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friend troubles
This is probably my fault.. But.. my friends don't ever.. really hang out with me. My old friends that go to a different high school. I've tried contacting some over Myspace and they don't reply [I've seen them online] I don't know what to do.
I miss my old friends. Some ignore me and won't.. hang out with me until I bring it up.
I want my friends to want to hang out with me?
I haven't done anything wrong.. just that we go to different schools.
But they seem so busy with their new friends and they told me.. that I could always go to them to talk about things...
But I have a feeling they won't listen.
I think.. if they really wanted to be my friend or something they would have said something weeks ago or made plans with me..
but they don't .. and I don't say anything either.I don't ALWAYS want to be the one that has to ask or start a conversation. I did before and I feel like the friend that they put on a shelf ... go to for a last resort.
What should I do?
I sometimes go to their high school to see them and they act all happy around me.. but we don't hang out anywhere else or talk [email, phone, myspace, IM]
The thing is.. I'm never busy.. so they can't use that excuse.. :/
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The problem is, as you get older and go your separate ways you meet different people. You can't expect to keep the same friends you had when you were younger. You must have new friends at your new school so spend time with them.
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