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i just got a motorola z3 and its a mp3 player, i use motorola phone tools , and when i hook my phone to the usb cord and click on motorola phone tools it says "a required .DLL file, MSVCR80.DLL, was not found." what does that mean i have to do ? (link)
MSVCR80.DLL is part of Microsoft .net Framework 2.0.

Aparently uninstalling Windows Defender beta 2 will cure it.

If you dont have Windows Defender beta 2 then obviously this wont work.


Im a married woman who is in to her husband but don't really know how satisfied or into me he is or rather contented with me? I do love him and I know he loves me, but I dont know if he has eyes, feelings, or lust for someone eles.. we used to have lots of sex where he stayed hard but now we are married it is as if we make love once or twice a wk if he is in the mood and if so, he doesn't stay up for long... what can be the problem with sex for us in the bed room? can any one help in answering this question? (link)
Just talk to him, find out what he likes. After a while you will get into a routine it's inevitable. Experiment in the bedroom (or kitchen, living room etc). Doing the same stuff all the time gets boring. Just try some different positions, sexy underware etc.


I got a small penis. Wut should i do? (link)
Live with it.


Well i know there are a lot of good songs that people could use as like "their" song like a couple but idk i like rock/rap music but my boyfriend is more of the country/rap person and we cant decide on a song... i guess he would be ok with pretty much anything.. but if you know any real good ones lemme know thanks (link)
Waiting For a Girl Like You by Foreigner.

A bit old but a great song.


Ok i dont think this is in the right category but w/e. this girl like hates me and 2 of my friends. she keeps saying to me she wont do anything if we dont and im like i wont but she keeps saying that all these people wanna fight us ( and long story short she doesnt like us for the stupidest reason ) anyway im really afraid someone will just come out of nowhere and start fighting me...i dont know how to fight!! lol we already talked to our guidance counselor and she said to work it out and be mature..what are we supposed to do if they keep threatening us? (link)
If they were going to fight you, they would have by now. Just ignore them.


This is probably my fault.. But.. my friends don't ever.. really hang out with me. My old friends that go to a different high school. I've tried contacting some over Myspace and they don't reply [I've seen them online] I don't know what to do.
I miss my old friends. Some ignore me and won't.. hang out with me until I bring it up.
I want my friends to want to hang out with me?
I haven't done anything wrong.. just that we go to different schools.

But they seem so busy with their new friends and they told me.. that I could always go to them to talk about things...

But I have a feeling they won't listen.

I think.. if they really wanted to be my friend or something they would have said something weeks ago or made plans with me..

but they don't .. and I don't say anything either.I don't ALWAYS want to be the one that has to ask or start a conversation. I did before and I feel like the friend that they put on a shelf ... go to for a last resort.

What should I do?

I sometimes go to their high school to see them and they act all happy around me.. but we don't hang out anywhere else or talk [email, phone, myspace, IM]

The thing is.. I'm never busy.. so they can't use that excuse.. :/ (link)
The problem is, as you get older and go your separate ways you meet different people. You can't expect to keep the same friends you had when you were younger. You must have new friends at your new school so spend time with them.


i was wondering if anyone has read any harlan coben books? and if so which would you recommend of Just One Look and Gone For Good? thanks (link)
I would recommend neither. They are very poor. There are far better authors than Coben.


I got a laptop about four months ago and it's always worked fine. However, recently it's been switching itself off for no apparent reason. Without any warning it will just completely shut off, without going through any shutting down processes or anything like that. It's only happened a few times but I don't want it to get any worse.

Does anyone know what the problem is? Or how I could fix it? (link)
If it gets really annoying return it under warrenty (I am assuming your country will allow it) and state the problem. It should be either replaced or repaired under warrenty.


okay guys... how do guys feel about shy girls? like are they willing to get to know them and wait until the girl opens up or do they get totally turned off? help is needed> (link)
A girl you wait for is the best kind of girl.


who said
It is better to keep your mouth shut and appear stupid than to open it and remove all doubt.

or any variation of that? please tell me the variation

mark twain or abraham lincoln? (link)
Mark Twain said it.


I was walking to class, and my cousin went up to me and asks me a question. "Dose your friend Sara have a boyfriend?" I told her "no why?" "Cause I saw her with some guy and they were hugging" so me and my cousin Lily were talking about it till the bell rang and I head to class. My friend Becky is in my class and I ask her "Sara has a boyfriend?" she said "yeah why? Didn’t she tell you?" I told her no. 2 days later, i got a chance to talk to her, (but sha all ready broken up with him because he was annoying her and she never did like him.)
So after school when I was walking home, Sara walked with me because we both live near the school. I ask her "why didn’t you tell me you had a boy friend?" she replied "what!? Oh I thought Becky will tell you" she said in an annoying tone. "Well isn’t supposed to be you saying you do have a bf?" then she got all defensive "I forgot to tell you okay sorry!" I told her to clam down.

Why was she so defensive? Was she embarrassed that I might make fun of her?(because i would'nt)or what was her deal?
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Why are you worrying about it ? It's not the end of the world. She ditched him after 2 days so he wasn't important.


i know this is a weird question to ask on here but ive tried googling it. how do you make your poop harder so its not soft all the time. does it need like calcuim or whatever to help harden it? (link)
Eat a better diet and cut down on fast food.


How do you kiss a guy on the neck? Whenever i'm making out with this guy...i dont really know how to kiss his neck. (link)
Its like kissing him on his lips but on his neck instead. It's not difficult.


Hi I'm 16 year old female and I recently have been experiancing pain in my side near my ribs it mostly hurts really bad when I sneeze. It also hurts whenever I lay on my side and basically just when I make sudden movements. I am playing tennis but haven't had practice all this week so It cant be from that. So if you have any ideas as to what the pain is from or anything please let me know because i'm debating about going to the doctor or not.Thankss (link)
Instead of posting on an internet page about your pain, see a doctor. It's their job.


ok my bff and i have been bff for 2 1/2 years now we are in a major fight. I started ignoring her a week after she started lying to me and changing big time. Shes acting like someone shes not. She finnaly got the clue today and she cant see whats wrong i've tried everything! My other bestfriend is agreeing with me and when my bff talked to her she was saying i was only ignoring you because of this one kid. and i know that is a lie because i am never with that kid because we are in diffferent classes. SHe keeps lieing to us and keeps denying it. i have no clue what to do i have tried everything but she just wont listen! We used to tell eachother everything.

And plz dont msg me saying that shes probably having problems at home because we tel eachother everything and i know her problems at home and i help her vent through them so yea.

Just plz help me! (link)
I can tell by your question that you are not that old. You are only young and you really need to spread yourself about (using contraception !) before you settle down. Don't worry about her. If you are meant to be together then you will, until then just have lots of fun.


K well
I'm just gonna put this plain and simple
What are the biggest turn ons for guys
ex: nibbleing on the ear ect... (link)
Stroking his penis is good, as is licking his nipples


Ok well fat is fat but why do people count carbs and calories as fat too?

Because if calories, carbs and fat were fats in our body why don't they be called fat all together?

How many of each should you absorb a day? (not healthy but possibly what preps intake. Make sure when you tell me the amount of its how many you should take or how many preps take)

THANK YOU! (link)
If you are happy with the way you look then dont worry about what other peple think.


Ok I wrote you about the female boss who easedrops on conversations. Dont get me wrong she is very nice but she does not know how to manage people. Today she was out, as well as her assistant so the boss that our female boss reports to asked Steve (a person from another department) to come and help. A few people in my department questioned Steve on how his department is and Steve said very laid back no one has to ask for permission to get coffee during the day or if they want to go into the break room for a ten minute break. That is when Kathy (my coworker) told Steve how we have to ask permission for everything. And maybe Steve could talk to the big bosses about making him head of our department but if Steve does talk to the big bosses Kathy and the others want to be kept out of the picture. Any way later on in the day Bill (of our employees who has some clout) called over the employees to chew them out and said; do you realize now Steve is not talking to anyone and he is going to go back and tell his boss what you said and who in turn will tell our boss and her boss. And Steve does not have to know all the problems our department is having. Also if you are having problems with our boss talk to her; That is when I said; Dont get me wrong, we all like her as a person but she treats us like children. And any type of problems we have you should address to her not us; Bill said; I will not talk to our boss, it is not my place; After this conversation I saw Steve on the computer working on Power Point. Steve said to me; I am so busy doing a presentation for my department that I do not have any time to talk to any one here: SO MY QUESTION WHAT DO YOU MAKE OF HOW BILL IS INTERPRETING THE ENTIRE CONVERSATION THAT STEVE AND MY COWORKERS HAD. (link)
Office politics is a dangerous thing. I have seen careers ruined over simple disagreements. Once someone has some seniority over others they go on a deranged power trip. I think that is what Bill is doing.
He senses problems in your department and has to stamp down on it before it gets worse.

You shouldn't have spoken to steve about the problems you are having with your boss. It's nothing to do with him. If you want his as a boss, transfer to his department. Don't try and change things as you will only regret it.

If you want rid of your female boss, there are ways to do this.

Evil ways (and you don't even have to go as far as to harm her physically).


18/f
when me and my bf first started doing oral i used to try and swallow his cum, but we had a couple of bad experiences!! first time it all shot to the back of my mouth, must have hit my gag reflex and i nearly choked and started coughing, second time the same thing happened except i nearly threw up!! I had to swallow to stop myself being sick while he was cumming and that made me feel really sick after, i really disliked the texture and taste in my mouth. after this we've been using other methods which don't involve him cumming in my mouth but I know he wants me to try again even if I have to spit it out (he's not pressuring me or anything but I know he would like it and I do owe it to him to try again)... so my question is should i try and swallow it again or hold it in my mouth and go spit it out somewhere.... also any tips on how not to choke, cough or feel sick! Thanks so much! (link)
You dont owe him, If you dont want to swallow then don't. Men are all the same !




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