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Can't Talk to girls
Ok this year for some reason i can't talk to girls and im 14 and a guy. Ive had 1 gf and that lasted a week. We txt each other alot well sorta but tahts about it. I would talk to her sometimes at school but not more than 2 min topps and i would hug her thats it.
Any Advice what i could do or what might b wrong kuz its annoying me.
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talking to girls is not hard at all. develop a kind of personality where you can talk to anyone about anything. i've been doing that and it's helped. i think of guys as friends first then, when we date, it lasts a lot longer.
and think of what you're going to say the day before and stuff.
hope i helped,
~molly
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First of all you should be cofident in yourself. true me I'm a girl and some girls dmt want to shel when they like a guy ( I'm like that sometimes) just walk up to her and talk to her give her a compliment girls love a romantic guy. Also try to be fun y just dot over do it it can get annoying. I'm sure that if this girl gets to know you better she will see what a great person you are. :) I hope my advice helped.
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Well you should make a plan before you actually
talk to the girl practice what you want to say to yourself say it many times that way when you do actually speak you won't forget it be confident don't doubt yourself or get discouraged believe in yourself confidence is key take deep breaths to relax and calm yourself then once you feel ready go for it :)
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Well the best way to approach girls is to pay them a compliment. Just to get started, do it in a sort of nonchalant way, like when you are passing them in the hall at school. Like "hey I like your hair that way" Or I like those jeans on you." or even " You aced that test in our ______ class." Then, smile and just keep going. The girls will start to notice you. They may even approach you when they get a chance and do a lot of the talking themselves and put you at ease. the other thing that is important with girls (and guys to I "How did you do on that ____test." Or "did you hear about _________and _________?" (yes being able to gossip helps.) And "The way ________treated you really sucked, you must be upset?". Now this won't work if you just use these examples on the girls you are most comfortable with. Start with the ones that don't intimidate you, but that you don't know well. Practice on them. You'll see that they respond. Then try it on the girls that are more intimidating to you. Sure they'll wonder at first why you are talking to them, especially since they didn't invite it, but this kind of behavior shows that you have confidence in yourself. They'll start to believe it too, and believe me when I tell you. Nothing is more attractive to people of any age, sex, race, etc. than confidence.
It's all about the art of small talk.
Good luck to you
Michele
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