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Why so defensive?
I was walking to class, and my cousin went up to me and asks me a question. "Dose your friend Sara have a boyfriend?" I told her "no why?" "Cause I saw her with some guy and they were hugging" so me and my cousin Lily were talking about it till the bell rang and I head to class. My friend Becky is in my class and I ask her "Sara has a boyfriend?" she said "yeah why? Didn’t she tell you?" I told her no. 2 days later, i got a chance to talk to her, (but sha all ready broken up with him because he was annoying her and she never did like him.)
So after school when I was walking home, Sara walked with me because we both live near the school. I ask her "why didn’t you tell me you had a boy friend?" she replied "what!? Oh I thought Becky will tell you" she said in an annoying tone. "Well isn’t supposed to be you saying you do have a bf?" then she got all defensive "I forgot to tell you okay sorry!" I told her to clam down.
Why was she so defensive? Was she embarrassed that I might make fun of her?(because i would'nt)or what was her deal?
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She prolly defensive because she never liked the guy to begin with so.. she didn't figure it was imporant and she prolly don't want you bringing it up. Your kinda making a bigger deal about it than you should. Good luck, babe. It will all be fine. She left him after 2 days, so.. just let it go. I would. It don't really matter anymore. *Smiles*. Best Of Luck! <3
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you're over reacting! she just forgot. no one said that she HAS to tell you when she gets a boyfriend, ya know. it's gonna be OOKKKAAAYYY!!
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hey, well i doubt that most of us advicenators could tell you what her deal is. after all, shes your friend and you should know her better than any of us on here. it depends on what the guy looked like and how his personality was. if he was a guy that she wouldnt have normally gone for, she was probably embarrassed of him and thought that you might judge her because of him. the same thing goes if he was an "unpopular" guy. maybe she thought that becky would be more understanding about the whole situation. you should ask her about it again. tell her not to get defensive because your not mad at her for not telling you, your just wondering why she didnt. also another reason is, maybe she thought that you would be jealous? there is tons of different possibilities and its hard just to pinpoint one because i dont know this girl personally.
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Why are you worrying about it ? It's not the end of the world. She ditched him after 2 days so he wasn't important.
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