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Dump him or keep him
Okay so I am a freshmen and I am currently dating this guy in my class we have been going out for 2 months. I also have had a major major crush on this guy who goes to a different school and is one year older than me for the past 2 and 1/2 years. My boyfriend i love being around him and he makes me happy, but when i get home i can't stop thinking about my crush i've told my self that i have to get over him, but i can't! I know it is really stupid to be worrying about this ,but i don't think I will end up marrying my boyfriend because we just want different things. So my question is, should i continue to date my boyfriend and give us a try or should i dump him and keep looking?
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i think u should break up with him it isnt fair to be having this mental affair. its just as bad as cheating. it could end up as cheating and someone is bound to get hurt. save the guy the pain. you arent ready to settle with just him and yea you arent going to marry him and if he wanted to marry you why should he you want other men be honest with him and yourself. how would you feel if you were with a guy and he secretly crushed over your friend?
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You're young. The chances of you marrying anyone you have an interest in now are slim to none. Don't be worrying about forever just yet, just enjoy being young while you still can.
I think you should break up with your boyfriend-- not because you can't see yourself marrying him, but because your heart isn't in the relationship. If the other guy is always on your mind, you're not being fair to your boyfriend despite your good intentions. Regardless of whether or not anything happens with the other guy, it's best for everyone if you break up with your boyfriend.
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to be honest with you from my point of you i think that when you go out with someone that you like if you dont see your self growin old wit them and living a happy life together forever then it modt likely wont last as long.you need to think about the positive and engatives about both these guys be4 you make a decision..hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*
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No one can really tell you what to do because your decision will be based on what you feel is right. Question yourself. How much do you really like your boyfriend and are you willing to loose him to another guy who might not like you? I mean, if you don't like your boyfriend, then break up with him because that would be the right thing to do. You can flirt with the other guy and find out if you really like him and if he likes you. If he does, I still think it would be rude just to dump your boyfriend for him. What I'm trying to say, if you think it's not working out between you guys end it. Make sure this is something you really want to do and that you won't regret doing it. Good luck!
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Well, before you dump your guy...ask yourself how much you like him. if you really like him then i wouldn't take the chance of dumping him. I did that once, and i totally regretted it...i tried to get back together with him and it didn't work...now i seriously have a huge crush on him and he has a diff. girlfriend. So, before you do anything ask yourself how you feel about your current b/f and find out how the guy you have a major major crush on feels about you.
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If your not 100% happy...and keep thinking of someone else...you don't like your boyfriend enough and therefore should just dump him. It's not fair to him. You shouldn't worry about not MARRYING the boyfriend your with now...it's only your freshman year. The reason people even date at this age is possibly to see who they conflict/get along with. Wait it out, see if the other crush gets off your mind. I'd say wait a week or so. If time passes && things don't change, you need to do what's right and not be faking the whole time like you actually like your boyfriend.
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I think whatever will make you the happiest you should do. I mean, its good if you dont want to hurt your boyfriend but DONT stay in a relationship if you arnt 100% sure that you want to be with him. even if you dont like giving up, leading him on wont do any good in the long wrong cuz he will end up more hurt.
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