Question Posted Tuesday November 23 2004, 11:59 am
i have been really good friends with this guy william and finally went out and we never kissed we just cuddled all the time. But know he just wants a peice of ass what do i do???
FrEe2bMe answered Tuesday November 23 2004, 12:13 pm: Well, from the information you have provided it just sounds like this guy is using you and taking advantageo f the fact that you have serious feelings for him, a long history, and are good friends. Don't let him do that; it's so not right. If you give in to what he wants, or "put out" he'll NEVER respect you and continue to do this to you thus you will wind up getting hurt. He'll then move on to the next girl and do it to her. It's an endless cycle. You need to stand up for yourself. You need to put your foot down and let him nkow that you ar more than just a "piece of ass" and that you have standards and morals. Lay it out on the line for him. Tell him that you like him and ar interested in a RELATIONSHIP. If that's what he's going to be able to gibve you then give him a chance (2 weeks or so) to show that he's changed. If he during this time trys to get you to do things you don't want; ditch him. It may suck at the time, but you'll be doing yourself a favor, and him one also in the long run. Find yourself a guy that wants a piece of you HEART, BRAIN, PERSONALITY..the things that really count! :) [ FrEe2bMe's advice column | Ask FrEe2bMe A Question ]
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