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Every day after school, I get on the computer. I talk to this guy that I like. (He can only stay on the computer until 5:30 PM.) Before I met him, I would work out every day at 4. Reccently, I've been starting working out later, like at 4:30. Whenever I tell him I have to go, he always says, "Don't leave me." or "I want you to stay!" I really want to stay and talk to him, but I know I'll be sorry if I don't work out. Do you think I'm right to sign off at 4:30? I like him, and I like to exercise, I really don't want to give up either. (Unfortunately, we do NOT live in the same state so "hanging out" is not an option. And the only time I can talk to him is between 3:30 and 4:30.) Am I just wasting my time?
I feel bad about leaving him at 4:30, because I really do want to stay. But I like it because it leaves him in suspense and makes him want to talk to me more. Any opinions? (link)
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I think you should definitly work out. If you stay, it will sound desperate. And when you talk to him the next day, it's more special, because you had to leave early. Get it?
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im 16/f and my b/f thinks im too clingy but i don't know how iam help? what should i do? (link)
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hey
well, you should talk to him about it to find out exactly what you are doing wrong. cause if you dont talk to him about it, you will never know.
if you try to talk to him about it, and he withdraws, not fully answering your question, give him a little space. try not to be the first to IM or call him everytime. if he seems happier, then just stay that way and gradually become close again. if he still withdraws, i'd talk to him again, asking him exacttlyyy how i am being clingy.
you should get it straight with him - that way problems will be solved instead of being guessed on.
if you totally ignore him for like, a week, and he STILL says you are clingy, i'd be kinda curious as to why he keeps saying that.
every relationship needs a little space - so some days just hang out with your girls :) if it's one of your first relationships, girls tend to become a little clingy, fearing rejection because they dont want to lose her loved one.
if it's not one of your first relationships, then you'd be smart enough to consider what's happening... and perhaps a break-up would be necessary - but VERY VERY doubtful. so i wouldn't go there right now.
give him at least a couple weeks to sort things out.
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do masturbating and sex have the same feeling? idk. i saw someone ask something like this. but not with masturbating. and would a doctor ever be able to tell if you masturbate. btw im 13/f.and i really cant have my mom/dad knowing if the doctor DOES find out. (link)
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1) same feeling.
2) he could tell if you masturbated with like a huge dildo or something haha
3) its illegal for a doctor to say anything without your permission to your parents, so you dont have to worry about that
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Please!!!!! help. I am a 13 year old girl. I am pretty small (5 ft, 87 pounds). I want to know if I am getting my period period. I have had pubic and armpit hair for like a couple years and I have had discharge for probably a year. OKAY HERE IS THE STORY! On Sunday, I noticed some blood when I was going to the bathroom, I decided I would worry about it if it happened again, then when I went to the bathroom yesterday there was a little bit of blood, and that happened again today. It is not that much blood though so I am not sure if it is my period or not, or is it a sign my period is coming? PLEASE HELP OR IF YOU DO NOT KNOW JUST TELL ME YOUR IDEAS! PLEASE, THANKS! (link)
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hey
dont worry, girl! your period might be beginning to come with small amounts of blood. gradually, every month, the amount of blood will increase (probably over the next year) to regularize.
however if the blood is non-stop for over 2 weeks, like a little everyday, i'd go to the doctor cause although it may be your period, it may not be - it could be an infection or something wrong in your vajj.
if it lasts for like, 5-7 days, and then stops, congrats! you have probably begun the first stages of womanhood.
if you do get your period, youre going to want to use pads to start off because it will be on and off for a few months until it regularizes.
after about a year, you should consider using tampons. the only people that say tampons "hurt" are the girls who are either...
trying it for the first time
doing it wrong
putting it in when they dont have their period fully
or just plain lying cause they haven't done it!
you should never be able to feel a tampon in you - EVER! or you are doing it wrong. tampons do not hurt.
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So yeah mines not on private for the people at my school.and i wanna make it private. how do i? (link)
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1) privacy at top
2) click on profile (1st one!)
3)click on the box that says
"Profile
You can control who can see your profile — your friends can always see your profile, and you can allow all your networks or some of your networks to see your profile." and select only my friends!
if you need more help ask me!
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do masturbating and sex have the same feeling? idk. i saw someone ask something like this. but not with masturbating. and would a doctor ever be able to tell if you masturbate. btw im 13/f.and i really cant have my mom/dad knowing if the doctor DOES find out. (link)
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hey
well you can masturbate while having sex, so yes, you can have the same feeling:
no. a doctor cannot tell if you masturbate. only you know :). and dont be embarassed if your parents ever do find out that you masturbate. it's completely normal and natural. nothing to be ashamed about.
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There is someone in my house. The phoneline is dead and I am typing very carefully so he doensnt hear me. I don't know what to do my heart is beating out of my chest. I'm on the third floor, i don't recognize the car outside and there's a huge racket downstairs. HELP (link)
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If the phoneline is dead, then how are you on the internet?
EDIT-- You said: "eff you thank goodness i turned out okay"
Well, obviously, this is a fake question. Unless your computer magically runs off of cheese.
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There is someone in my house. The phoneline is dead and I am typing very carefully so he doensnt hear me. I don't know what to do my heart is beating out of my chest. I'm on the third floor, i don't recognize the car outside and there's a huge racket downstairs. HELP (link)
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hey
shhh just relax. i'm sure it's nothing - but if something IS going on, just stay calm and don't make any noise.
do not open any doors or make any noise. do you have a cell phone? text message one of your parents or call the police. stay upstairs and lock your door.
if it gets worse (the racket), go on the internet to the police e-mailing service.
just don't worry. make sure your parents come home soon, okay?
good luck.
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when you put toothpaste on your zits, does it go away? and why
cause i have it on right now hoping it will go away lol (link)
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yeppp it works. what you should do is put it on the zit(s) before you go to bed, but make sure its well dry before sleeping otherwise it'll get on the pillows and wont work!
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I was wondering how you make the little trade mark sign on the computer. Like this but smaller: tm (link)
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http://www.freecodesource.com/index.php?page=myspacecodes/characters
well its & trade ; no spaces but thats all the ones and they work on this site too
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i swallow my gum atleast once a day
what are the negative effects of this ? (link)
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its not good to... but its not horrible if you do.
like ppl say it stays in your system for 5 years, no. youd have a huge wad cogging your intestines. but it goes out every 24 hours, so if it only one piece a day, you should be ok. juts try not to do it anymore!
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Do you actually blow the guys penis when you give a blowjob? Or do you just put your mouth on it? (link)
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well i know that people say you "lick" a girls vaj. but licking doesn't feel good for 99% of the female population - rather sucking the clit feels good.
however for males, you actually do have to suck it. just put your moth on it and go in a forward / backward motion. just make sure you dont put your teeth on it. the guy would feel no pleasure if you just put your mouth on it... so try to get it harder and softer while you suck.
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ok i have two questions.. at what age do most girl lose their virginity and how far have most girls gone by age 14 or 15
i would love as many answers as possible thanks in advance! (link)
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hey
well for the first question, probably around 16, 17, or 18 at the youngest.
i'm fourteen, and i haven't even had my first kiss yet. but i am assuming that most 14-year-olds have gotten up to 2nd base. maybe even third for 15-year-olds.
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15/f
I have constant discharge. It NEVER stops. It just gets heavier sometimes. Is the constant discharge release bad? (link)
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Nope, it's not bad. Mine is like that too. I'm sure that almost everyone's is.
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Hello, you said not to part of comb hair when wet. what is the reasoning to this?
Surely if I let my hair dry to the max with a towel wrapped around it it will look terrible?
My hair is difficult, its fairly wavy and frizzy mostly at the end, I would like a flat straight look. Thankyou (link)
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Well, see I'm no expert... This is just what I have been doing forever.
You said:
"I'm told it is thick hair, and fairly straight, slightly wavy."
Mine is the same. It's super thick, wavy at the back and bottom, not much on the sides. It's kind of straight on the sides. So, I answered your question because I thought that since we have the same hair, it would work for you.
Putting it in a pony tail, makes your hair not be able to go through the rubberband, causing it to dry slower. (I'm answering from experience.) It takes mine forever to dry in a ponytail, too.
If you towel-dry it enough so that it is damp, then air-drying will let it dry alot faster than a ponytail. I'm also saying air-dry it because it gives it it's natural body. Combing it will make it flat at the top and ew. And finding the natural part will make it flat and greasyish. Just wait until it's almost dry to part and comb it. That's all I can say, because I really don't know what your hair looks like, or how you want it. If you want the flat-straight look, I suggest dampening it, then blow-drying while combing. Or best of all: buy a cheap straightener. They're only like $10-$20.
Here's MY routine after a shower:
Squeeze it out, towel-dry it until it's damp, get dressed, towel-dry more, letting it air dry (NOT in a towel, just..down) and once it's almost dry, I comb and part it.
Eh, I'm confusing, I know.
But, anything else, I'll try to help. :)
Btw- I'm 15.
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Okiies now ii need to ok
111- for perm straight
or
222-to straighten every dayy
just type the number whiich ii should do
Okiies thx =D Not ver hard lols (link)
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hey
111.
like the girl under me said, straightening your hair EVERYDAY is very bad for it. so is blowdrying your hair (everyday) and / or putting lots and lots of hair products (including shampoo). it is recommended that you wash your hair every other day, or a few times a week. (although i dont.. i wash it everyday.)
although getting a perm straight will be expensive, it would be wayy less damaging to your hair than straightening it everyday.
so definitely get a perm straight.
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13/f
My hair is really flat and greasy at the top, and then all sticky-outy and frizzy at the bottom. Does anyone know how to solve this problem?
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Shampoo the top (LOTS AT THE TOP) and bottom of your hair (it doesn't matter what kind, but suave declarifying is the best) then rinse it out. Condition just the bottom then rinse it out.
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I'm from upstate New York..
Can someone tell me why everyone loves Paris in the rain? I always hear it in the songs/movies I have. (link)
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hey
i've been to paris, and even though it may seem depressing and dark in the rain, paris is always a beautiful city.
you know how in movies, the couple always kisses in the rain? that probably has to do with it. it's probably something romantic, but it can also be because of all the beautiful buildings and, of course, the eiffel tower. i think it's just that paris is ALWAYS beautiful no matter what.
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I'm searching for plane tickets to travel this summer, which is high season..it seems that tickets keep getting more and more expensive. Are there any websites that offer (relatively) cheap tickets? I've tried orbitz, travelocity, etc. etc.., so please don't suggest any major, well-known company, they're all about the same. If there's some sort of relatively unknown website that specializes in overseas, wholesale travel, please let me know. Thanks!! (link)
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im not sure if you have looked at any of these websites... some of them are from the UK (i dont know where your planning on flying from): -
http://www.travelsupermarket.com/travelmerge/travelsearch.aspx?package=4
http://www.expedia.co.uk/default.aspx
http://travel.kelkoo.co.uk/b/a/c_172201_flights.html
http://www.cheapflights.co.uk/ or you can try www.cheapflights.com
http://www.lastminute.com/site/travel/flights
http://www.ebookers.com/
http://www.flybmi.com/bmi/en-gb/fb/cheap_airline_tickets.aspx?p=201
i hope that these sites were of some help... if not i found that the following site was very usefull (http://www.artoftravel.com/04cheapflights.htm)
i hope i helped
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Hey ima 13/f and i have this boyfriend and we kiss and stuff but we wanna french kiss and i need some tips on how i do it can you help remember TIP'S !! please i no i sound mean im just stressed sorry. But please can you help ?? (link)
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i agree with the other advice given, and it will come naturally... and you will get better. but i looked on the internet about kissing and found some websites that i thought might be helpful:-
http://links2love.com/teens_kissing.htm
http://www.partyhearty.com/kissingadvice.html
http://www.poemsandlove.com/matchmaking/poems43.aspx
http://www.thekiss.com/
http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveSCat/170
http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveSCat/170
i hope these help =D
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