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she wants to fight us
Ok i dont think this is in the right category but w/e. this girl like hates me and 2 of my friends. she keeps saying to me she wont do anything if we dont and im like i wont but she keeps saying that all these people wanna fight us ( and long story short she doesnt like us for the stupidest reason ) anyway im really afraid someone will just come out of nowhere and start fighting me...i dont know how to fight!! lol we already talked to our guidance counselor and she said to work it out and be mature..what are we supposed to do if they keep threatening us?
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Hello, don't be to precipitate with your actions. IN my perspective the best choice, would be to confront these girls and try to resolve the promble with out violence. Also, do not comfort them imperiously or in a ignorant fashion: talk to them as an adult not belligerent. Make sure you all talk together and resolve the problem.
Well, Good Luck
NaptownPrep
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Honestly, My advice to you is to take karate lessons and go beat her up. Stupid guidance councilers made me the way I am.
Long live the emo's!!!!! (which is me)
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While there are some guidance counsellors who are actually good at what they do a lot of them are flakey or have no clue how to help teens with most of the issues they are confronted for.
As far as I'm concerned they're good for keeping student records and printing up your transcripts for college. Other than that, they aren't liscensed to be councillors nor do most have the training from my expieriences with the same and other issues that you raise.
Basically, with guidance counsellors don't approach them for a job that only a liscensed and therapist or psychiatrist can handle. I've often got downright scary/dangerous advice from them.
Now, that that rant is done what you need to know is that this girl is using the classic threats all bullies use. She wants you and your friends to be scared of being atacked as she can get a rise out of you and feel empowered.
The reality is that she's bluffing and nobody will be attacking anyone or it would have happened already. It's all smoke and mirrors and a scare tactic to have you all afraid of her when in fact she probably cannot fight herself and wouldn't be able to handle herself if it were a reality.
There's a remote, miniscule amount in fact that maybe she is wanting to fight and has pals who want to do so with her but in all likihood she's just trying to scare you.
What should you do? Well you can tell your teacher and principal what has been going on and tell them the guidance counsellor brushed you off completely and that you're getting annoyed nobody cares.
If they don't find a way to help you hae your parents and your friend's parents approach the school. If unsatisfied then grab our local paper (the one that comes with all the fliers) and phone the editor and ask if you can write a letter or editorial in your own words about being bullied that points out the school didn't care.
In fact, telling school officials thi with your parents present gets them to back pedal and bend over backwards as they don't want negative attention at all from the media.
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If they were going to fight you, they would have by now. Just ignore them.
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First of all, do everything in your power to not allow her to continue threatening you. Avoid her, block her online, don't speak to her at all. If she keeps threatening you despite your best attempts to stay away from her, do the mature thing and contact another adult, run for help, or call the cops.
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okay one thing i laerned about fighting is dont sit there and be scared and have a negative attitude because if they know your scared there just going to keep on bothering you because thats what i would do.So if they come up to you and be like ~~~for example~~~she says:oh i heard so and so wanted to fight you just be like umm okay tell them to bring it like i care:Just come back with a good come back and if she says something to you and you cant think of a good comeback just be like oh for real thats cool ya know it always pisses them off.
~*hope i helped*~
SARAH
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