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boy problems! what else?
Well, i dated this guy last year(my freshmen year, i'm now a sophomore). I broke up with him b/c we dated for two weeks and haden't even held hands yet. I totally regretted it and I know that i should have just talked to him about it instead of ending it right there. Finally this year, I told him how i felt but he said that he just wanted to be friends. Some friends we are, he gives me the "go to hell" look everytime i see him. He's now dating this girl for 2 months and he's STILL all i ever think about! I know that he doesn't feel the same way about me as i do about him but i'm still not over him!! HELP!!
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There's really nothing you can do about it except wait for the feelings to past. Try to avoid him-- don't go blatantly out of your path to avoid seeing him, but don't make an effort to talk to him or watch him or act like you're having fun just in case he's watching. Find something else to occupy your time. He moved on, & now it's time for you to do the same.
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Arite, first, ure right, you probably should have talked to him first, second, 2 weeks is not that long, he proly needed to get more comfortable with you first. But the fact that you keep thinking about him is totally normal, every one leaves some kinda impression in ure life that uve dated. He probably thinks about you, but not in the same way, but im not him soo.
Hope i helped
~God Bless~
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I know it seems hard right now to hear this, but time heals everything, and its so trie. you will get over him eventually. try going buy hunting with some friends at the mall. it will help to see other possibilities
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It's completly normal to still likve him and you don't have to get over him right away. It will happen but don't force yourself not to like him. You just can't do that. Now that he has a new girlfriend, you shouldn't say much about liking him to him or her. He will pretend he doesn't know and his girlfriend will get jelous and angry. I don't think he hates you or anything so just talk to him again. Just say I though you said we can be friends, but everytime we see each other you act different. Talk to him about that. I know it might be hard for you and I don't think he wants to hurt you or anything. He just moved on and expected you to do the same. Take as long as you need, and don't force yourself to like other guys. But... as you start to date other guys, you might get over him faster. ♥
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i am sorry to tell you but you made a mistake and lost your chance. you should have thought twice be4 breakin up wit him. the only think now is to stop thinkin about him and move. i ams o sorry.
*~Stephanie~*
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Atleast if anything comes out of this you have LEARNED. There are people left and right on this website complaining about clingy, needy, desperate boyfriends! This guy was shy and taking his time. Two weeks is a short span of time. Some guys get really nervous and you have to give it a shot and wait things out before you jump to conclusions and fall into a predicament. There's nothing you can TRULY do as of right now. He has a girlfriend...honestly...I don't know if he feels like you deserve him. I'm sure it hurt to be dumped like that :(. He's probably afraid of hurt and is only guarding his heart like anyone else would do. I mean...try maintaining a better friendship with him if there's any hope for the future. And, I'm sure there's hope. If he ever breaks up with his girlfriend you guys can start really talking about why you two didn't work out. I wouldn't bring up apologies and your past though while he's with this other girl...it might start trouble.
Good Luck &&
Don't give up!!
These things take time.
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