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my gym class ..
im in 8th grade (13 / female) and well in my gym class this year i have like no one to talk to.. there's the popular girls that somehow have the same class together .. the unpopulars, the geeks, the preps, and some of the jocks, and then there's me .. i dont really fit in to any of those categories (i guess i`m just average) .. well heres the real problem i actually do have a friend in my class, lets call her Monica but she doesnt even look at me, I guess shes embarassed to be seen with me or something cuz the whole class long she hangs out with this girl lets call her Jessica. And well when they hang out together their like all BFF and they really kinda arent .. anyways should i tell Monica or not ( like she knows i want to switch classes but i never told her why) . .what should i do ?
p.s. sorry its so long and kind of confusing
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Lol, don't worry most are longer and ..confusinger? Neways, try going up to her. Maybe she doesn't think you want to hang out with her.
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uuuugh darling this middle school things of "the popular kids" or whatever is such b/s dont be like those dumb kids you hang out with people because they are nice and they see you as a real friend unlike "monica" if anything that girl sounds like a HUGE b***h! you seem nice hang out with the so called "geeks" its better to have true friends than "cool people friends" that treat you like shit. if it makes you feel better change your classes!!!!!
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If Monica is your true friend then she will undersand how you feel. Be honest with her and tell her you are effected by this. Tell her you need to talk to her and explain everything. If she blows it off and pretends it never came up then she isn't a good friend. I'm sure you are very nice and will find another good friend.
xOx Emmz
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if monica is your friend, she should never be embarrassed 2 chill w/u. to be sure that this is the reason, heres wut u do. when she hangs w/jessica, go up 2 her and chill w/them. if she acts all embarrassed, then tell her and switch classes. u shouldnt have 2 fit into a category cuz u are an individual and it should always stay that way. hope i helped ya!
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It seems like Monica isn't a true friend if she is embarressed to be seen with you. You might want to find a new friend or a group of new friends. Or you can just tell Monica how you feel and if she's a true friend, she'll apologize and start hanging around with you again. If she can't decide what to do, ask if she can introduce you to Jessica and take things from there! Hope everything goes well!
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that happened to me one year.. yeah it does suck and i was in the same grade/same age as you too! i just made friends with people ididnt expect to become friends with..turned out fine!! try staying in the class..itll all turn out great!--rachael
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im average also and i try to make as many friends as possible and if she doesnt look at you just start talking to the person next you if the doesnt work switch classes
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Oh i know how you feel-I was lucky to have friends in gym this year. But last year was like that-I knew one person but she didnt really hang out with me. I would switch classes, seriously. You could try to make friends but switching classes is what I'd do.
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Maybe u could try to make some friends ur class. Like see if there is someone else who looks like he/she doesnt have anyone to talk to either, and then start talking to him/her.
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