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I'm 19 and I'm a bisexual transexual male, i have a girlfriend, but she's homophobic and says gays are nasty. She doesn't know about my transexual lifesyle. Well i think like a woman, feel like one and i told her i want to get a sex change and asked her if she would still care for me...she said no and that she would leave me
So i kinda have been behind her back with this man i really like, and he's gay. He told me that whatever makes me happy and i should go for it and he'll be there for me, boy or girl.
So what should i do, i don't want to live like this all my life
And who should i choose.
You deserve someone better then her whose going
to support you and your decisions i'd dump the girl seeing as she isn't being supportive seems like she's being judgemental and judging you just
allow her to leave you then date the boy do what makes you happy it's your life you can do whatever
you please and make whatever decisions you choose you should go for it it's worth a shot there's no harm in trying it's better then not doing anything at all and regretting it later :)
Can anyone explain to someone like me who admits they are kinda stupid about computers and stuff just exactly how to put a pic under a pic on myspace?
I want it:
pic1
pic2
And it always comes out:
pic1pic2
:(
Can anyone help me?
In order to put a picture under a picture you'd have to get a code to center them :)
Hope that works!
okay so i have a huge crush on my friends brother, he always says hi to me, and i always say hi back but im too shy usually to have a long conversation, any ways as a joke me and him pass notes and his sister is the messanger (hes in high school 9th grade and im in 8th grade at middle school but the schools are on the same campus) anyways the note usually say like cute little things about how were best friends and every thing, and i want to ask him out, but is that weird considereing that im the girl, or is it too hard to date some one in high school? and if he said no then it would be really akward between me and him and his sister and mine friendship.oh and btw im 14 if that matters. thankyou and please gove advice =]
It maybe tough to date someone in high school even though the two school's are on the same
campus if you two do end up dating you both can spend time together outside of school if you'd like to ask him out i say go for it it's worth a shot there's no harm in trying if for some reason things don't work out you'll still know that you tried trying is way better then not doing anything and regretting it later your in control of who you date nobody elese is if he says no then he'll move on and so will his sister also you should as well :)
Someone told me I needed to stop this eating disorder because it could kill me but I don't believe them. Then today someone else told me the say exact thing! Can being bulimic kill you or are these people just jealous cause I am a size zero while they are like size 2 or size 3 fat chicks? I think they are fatties who are hating on me.
Yes being bulimic can kill you having a eating disorder is unhealthy and can cause serious health problems if left untreated i don't think they are jealous or hating on you they are simply
telling the truth you should do some research about the disorder and gain more knowledge if your
curious about it
I have no idea what is the best way to approach the situation.
My cousin, I don't really know her well and we're like distant cousins.
My boyfriend, best friend, I know him very well.
So my cousin and boyfriend go to the same college, stay in the same dorm building. They've met before, but do not talk to one another.
One night my boyfriend goes to a party and texts me and tells me cousin is there. I'm like oh cool. Then he says she kept staring at him and was following him. He isn't the type to confront a female about weird things. I was thinking that was SO weird. She texted me and said she saw him there. Ok, cool. So another night my boyfriend goes out and she's there. Again she's following him and walking by him. I'm again ok wow, that's weirddddd. So, Friday he's out again. This time he tells me, "your cousin here and she's following me again, dancing crazy around me, and pointing at me." What! He then says "Can you please talk to her about it because its making me feel really unconfortable. BUT don't be mean about it because I do have to see her around."
I told my mom this and she says I should say specifically what she was doing and to tell her its making me uncomfortable and him. Is that appropriate? If so, how should I put it in words?
Thanks!
You should talk to her about it seeing as your boyfriend told you to do so plus he's feeling uncomfortable and he's probably not going to confront her about it say that her following him
and pointing towards him is making him feel uncomfortable and you'd appericate it if she stopped also yes what your mother said is appropriate to say :)
I have a dell, mcAfee anti virus and security with comcast internet service. where on my computer can i find the cookies and delete them?
Try going to control panel then click on network and internet then find where it says internet options then look for delete browsing history and
cookies click on that then find where it says browsing history and look below it then click delete and check off cookies and leave the rest unchecked
Hope this helped!
So I have been playing volleyball all year around, for 3 years (yes Im the one that hurt my shoulder haha) Anyway Tryouts are coming up soon for club, I have been on the top team for my club team for every year. Well a couple of my club teammates high school season didnt end yet because they are still in states, so they were told that they didnt have to attend tryouts this year and were automatically put on the team. As if i didnt have enough stress with my shoulder being injured, now I feel like I shouldnt have to go to tryouts either. Should I say something? I have been on the team for as long as they have.
I'd say something stand up for what you believe in you deserve a chance just like everyone elese your no different even though you injuried your shoulder it's worth a shot to try and talk even if things don't turn out like you wanted you'll still know that you tried it's better then not doing anything and regretting it later on i'd say that you've been on the team as long as the people
who don't have to attend tryouts and that you deserve to be treated fairly say that you feel like you've haven't been treated fairly
So...the same girl as i said before (the one who took my homework and gave it to someone else) well..today..she started talking about the guy who likes her and stuff..then..she said "wait i'll tell you later" after sometime...(hour or so) i asked again for her to continue...then shes like "wait!" (really angry face) then....later when she was free like totally free..i asked her ..then she says "why do you care? this is my personal problems" this really hurt me. she was the one who started the convo about the guy who likes her. i couldn't help but show her that i was mad at her...and ignored her for half of the day. and..when she was talking to me..i ignored her. but before we went home, i talked to her. tomorrow shes gona come to my house. so i have to talk to her. is this a good friend or not? and what should i do? I NOW KNOW NOT TO ASK HER ANY MORE FAMILY OR RELATIONSHIP QUESTIONS....yeesh :'(
Well i'd say to her you were the one who started
the conversation and if you didn't want me to hear
it you shouldn't of said something in the first place also say that she hurt you no she isn't a good friend you deserve better then her seeing as
something elese happened besides the homework incident try and work things with her and if for some reason things don't work out with your friendship i'd move on there's plenty of other people out there that you can become friends with
i wouldn't get to bent out of shape about it :)
so theres a girl at school and she is always all over my bf. they have been friends for i guess a few years and when i ask they are "just friends". a few months ago there was this whole party situation with my bf. including her another girl my bf and 2 of his friends. they all were drinking and his friends mom said that they all had to stay the night. im told nothing happend and i really do trust my bf but u cant help but wonder right? esp. when the girl has the huge rep for being a total slut. and thats not only girls saying it. well she is always saying mean things about me and giving me nasty looks and my bf is still friends with her. i can tell he likes flirting with her and that could be all but, i noticed last month the day he was absent she was also. and then yesterday he was again and i didnt see her in school all day. nobody believes he would ever cheat on me because of the way he acts but, im not really positive,considering most guys would cheat if they knew their gf wouldnt find out wouldnt they?
so do u think he is? thanks.-Chels 16yrs.
Just because he acts a certain way doesn't mean that he won't cheat on you he could slip up and make a mistake everyone makes mistakes he isn't perfect it all depends on the guys some cheat and others choose to stay faithful if it's making you feel stressed then i'd confront him about and ask if he's really cheating i'd try and get some proof first it could just be a coincidence that they both happened to be absent that day it doesn't exactly mean that they were spending time together i wouldn't jump to conclusions so quickly :)
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Just as the title asks "Whats your favorite song?" Theres no wrong answers here. : ) Please respond with an artist name and song title. Just one!
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I'm still breathing by Mayday Parade :)
15/female my bf also 15 and i have been together for almost 6 months i love him and he is shy we havent done anything except make out hes nervous about me seeing his penis i asked him again and he said that its small i told him i love him and i dont mind what size he is hes still insecure i dont want to push him too much why do guy worry about penis size? how do i get him to feel more conident?
I think boys worry about their size is because if
their penis to small or to big then they think that the girl won't be pleasured enough or the sex won't be good enough for them if he's insecure then i wouldn't force him say there's no rush and whenever he's ready to do it he can also if he doesn't want to show you i wouldn't rush him that will just make him more nervous and insecure be patient and when he wants to show you he will as far as getting him more confident i'd say that whatever his size is whether it's big or small that it's nothing to be ashamed or feel embarrassed about hopefully that helps! :)
Sorry if this is long.
I’ve been online dating (whatever you want to call it) this guy for the past 7 months and 2 weeks. Ok I know what your thinking but we were friends before we decided to be bf and gf.
But anyways long story short I’ve grown to have feelings for him (not in love with him just feelings). And before you start saying we should meet up first etc etc I’m planning on doing just that when I have enough money to visit him.
I haven’t told him I have feelings for him because I know he doesn’t feel the same way. Yes I know this because he has said over and over that he loves me as a friend has for something more he'll see.
Thing is he has been saying that for like the past I don’t know 4-5 months maybes, and nothing hasn’t changed.
So I’m wondering if maybe there’s some thing I could do to make him realize that the relationship is not just about getting laid when I visit him. (Yea he mainly wants me to visit him so we both can get laid).
It just feels like he just wants me for my body and that’s it nothing more from the relationship.
I’m also wondering maybe I should just let go because maybe he’ll never have the feelings for me like I have for him.
Any advice would be great and thanks.
I don't think he wants you for your body seeing as
he didn't exactly say so i wouldn't jump to conclusions or let it go i'd give it time and see what happens be patient things may change and you might be surprised at how things turn out if he loves you as a friend then you've got nothing to worry about as far as getting laid is concerned everyone deserves chances at least one even him so i'd give him one and see what happens :)
I'm only 17 and I have these awful stretch marks on my hips and I have no idea why. And I also have a dark skin color, so they show up really well. I want to be able to wear a regular bikini when I go to the beach this summer. I've always had to wear the ones with shorts, but I don't like them so much now. Is there any way I can get rid of them, or make them less visible? Please help!
Buy some cocoa butter or you can get laser treatment or stretch mark surgery but i wouldn't advise it i'd just stick to the less painful way and get some cream :)
Ok. my bf and i have been together for over a year. and well, now that we've gotten so close he's started to let his manners and thoughtfulness slide. example: the other day i was asking him to take me out for dinner to celebrate how long we've been together, and he just blew me off and told me i wasnt that important and we could just eat sandwiches at home. and i have an inclination that he might be cheating. i was looking at his text messages the other day, and some girl ( im not going to say her name) has been texting him talking about her sexual desires with him. and when i confronted him about it he slapped me and told me i was a nosy bitch. ugh i know i should dump him and move on, but i really and truly care for him. he's the first boyfriend i've ever had that i've actually loved.
what should i do?
You deserve better then him hitting a girl is wrong and should never be done he doesn't treat you with respect you need someone who will him slapping you is a sign of abuse the best thing you can do is break up with him you'll be helping yourself if you stay in the relationship it will turn into a abusive one tell a adult about how he slapped you and what he said end it quickly before
he gets more violent you don't want to put yourself in danger
Why does my man always need to know everything that I do? I have a cellphone that I bought and he wants to know every minute who I am talking to and what I text when I text. He wont let me go out or have any friends. I am just expected to sit home and wait til he gets home from events in his life. Is this love or he loves to control women? He did this with his ex and now me. I didnt know that he was like this. He is the same way as when I am on the internet. I have to even let him know when I have to pee or take a shit!!!
I think they like to feel powerful in the relationship try talking to him and say that you aren't liking that he is controlling you and that if he continues you'll break up with him also say that there's no need for him to control every aspect of your life there's no point in staying in the relationship if your miserable i think he likes to control women for whatever reason it doesn't seem like love seems like all he's doing is controlling you
How can I make my breast smaller? There not terribly big but I still hate them! I'm a dancer and I HATE it when my breast "jiggle" on stage. I really want to make my breast smaller. I will work out 24/7 if I have to. To tell you the truth I want the breasts of a nine year old (thats not relistic I know). Please tell me! I'll stop eating, I'll work out 24/7, I'll eat my dog!!! (well that last one was a joke haha) PLEASE HELP!!!
I don't think there is a way to make them smaller your breasts are going to jiggle no
matter what they are going to jiggle more since your a dancer and your constantly moving around i wouldn't stop eating if i were you seeing as that can lead to health problems working out has nothing to do with your breasts remember that everyone has things about themselves that they'd like to change or don't like your not alone try to stop hating your breasts seeing as they aren't going anywhere and are apart of your body accept them
So my friend asks me for homework which i really worked on really hard. I was stupid enough to give it to her. She didn't even thank me! I was really mad at her at that time. Then, after half an hour. she replies "thnx. i didn't really need it. it was for someone else who needed the homework"
1) i know that i shouldn't have given my homework...but is this a good friend or not.. I'm gonna ignore her tomorrow..so that she knows that I didn't like what she had done.
she never even told me that she was gona give it to someone else!
No she isn't a good friend if she didn't tell you that she planned on giving it to someone i wouldn't suggest ignoring her if i were you i'd try and talk to her and find the person that has your homework and get it back holding a grudge aganist her isn't going to help if you do happen to talk to her tell her how you feel make it known to her that you were angry by what she did
and say that it wasn't right to do that way she'll
know that you didn't like what she did
Ok this year for some reason i can't talk to girls and im 14 and a guy. Ive had 1 gf and that lasted a week. We txt each other alot well sorta but tahts about it. I would talk to her sometimes at school but not more than 2 min topps and i would hug her thats it.
Any Advice what i could do or what might b wrong kuz its annoying me.
Well you should make a plan before you actually
talk to the girl practice what you want to say to yourself say it many times that way when you do actually speak you won't forget it be confident don't doubt yourself or get discouraged believe in yourself confidence is key take deep breaths to relax and calm yourself then once you feel ready go for it :)
17 f
Basically Volleyball is my life, I have been playing it for only 3 years (all year) and I absolutely love it. I plan to play in college, and I have always been naturally good at it. Well anyway I hurt my arm, my shoulder to be exact, (the back part of it) near my rotator cuff. I dont know if I injured my rotator cuff or not, but my shoulder hurts really bad, I litterally cant hit the ball. Ive been so depressed lately, Im actually crying about it. Tryouts for club volleyball are wednesday the 18th of november, and Im scared my arm wont be healed. I have put ice and heat on it, but I keep getting so upset and frusterated. It has hurt for about 3 weeks, and hasnt stopped. I dont know what to do, I cant be happy and Im always crying when Im alone. What if I play horribly at tryouts and dont make the team? My friends are taking private lessons to get the new coach to like them so they get on the team, and I cant even play volleyball right now. Please help me. any advice? Im so upset.
Injuries happen espeically when playing sports
think positive thinking negatively will only make the situation worst your best option is to see a doctor they'll be able to help you and tell you exactly what needs to be done to make your arm
heal until then continue icing and putting heat on
it you can be happy you just can't let this discourage you and get you down calm down relax take deep breaths :)
I hope your arm feels better!
Hi guys
so I've had my laptop for like a year, and the previous owner had it for 3 or 4 months. So it's still relatively new.
It has always worked well up until this point. Basically, the monitor just doesn't turn on & when I press the power button, the lights on the keyboard just flash for a while & then nothing happens. It doesn't heat up or make noise & it does it whether I power it with the battery or plug it in. Anyways I don't know much about computer, and since I can't turn it on at all I don't really know what to do for it. I can't afford to take it to be looked at right now. Has anyone had this problem in the past & have any idea of what could be wrong? Ideas on how to fix it would be much appreciated but just a clue as to what's going on is great too.
Thanks in advance guys :)
I have a Dell Inspiron 1525 labtop and mine tends to shut off by itself iv'e never experienced your problem though well anyways your best options are to read the owners manual that came with the labtop if information in there doesn't help then your next option would be to contact Dell you can go on their website and click on contact us at the top of the page then click on contact technical support then click on get technical support Dell would probably be able to help you just explain to them what happened it would also be good to ask Dell if there's still a warranty on the labtop or if it expired that'd be good to know :)