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cheating?
so theres a girl at school and she is always all over my bf. they have been friends for i guess a few years and when i ask they are "just friends". a few months ago there was this whole party situation with my bf. including her another girl my bf and 2 of his friends. they all were drinking and his friends mom said that they all had to stay the night. im told nothing happend and i really do trust my bf but u cant help but wonder right? esp. when the girl has the huge rep for being a total slut. and thats not only girls saying it. well she is always saying mean things about me and giving me nasty looks and my bf is still friends with her. i can tell he likes flirting with her and that could be all but, i noticed last month the day he was absent she was also. and then yesterday he was again and i didnt see her in school all day. nobody believes he would ever cheat on me because of the way he acts but, im not really positive,considering most guys would cheat if they knew their gf wouldnt find out wouldnt they?
so do u think he is? thanks.-Chels 16yrs.
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Just because he acts a certain way doesn't mean that he won't cheat on you he could slip up and make a mistake everyone makes mistakes he isn't perfect it all depends on the guys some cheat and others choose to stay faithful if it's making you feel stressed then i'd confront him about and ask if he's really cheating i'd try and get some proof first it could just be a coincidence that they both happened to be absent that day it doesn't exactly mean that they were spending time together i wouldn't jump to conclusions so quickly :)
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as a guy myself, I can say that I wouldn't cheat on my girlfriend even if I was 100% shed never find out. but really it just depends on the guy. yeah there are alota douchebags out there who wouldnt think twice about cheating, but you gotta ask yourself: "if your guy was one of them, is he worth being with?" but from the sounds of it hes a swell guy who isnt one of them douchebags. but again I cant say if he is or not cause I dont know him.
#1. do you love him? does he love you? if he does then your answer is no, he isnt cheating.
#2. if you really just are unsure whether or not he is and just want to ease your mind, just ask him. dont make it seem like you are accusing him, just be nice and ask something like: "you and (girl's name) are just friends, right?"
but if you want my opinion, you're probably just over thinking it. its more than likely just a coincidence that they both were gone. maybe you just didnt see her. did you ask where he was that day?
anyways. I'll stop rambling
GoodLuck!
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