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Wondering if i should just let go
Sorry if this is long.
I’ve been online dating (whatever you want to call it) this guy for the past 7 months and 2 weeks. Ok I know what your thinking but we were friends before we decided to be bf and gf.
But anyways long story short I’ve grown to have feelings for him (not in love with him just feelings). And before you start saying we should meet up first etc etc I’m planning on doing just that when I have enough money to visit him.
I haven’t told him I have feelings for him because I know he doesn’t feel the same way. Yes I know this because he has said over and over that he loves me as a friend has for something more he'll see.
Thing is he has been saying that for like the past I don’t know 4-5 months maybes, and nothing hasn’t changed.
So I’m wondering if maybe there’s some thing I could do to make him realize that the relationship is not just about getting laid when I visit him. (Yea he mainly wants me to visit him so we both can get laid).
It just feels like he just wants me for my body and that’s it nothing more from the relationship.
I’m also wondering maybe I should just let go because maybe he’ll never have the feelings for me like I have for him.
Any advice would be great and thanks.
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I think the best solution is to let him know how you feel. He already told you what he wants and now it's your chance to tell him how you feel. You have feelings for the guy and all but if you're not into what he wants, just let him go because it's just going to make you feel uncomfortable being around him. Just think that if he is not satisfied with you, it's just going to break you more. There are many fishes in the sea.
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I don't think he wants you for your body seeing as
he didn't exactly say so i wouldn't jump to conclusions or let it go i'd give it time and see what happens be patient things may change and you might be surprised at how things turn out if he loves you as a friend then you've got nothing to worry about as far as getting laid is concerned everyone deserves chances at least one even him so i'd give him one and see what happens :)
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