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im 16/f and my b/f thinks im too clingy but i don't know how iam help? what should i do?
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Most generally, when a guy says you're clingy it means that you are always hanging around him and not giving him enough space. I think you should talk to him about it, and ask him exactly what he means by "clingy." Listen to what he has to say, then try to work on the things he says are bothering him, if you feel they are both relevant and important to work on.
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From my persepectice, males tend to be dominant and enjoy having there space. to keep a well realation ship you don't have to see and call him every minute of the day. He would just like some time with himself and friends.
The key problem is Space.
Well, Good Luck
NaptownPrep
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Well, are you clingy? And if you are, he's right. Anyways, try to catch yourself when you start talking about making plans day after day. Wait for him to call you and call him every once in a while.
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you just need to give him his space ...let him hang out with his friends too ..not just you. just be more flexible and not soo attached to him... just basically give him alittle space and dont use baby talk alot of my guy friends get annoyed by that ..hope i helped alittle
-katie
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okay clingy may mean a few things
you always touching on other guys infront of him.
or your to emotional torwards other guys
a way that you can stop it is i would talk to your
boyfriend about it and just ask him how your being clingy and think of ways how you can stop it
...........you never know he could just be saying that because your not giveing him enough attention
~*hope i helped*~
SARAH
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Ask him what you're doing wrong & what you're doing to be "clingy." Then try to fix it.
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hey
well, you should talk to him about it to find out exactly what you are doing wrong. cause if you dont talk to him about it, you will never know.
if you try to talk to him about it, and he withdraws, not fully answering your question, give him a little space. try not to be the first to IM or call him everytime. if he seems happier, then just stay that way and gradually become close again. if he still withdraws, i'd talk to him again, asking him exacttlyyy how i am being clingy.
you should get it straight with him - that way problems will be solved instead of being guessed on.
if you totally ignore him for like, a week, and he STILL says you are clingy, i'd be kinda curious as to why he keeps saying that.
every relationship needs a little space - so some days just hang out with your girls :) if it's one of your first relationships, girls tend to become a little clingy, fearing rejection because they dont want to lose her loved one.
if it's not one of your first relationships, then you'd be smart enough to consider what's happening... and perhaps a break-up would be necessary - but VERY VERY doubtful. so i wouldn't go there right now.
give him at least a couple weeks to sort things out.
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