here's my problem: there's this guy at my school that i really like-and i mean reeaaalllyy like. he's a really good friend of mine, too. we hang out pretty much every day. problem is, i don't know if he feels "that way". How can i find out if he likes me too without telling the whole world that i'm gay?

flirt wit him and see if he flirts back. try giving him signs that you like him. but dont make it overious infront of everyone.l hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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me and my boyfriend had sex yesterday, and since then, my vxgina itches realllllllllllly bad. is this normal? helppp!!

you ened to see a doctor this is no joke. you can have crabs. not tryin to scary but ti is the truth.
*~Stephanie~*

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Is it true that if you crack your knuckles they get bigger? This seems totally fake to me...how can your bones grow because you move them around?

no that isnt true but you can get authoridize from it because you are moving your bones in a way you shouldnt repeadly and your brian will remember and your fingures will act like there messed up.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok well,im 15, there is this guy that i have a crush on, but he has a girlfriend. Me and my boyfriend just broke up. I know that i didnt like it when other girls liked my bf. So do you think it is wrong that i like someone elses boyfriend? This has been bugging me for a long time.

if you didnt like it then do you honestly thing another guys girlfriend will? if you dont know the answer it is no. you didnt enjoy girls messin wit ur boyfriend so dont mess wit other girls bf.
*~Stephanie~*

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OK...Say you really LOVE the sport Basketball...you have been offered to join the freshmen team (but ur a 7th grader)...You wanna play but you dont like the coach...Everyone Says he is a Pervert.Also 8th graders that u have played Basketball with in the Past get mad because you were offered To Be on a Freshmen team..(8th graders are post to be you Bffs??).well..what do i do??..TRy to live with it and play for him?...or Go to a different high school and play for them..Thanks

having a touch coach isnt really bad thing. i have a tough b-ball coach to. but think about it if he is a tough coach he will push you a lil out of ur comfront zone and make you become a better player both on the court and off. your soo called friends are jealous of you. forget about them and move on. dont feel so affended about them.
*~Stephanie~*

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