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Every day after school, I get on the computer. I talk to this guy that I like. (He can only stay on the computer until 5:30 PM.) Before I met him, I would work out every day at 4. Reccently, I've been starting working out later, like at 4:30. Whenever I tell him I have to go, he always says, "Don't leave me." or "I want you to stay!" I really want to stay and talk to him, but I know I'll be sorry if I don't work out. Do you think I'm right to sign off at 4:30? I like him, and I like to exercise, I really don't want to give up either. (Unfortunately, we do NOT live in the same state so "hanging out" is not an option. And the only time I can talk to him is between 3:30 and 4:30.) Am I just wasting my time?
I feel bad about leaving him at 4:30, because I really do want to stay. But I like it because it leaves him in suspense and makes him want to talk to me more. Any opinions?
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I think you should definitly work out. If you stay, it will sound desperate. And when you talk to him the next day, it's more special, because you had to leave early. Get it?
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It is a waste of time, I'd honestly like to work out instead of talking to somebody I know that I'm most likely not going to meet. If you've never even met this guy, he could be a creep, and sure there are some really good computer whizzes out there and they can make it seem like they're real. You can talk to him a bit, but don't fall for him.
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It's okay, I don't go around answering people's questions saying that they're slutty 12 year olds, and I didn't call you that either. You just asked if it was a waste of time, and I said it was. Idk where you got that I called you a slutty myspace whore, but I didn't and I don't think that. =)
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He doesn't live in the same state as you, so yeah -- you are wasting your time. Besides, he could be like this 50 yr old lonely guy who's idol is Michael Jackson & who gets fiesty with himself from child pornography.
If you know for certain he's not -- which I doubt you do -- just exercise after he signs off.
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I am sorry but yes you are wasting your time. I know you may not want to hear this but if you two live in two differnt states there is no reason to have this realtionship. I say go workout. yes you can still talk to him but dont feel bad. And yeah its great that you have someone to talk to but its not gunna work out in the end so dont sweat it just be friends and yeah still talk but work out and have funn.
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