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does any1 kno any good love songs to make a cd with? (link)
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There are TONS of love songs you could use:
-so help me girl; joe diffie
-pieces of me; ashlee simpson
-forever and ever (amen); randy travis
-back here; bbmack
-my best friend; tim mcgraw
-i'll be; edwin mccane
-always mine; selena
-back at one; brian mcknight
-can you feel the love tonight; elton john
-she thinks she needs me; andy griggs
-dreaming of you; selena
* I know tons and tons more love songs; tell me what type you like best like country, rap, etc and what kinda love and i can give you tons more. I lvoe lovey dovey songs! :)
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i have been really good friends with this guy william and finally went out and we never kissed we just cuddled all the time. But know he just wants a peice of ass what do i do??? (link)
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Well, from the information you have provided it just sounds like this guy is using you and taking advantageo f the fact that you have serious feelings for him, a long history, and are good friends. Don't let him do that; it's so not right. If you give in to what he wants, or "put out" he'll NEVER respect you and continue to do this to you thus you will wind up getting hurt. He'll then move on to the next girl and do it to her. It's an endless cycle. You need to stand up for yourself. You need to put your foot down and let him nkow that you ar more than just a "piece of ass" and that you have standards and morals. Lay it out on the line for him. Tell him that you like him and ar interested in a RELATIONSHIP. If that's what he's going to be able to gibve you then give him a chance (2 weeks or so) to show that he's changed. If he during this time trys to get you to do things you don't want; ditch him. It may suck at the time, but you'll be doing yourself a favor, and him one also in the long run. Find yourself a guy that wants a piece of you HEART, BRAIN, PERSONALITY..the things that really count! :)
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Hi i'm was just wondering if any1 knew a good website to get dumb songs. Like the "CUPPYCAKE GUMDROPS" song. Its kind of a dumb question but i'm a sucker for some dumb songs. I f u kno any please tell me! thx bye! (link)
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Hmm, well at Bored.com under the link Music there's another link for a page that tells you all about the weirdest/dumbest country song titles. And if it ends up that wasn't what you had in mind, the site is FILLED with ways to keep you entertained. :)
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i like this guy n im not sure if he likes me. hes really nice n sweet to me but im still not sure. i'm afaid that if i tell him that i like him he'll be scared of me. we're friends and i dont wanna ruin that. please help! thanks! (link)
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Hmm, well this is a very common situation that all girls go through at some time or another. You basically have two main ways of approaching this issue. Whicever way you decide to go with should be the one you feel most comfortable with. You could: 1) Take a risk, take the intiative, be brave and ask the guy out or casually suggest that you are interested in him--you could do this by flato ut saying it, or inviting him over to study, or inviting him to hang out (with yourself or group), compliment him and wrtie him a note, or tell his best friend (you know he's going to tell him!) OR 2) Lay low, not take any major risks and just keep on doing what you are doing with a touch more flirtyness and hints added into the mix. Like ask his a question about an assignment in class, compliment his clothes or hair, strike up a causual convo.
Each of these ways would work; I personally think the first option would be more effective, but the choice is ultimately yours.
Here are some key things to look for: Is his sweetness and niceness sincere, if he like this with all the girls, does he show genuine interest..Ask yourself those things..if he's acting this way to all the girls...you know he's not really that into you, but rather all girls.
If he is interest in you and he gives good responses, let it go from there. If it doesn't work out, remember there are TONS of boys out there. Good luck! :)
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Why do the moderators delete good questions? WTF? They leave up stupid ones like "I like a guy but he doesnt know...should I tell him?", but then when someone has a serious problem like the guy and his unruley brother they delete it? Advicenators needs to get its priorities straight and need to learn what questions stay and what goes. What do you all think? (link)
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You can't always please everyone. I am sorry to hear you aren't pleased with the site. Maybe some of these questions getting asked are not being deleted right away by a level two moderator, but rather the question has gotten low marks from the level one's who rank the questions. This is just how the site works. Everyone is free to voice their opinions in some form or fashion, just like you have right now. I will personally take your comment into consideration though, and I'm sure some other users will as well. Have a nice day. :)
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I'm about 5'2 and weigh around 95 lbs..but everyone tells me im really skinny. How much should i weigh if im 5'2? (link)
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You should weigh whatever you are most comfortable weighing. But if you are concerned for heatlh reasons go to www.cdc.gov/nccdphp/dnpa/bmi/ or www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/bmicalc.htm . These two sites will allow you to find out what weight you should be with your height. Good luck. :)
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I have straight hair (cuz i blow dry it straight) and its about medium length (not quite to the middle of my back). In the front it's angled and it starts just below my chin. I wash my hair every morning and blow dry it straight, but then after a while it starts getting dented in the front where its angled, i guess from putting it behind my ears. But even if i dont put it behind my ears, it still won't stay straight all day. Even if i straighten it that still wont work. How does everyone else get their hair to stay perfectly straight and frizz-free all day? (i especially need help with the front angles of my hair) Any ideas? (link)
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Hey there. Well, I can totally relate. My hair is naturally really curly/wavy and sometimes when I blow dry and or straighten it, I get crinkles. My friends use to even call me Frizzy Ruffles. Haa. But anyways, if found this mwethod to be effecive.
-Wait until your hair is damp (not sopping wet) then add KIWI BLOW SERUM +follow on bottle directors for applicatio+ (Available at Ulta, Sally Beusty Supply, and different hair salons -Abt: $10 per large bottle-and blow dry it in sections rather than all at once. Once hair is BONE dry, straighten it but before doing so spray your straightener AND hair with a light coating of Biolage's Thermal Active Setting Spray (Abt $15 per large bottle available at same stores as Kiwi) and finish styling you hair. Upon completion of that, again spray a light coating of thermal active setting spray for one last time. Make sure to spray the area that you want to stay straight and frizz free the most. If you do this at the night time...repeat these same step just not for as long. Your hair should look fantastic! :)
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I have a crush on a teacher of mine and I can't get over him. What should I do? (link)
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Well, this is a tough sitiation. I've been around teachers my whole life since my mom has worked in education for as long as I have been alive. I could see how you could think some younger teachers are cute and even the crush part; but for several serious reasons you can not let it excallate into ANYTHING more. You teacher could get serious trouble and you'd get caught up in the whole thing. Think about the whole Mary-Katy Laturno case. I thjink the best thing to do is to think of you teacher as more of an authorirty figure than a crush. Tell yourself that he's alot older and by the time you are his age he'll be an old timer. Try to find yourself a different crush. And if worst comes to worst, ask you parents and guidance couselor to switch you out of his class. Good luck. :)
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hey my best friend is acting weird and i think she ie jelous that i am hangin out with one of my old friends b/c he old group of friends are bein mean to he and ignore her now and i try to talk to both but my b/f is never their when something happens so wen me and my other friend are talk about it i think she feals left out b/c she dosn't no wuts goin on wut should i do???
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Well, you really need to think about the value of your friend's frienships. You don't ever want to lose a good and true friend or friend(s) at the expense of another friend or friend(s). You need to talk to both your best friend and your group of friends. If you friends are being mean to your best friend, you need to civily talk with them and tell him you don't like it approve of it. Give them a chance to stop and turn this whole thing around. You also need to talk to your best friend and apologize on behalf of your other friends (and they should as well) and tell her you want her to be in the know more. Call her to go to the places you and the other friends go so she is no longer excluded. If you group of firends don't stop treating your friends poorly, you need to do something. In my opinion, I would stop being friendly with them and stop hanging out with them until they apologize and change their ways. But the choice is yours. Think about hte poistion your best friend is in, do you want to feel like her. Best wishes. :)
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is it weird for a grl to ask out a guy? (link)
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Well, that depends on who you ask. It varies from person to person. Some girls think it is weird to ask out guy out merely because they are old-fashioned and not comfortable with something that's fairly new. Often times, guy like a girl who is brave and asks them out. They likenot always being the one who have to take the initiative and they know you are interested right away. If you are comfortable and confident, there's nothing wrong with it. Down with the old, in with the new..ask a boy out! :)
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my cuzin is 14. she has already gone to 3rd base!!! i really dont know what to do?? because she cant go to 4th because her familie is so poor their house is like a shack soo they couldnt pay for an abortion and shes a freshman i mean like she cant really just miss nine moths of skewl!!i dont even think she could handle it i mean she afraid to use a tampon!! i just dont no what to do because im not the typical kind of person to just tell her to slow down!! i just dont think its good 4 her to be pregnant i want to prevent it!! please help!! (link)
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Well, you CANT control your cousin's life and maker HER choices for her. The only things you can do is greatly express your opinion to her and try to set a good example. I think right now your cousin is a little confused. She has probably gotten caught up with/in young teen peer pressure and drama. While I'd like to say it's just a phase and you should alott some time for it to pass, that would be really risky in this case. I know you said you're not the kind of person to tell her to slow down..but you are going to have to learn to be if you want to help your cousin. Maybe you should try having and informative not critical sit down talk with her and tell her alllll the risks. Tell her you care about her and don't want anything bad to happen to her. Maybe you could also make a video that's like " Wonder if you had sex..." and demonstrate all the negative effects. (Ie: Pregnancy, stds, aids,etc). if you have or know of friend that is pregnant, have them talk to her. Maybe you should encourage the two of you to attent a bible study or chruch weekly so she can come closer to God. Or, you could go to a teen abstinence group meeting. Ask a youth official at a local church for more info. When it all boils down, like I said, only SHE can make the choice, but you can have a huge influence. :)
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my little sister has a habbit of thinking that our cousins are cute. the ones that we dont get to see that often. she likes our cousin J.R and our cousin Michael. I can't figure out how to get her to stop. I have told her that they are our cousins and its nasty. But she won't listen. She has even told me that she wants to kiss J.R. I mean yea hes a good looking kid (i dont like him...ew!) but hes our cousin so thats just nasty. I have tried explaining the whole cousin thing and she still doesn't understand. Please help. (link)
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Hmm, well actually how you sister is thinking and acting is a pretty natural phase that a bunch of kids go through. I am guessing she is kind of young is she doesn't really understand the whole incest thing. This is just a phase for her though. The best thing you can do in this case would be to remind her one more time only say something like " that's like you and me getting married" haha that;ll be sure to get the point across, and if it still doesn't I suggest for you to stop drawing attention to it and just ignore the whole thing-eventually she'll get bored of this, she'll think clearly, and she'll like guys that aren't in the family. Give it a lil' bit of time. Or, tell your cousin and tell him to tell her he's got a grrreat gf so she'll know she doesn't have a chance, then do the ignoring thing. If you ignore the situation sh'll lose interest in the whole matter because everyone else has. Good luck! :)
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how can i get my boyfriend to trust me?
how can i proove to him i didnt cheat on him?
n lastquestion how can i proove to him that i love him???
thank you so much
xoxo..sam (link)
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Hmm, well trust is a really hard thing to "prove". You have to be open, sincere, and honest with your boyfriend for him to trust you. Communication is key. Trust him and you shall be trusted in returned. You should try having a civil sit down talk with him and explain to him how you are feeling. Tell him you are feeling liek he doesn't trust you and he think you cheated on him and you feel like he's doubting your life. Just oepn your heart up to him. Also, it would be nice if you did some nice things for him. Like, drop a note in his locker that simply says " Have a good day, Love Sam" Little notes like that can make a world of difference. Just be true to who you are as well as with him. Trust must be earned. In time, he'll learn to trust you as you shall with him, you'll see that you two care too much and respect one another and would never cheat, and your love will show through your experiences and time spent together. Use your heart. :)
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Well nothin really much has been going
on with me and everything.I haven't been
on very much because i had been very
busy.To talk more better could you send
everything though my inbox because its
a lot better for me.I have a little
problem how could i change my attitude
with my parents?I give them a very bad
attitude and i think that i don't.Help! (link)
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Well, everyone has a bad attitude sometimes towards their parents at your age. It's really natural. Kind of just a natural part of life. I think in time you will grow out of it. But, maybe you should try and be more appreciative of them and all they do for you. Think about all the great things you have because of them in your life and where you would be without them. Try to help out a lil' more. After all, you do have a lil' siblig along the way. Set the example. What have you been busy doing lately? From now on ill make messages to your inbox..take care. TTYL! :)
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why is it that every time you are realy in love with someone they go and break your heart? (link)
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That's the $64,000 question. I don't think anyone knows FOR SURE, but here's my take on it. God has a plan for each of us. And a part of that plan is the fact that he wants us to grow, learn, experience, and of course, love. He allows us to love and be love in returned in order for us to acheieve all the above said actions. Without love, the world wouldn't be what it is today. He also wants us to be appreciativeo f the good and bad things in life and once they are over, move on and take that new knowledge with us to continue down our paths. So, I think it's just a natural part of life although it does suck big time. :)
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Hey Sasha this is Katie the girl with
the screen-name LilBlondie.Anyway this
is my new screenname.What has been new
and exciting?How has things been going
on down in Texas?Tell me some new information
because i want to here good and if you have
bad things i really want to know them.What
has happend after the last time that you and me had talked?I really had missed being on here.
So tell me some new things. (link)
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Hey there. Nothing too new and exciting..let's see...thanksgiving is just around the corner..and so is christmas..hmm my lifes boring, what about yours? :)
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how do you kno when u need the next bra size up?
[wheneva a bend down i "fall" out, does that mean i needa new size?] (link)
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"Falling out" can sometimes mean that you need a larger cup size or the side around (the number part) is too big and so your straps fall down causing your cups to sometimes fall out. Your best bet would be to go to a store that measures you, like VIctoria Secret, and sometimes Foleys and other big department stores do as well. Once you get your exact size, shop 'til you drop! :)
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where is the best place to get thongs other then victorias secret (link)
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There are tons of places!
-Charlotte Rusee
-Dots
-Kohls
-Foleys
-Forever 21
-579
-Bodyshop
-Gadzooks
-Deb
-Ross
-Hot Topic
-Rue 21
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Hey, does anyone know how to put one of your own pictures as your advice column's background?Or can you do it?Thanks!
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Yes, it is possible to do that. All you haev to do is once you are logged in under the left hand panel side go to "column settings" then click on the space that says 'colum background url'and browse your computer C:/ drive for the pic and then save the settings and poof you are all done! :)
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Hi...Im at school right and im not the most popular person.but, im really funny and have a great personality..(not to be cocky) But, I seem to be more on the loser side, which is bad :( I dont fit in anywhere...i just take up space in the school. I need advice ..How do i get people to see me for me, and actually just judge me on what other people say. Yes, i know i should talk to them, but they're always like...wtf you suck.. yea im not kidding eaither. Everyone just .hates. me... please help :( (link)
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Aww! Don't let yourself get too down about this. EVERYONE can relate to what you are going through. Junior high and high school can be rough time if it doesn't seem like you "fit in". It's unfortunate that it has to be that way. Remember, it's not quantity it's quality that really matters. You don't have to have a million trillion friends to be happy. And you can popular in your own way-by being friends with everyone. That's what I try and do..like I'm friendly with all sorts of people in school and then I have my closest friends. Don't let other people's immatue perceptions about you keep you from doing what you want, and being who you are. I say just try and make friends with everyone. Switch up your lunch tables. Join some clubs. Run for student council. Get involved. Be active. Talk to kids in your class, in the halls, everywhere. Just be a talking machine a casually strike up a convo..if they says something along the lines of "you suck"-well then that's their loss and they are obviously not the kind of friend you want. The real people who matter will see how great you are! Show off your personality and humor. Tell a joke to your class just randomly or do something dorky. Just show your true colors. Have fun. Don't be afraid. What do you have to lose? These snobby people are no better than you-we're all equals! :)
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