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he hurts my feelings.
my family is really messed up. my mom can't stand up for herself,and shes such a jerk. my brother keeps saying im fat and i was wearing shorts and he said "you shouldn't be wearing those when your legs look like that". and he always takes away my things,he took away my purse,now i can't get it back. i'm only 13 and i feel like everyone is putting me down and taking things like im a baby.i really need to know how can i lift my confidence up and be happier and be stronger?
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Sweetheart, don't worry. People in this culture are fucked up. We all have to deal with idiots time and time again. One day you will be old enough to get through all this and be able to understand why they are this way. Please try to be strong, and BE YOURSELF!!
Here is a big hug ((((((((((((O)))))))))))))
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I feel were you are coming from. I'm always pushed around and made fun of. You just need to notice all the good qualities in yourself. If other people can't see them it's their problem, but as long as you know you shouldn't have any problems. Don't change yourself no matter how much they try to break you down. Hope this has helped you. =)
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First Step: Stand your ground. DOn't be insidious with your commetns and feelings. You will experince alot of travail in completing these steps. Comfront your mother and your brother and even set up a conference to keep a constant realtion ship.
It's all about building solidarity.
Well, Good Luck
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don't listen to them. if you ignore them and pretend that they didn't even say anything, then they'll stop. i know it's hard but don't care what people think about you. what matters the most is how you think of yourself. for your brother taking things from you just tell him to give it back nicely, if he doesn't then take something of his and tell him you really don't like it when he does that. i know this is really hard to do in a situation like this but just believe in yourself and don't let anyone bring you down, cause you're a special and unique person, you're yourself.
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Go in your room and get your shit back. Then kick him in the nuts & tell him to stay away from you & your things.
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Just ignore them and dont show that they get to you. And no matter what you are beautiful and if you stay strong it will get better. Hope i helped Stay beautiful and strong!
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