Member Since: April 18, 2007
Answers: 16
Last Update: April 18, 2007
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my family is really messed up. my mom can't stand up for herself,and shes such a jerk. my brother keeps saying im fat and i was wearing shorts and he said "you shouldn't be wearing those when your legs look like that". and he always takes away my things,he took away my purse,now i can't get it back. i'm only 13 and i feel like everyone is putting me down and taking things like im a baby.i really need to know how can i lift my confidence up and be happier and be stronger? (link)
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I feel were you are coming from. I'm always pushed around and made fun of. You just need to notice all the good qualities in yourself. If other people can't see them it's their problem, but as long as you know you shouldn't have any problems. Don't change yourself no matter how much they try to break you down. Hope this has helped you. =)
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im am a serious needle phobic. like i know its not a fear. like if i hear someone say i need a shot or that im getting a needle or blood shot i go ballistic. like yo udont know how scared i am of them. im a 14/f. last summer i didnt need one thank god. but the year before i did. and it was crazy. they had to have 10 nurses in the room.. they had 5 on top of me..i kicked my doctor in the balls (but that was by accident haha lol) i start crying and everything and i hyperventalate to the point where they have to stop what there doing and help me breathe. liek i cant get a shot! and its horrible. i got my blood test done where they had to put the needle in my arm once. my mom hasnt taken me back yet because she was hugging me and i grabbed her hair and ripped part of it out. like i cant stand needles. what can i do to not be soo afraid of it? (link)
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i have heard that hypnosys works really good, i know someone who witnessed one of their friends getting hypnotysed...i say you give it a try
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I'm Christian and when i masturbate i feel like I'm sinning from what I've seen on here (people on here say it is) Christians aren't allowed to. is that true. also I'm presbyterian not catholic so i don't have confessionals to confess if it is.. so if it is how can i un-sin lol.
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eww
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do masturbating and sex have the same feeling? idk. i saw someone ask something like this. but not with masturbating. and would a doctor ever be able to tell if you masturbate. btw im 13/f.and i really cant have my mom/dad knowing if the doctor DOES find out. (link)
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we do not know we are not all sluts like you
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Please!!!!! help. I am a 13 year old girl. I am pretty small (5 ft, 87 pounds). I want to know if I am getting my period period. I have had pubic and armpit hair for like a couple years and I have had discharge for probably a year. OKAY HERE IS THE STORY! On Sunday, I noticed some blood when I was going to the bathroom, I decided I would worry about it if it happened again, then when I went to the bathroom yesterday there was a little bit of blood, and that happened again today. It is not that much blood though so I am not sure if it is my period or not, or is it a sign my period is coming? PLEASE HELP OR IF YOU DO NOT KNOW JUST TELL ME YOUR IDEAS! PLEASE, THANKS! (link)
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That would be a YES!!!
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im 16/f and my b/f thinks im too clingy but i don't know how iam help? what should i do? (link)
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Well, are you clingy? And if you are, he's right. Anyways, try to catch yourself when you start talking about making plans day after day. Wait for him to call you and call him every once in a while.
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Ok i dont think this is in the right category but w/e. this girl like hates me and 2 of my friends. she keeps saying to me she wont do anything if we dont and im like i wont but she keeps saying that all these people wanna fight us ( and long story short she doesnt like us for the stupidest reason ) anyway im really afraid someone will just come out of nowhere and start fighting me...i dont know how to fight!! lol we already talked to our guidance counselor and she said to work it out and be mature..what are we supposed to do if they keep threatening us? (link)
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Honestly, My advice to you is to take karate lessons and go beat her up. Stupid guidance councilers made me the way I am.
Long live the emo's!!!!! (which is me)
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im 15 and if i went to planned parenthood to get birth control would i have to pay for it? also, since you have to get that pelvic exam too does that cost anything? and could i just walk in or do i need an appointment? oh yeah, lol could i have my boyfriend come in the room with me or should i have him stay in the car? (link)
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SKANK!
Why the HELL are you having sex at age 15!? Phsyco much? Are you trying to get diseased!? I mean like, have you heard about AIDS and herpes and crap? And recently they've been making a big deal about human pepaloma virus, and guess what the vaccination for that is...A NEEDLE STUCK UP YOUR BUT! I'm sorry if you think I'm offending you but I am just being real with you. So I think you need to get some serious HELP!!!!!
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im white, not ghostly white but white. ive been going tanning for like 2 months now and ive gotten a little tanner. im going to chicago at the end of may for a wedding and for some reason i want to be a lot tanner by then lol. i know tanning is bad already, but is going tanning every other day really bad? i just really want to get tan and going every couple of days isnt enough. and everytime i take a shower i get whiter, its dumb. (link)
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OMG!! Everyother day could make you like radioactive or something if you want a tan then move to Florida!!!
Personally, I think that if you take a shower and get whiter, that you need a new tanning place.
Also, tanning every other day is really, REALLY bad. I'd try tanning once every week instead. Ask people you know that tan, because they can give you more info.
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hey,
how do you make a video (not really a slideshow..) of pictures?
cause people have them on utube all the time and i want to know how.
all i have is picasa if that helps.
oh, also, if anyone has picasa, how do you edit the pictures so that the color is like dull and faded?
thanks. (link)
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photobucket.com
its hard to explain, but i think you will be able to figure it out
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I have a strapless dress for prom this year. Should I buy like, a little shrug or jacket to go with it to cover myself up while I'm at dinner and whatnot? I'm not used to/too comfortable showing that much skin.
Thanks=) (link)
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Yes, just in case you get cold.
Look: If you got it, flaunt it. If you don't, wear the jacket babe! (For everyone's sake.)
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ok, so i'm 15/f and i'm gay, it's not too big a deal in my community, but i am still worried about coming out because there are some people who would kind of shun me and such. Anyways, there is this girl who is 17 and she's a lesbian, and i kind of like her, but that doesn't really matter because she has a girlfriend and i would never want to come between them. anyways, i kind of would like to just talk to her about it and stuff because i look up to her a lot, and the only person i can talk to is my best friend, who is cool with me being gay, but not too helpful since she's straight.
anyhow, this 17 year old girl thinks i'm straight probably and i want to start dropping hints, not just towards her, to everyone that i'm gay because i really dont want to just come out and say it.
what should i do? wear, act, say.......??? please help, I feel like if i just said i was gay I would lose some of my friends, and also because people would be like, so what we don't care, like it doesn't matter enough to just announce it, lol
ok if anyone-gay or straight, has any tips for dropping hints that would be awesome.
thanks in advance, if I don't like your advice i won't rate you bad i promise (link)
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Okay, the first thing I want to say is that, if you lose friends over being gay, they were never your true friends. It's corny and cheesy, but whatever-it's true. I don't know how you know her, whether it's school or whatever, but you guys should try and hang out a little more. If you get to know her more, you'll probably become close and it will be easier to drop hints and to just come out and say you like her.
God bless the lesbians!!!
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so all the guy friends i have either have girlfriends or they're into me... i know that sounds really conceded... but almost all my guy friends have asked me out, and if i say no (which i always do) then things are forever more akward with us... so my question is, is there any way to keep all my guy friends uninterested? or atleast make thing un-akward with us when they are? (link)
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Maybe its what you wear. Like if you dress like a skank well guys find it hard to resist. Get less guy friends. Tell them your a lesbo or something IDK just do something.
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ok so everyone always talks about how good sex feels. but it sounds so painful to me. i mean i know orgasm that's supposed to feel good and stuff but whats the point in doing everything else if it hurts so much and there are so many risks involved? sorry this might be weird i am just wondering... (link)
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Look: if your not ready your not ready. Take it from me i have experience and I wish I could take it back. If it hurts DO NOT DO IT.
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my bff is a guy and he can never come over since my dad found out we loved eachother we usde to do everything together now we can do nothing unless i sneak out. me and him hug we kiss but hes my bestfriend only not a boyfriend. so how can i make it so he can come over as friends? is it bad to kiss hug and 3times makeout with your bestfriend? my brother could do everything when he was 13 but i cant even have my bestfriend over. my brother when he was 10 had his first girlfriend she always came over and whent in his room and i cant even have my bestfriend over? what do i do? if i bring it up about my brother it makes it worse. but do you think thats fair? 13/f (link)
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Your dad is just worried. You are the GIRL, so you can get pregnant. If he can't go over your house say you are going to the mall with friends and meet up with him there. Talk in school and stuff as much as you can. Go on a co-ed team for sports, it will give you more to talk about and you will be together more. Maybe you should talk to your dad more to see if he can loosen up a bit. WHEN you talk to him, make sure he's in a good mood, when he's chilling out or watching the game or whatever. (guys zone out during while watching sports, so thats perfect, plus, if he gets mad, he'll forget about it later because he'll be so into the game that he'll just forget about his anger towards you) good luck! hope i helped
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15/f 110lbs
i know im skinny and i dont want to loose weight. i want to gain muscle without loosing fat. im worried if i work out that im going to loose the little body fat i have but i dont know any other way to gain muscle other than to work out. i mainly just want to build muscle in my arms because they're a little scrawney looking. (link)
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Just mostly stay toward weights, and push ups. That is the simpleist way to gain muscle. Also, I am sure you can look up some good excersizes on Google. Google has everything. You don't want to do tredmill or other machines either those are mostly for fat, trust me i have a trainer. Good luck, and hope I helped you!
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