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Question Posted Friday November 19 2004, 5:57 pm

I have a crush on a teacher of mine and I can't get over him. What should I do?

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pRiiNcEsS_bRyT answered Friday November 19 2004, 9:19 pm:
hes a teacher and hes like alot older then u and think about it....can u imge havin sex wit him gross it will gross u out....lol ull stop likin him! good luck!

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OneWordAnswer answered Friday November 19 2004, 8:42 pm:
dont

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AdviceKitty answered Friday November 19 2004, 7:32 pm:
Take a deep breath,is not the end of the world.
I recommend u to think of the reasons of why do u like him.Dont try to stop liking him,it may get worst.No one can control what person to like,its more of the heart's job.Give it time,dont do anything stupid,being real,its not possible,try not to get hurt,with time u will not forget him,but u will get over it.Enjoy having a crush even if its impossible,try to see all the positive sides,and let the time pass...

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S_C answered Friday November 19 2004, 7:17 pm:
unless you are 18 or older, you have no chance whatsoever, and you need to realize that. Plus, I think even if you were of age, it'd still be against school rules, at least if it's YOUR teacher. Now if it's somebody that teaches at your school, but doesn't actually teach you, and you are both over the age of 18, then it's okay. I have a slight crush on this one teacher Mr. Denton, he is a youth minister type of person at my friends church, and he teacher honors alg.2, so I have no chance w/ him, especially since I'm a freshman, and I have a boyfriend. But at one point or another, everybody will like one of their teachers or think they're hot. I mean, I think my 2nd period teacher is sooo pretty, and even though I hate my 4th period teacher, when she puts her hair up, she's all right looking, and then there's this one other teacher Ms Marburger (related to Tim Marburger, you know, the car dealership people) well she's pretty, she just needs a new wardrobe(They're all girls, I'm a girl, I don't float that boat, sail that ship, or tickle that pickle) but it's okay to think a teacher is really pretty or hot, but to have a crush on them is soooo weird. Do you like have fantasies? Wait, I don't want to know that. But really, you'll have to try to realize it's never going to happen. Try you're hardest to impress that teacher so you can pass his/her class, so you won't be his or her student anymore, so no pressure, and you won't have to see that teacher everyday. If you are in middle school, then hey, I had the biggest crush on this one teacher Mr. Trojan (haha, I love the name) also I thought this one teacher Mr.Wilhoit was pretty good looking (he was like partially bald at the top, but like, he'd look ugly with hair, and he was the coolest ever!) So it's normal to think they're hot, or if you're in 6th or 7th grade, but if you're a high schooler, or in college, then it won't happen unless you're 18 or older. Just admit it to your self out loud. "I have no chance" "It's illegal" "No chance, illegal" Keep saying that to yourself, and you'll get over it. Good luck, sorry for trailing off into my little world. <3 K a t e <3

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Mercy_x_Me answered Friday November 19 2004, 7:07 pm:
uhh.. well i guess a crush is a crush and there's nothing to do besides.... learn it would NEVER work out. gl

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sUnsEt_rOO18 answered Friday November 19 2004, 6:17 pm:
thats really gross..

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askmeimaguy answered Friday November 19 2004, 6:15 pm:
well how i got over a girl i liked was saying outloud i have no chance over over agian i really helped me try it it really works

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HunniBunni answered Friday November 19 2004, 6:12 pm:
Holy cow a teacher, first of all if you have a crush on a teacher apparently your young and he's old..(good way to stay the obvious) but seriously, even if you did have a relationship with this teacher it is illegal and against the law and if you really care about him THEN U WOULDN'T WANT TO GET HIM INTO JAIL if your with him. Make sure you mind your distance becuz people realize things quickly and spread roomers and then the teacher will be fired and u wont see him again :O! But really it is only puppy love, and he's is probably to old for you. Write me some feedback. Hope I helped! Rate me!

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AsKmE135 answered Friday November 19 2004, 6:07 pm:
Focus on someone else.. like a cute guy in some of ur classes. Try to pick a guy thats in that same class that u have the teacher with.. so u will be thinking about him instead of ur teacher. If all u have is a crush, then ull get over it soon.

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confusedbabii answered Friday November 19 2004, 6:05 pm:
one, how old are you? two, i'm pretty sure that a student teacher relationship is illegal, and three, if you are under the age of sixteen, stay away from him. is the teacher married? don't do anything you'll regret because in a summer issue of CosmoGirl magazine there was a girl who was fifteen and got with her basketball coach/teacher and when word got out he was arrested. just tryin ta help.

xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*

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FrEe2bMe answered Friday November 19 2004, 6:04 pm:
Well, this is a tough sitiation. I've been around teachers my whole life since my mom has worked in education for as long as I have been alive. I could see how you could think some younger teachers are cute and even the crush part; but for several serious reasons you can not let it excallate into ANYTHING more. You teacher could get serious trouble and you'd get caught up in the whole thing. Think about the whole Mary-Katy Laturno case. I thjink the best thing to do is to think of you teacher as more of an authorirty figure than a crush. Tell yourself that he's alot older and by the time you are his age he'll be an old timer. Try to find yourself a different crush. And if worst comes to worst, ask you parents and guidance couselor to switch you out of his class. Good luck. :)

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