hey im Molly.Im 14 & i give great advice.
Gender: Female
Location: LA
Age: 14
Member Since: January 14, 2007
Answers: 27
Last Update: November 14, 2009
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Ok this year for some reason i can't talk to girls and im 14 and a guy. Ive had 1 gf and that lasted a week. We txt each other alot well sorta but tahts about it. I would talk to her sometimes at school but not more than 2 min topps and i would hug her thats it.
Any Advice what i could do or what might b wrong kuz its annoying me. (link)
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talking to girls is not hard at all. develop a kind of personality where you can talk to anyone about anything. i've been doing that and it's helped. i think of guys as friends first then, when we date, it lasts a lot longer.
and think of what you're going to say the day before and stuff.
hope i helped,
~molly
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15.F
So, last school year I had met this guy in one of my classes and we became 'best friends'
He never considered us this, he always said he only had one best friend, who he always complained about.
Anyway, we would be together during school. ALWAYS. Before, during, in between classes, and after.
I started liking this guy alot. But he never felt the same. Or so I think since he never made a move the whole year.
We would have fights once and awhile and we would end up not talking for a day and he would text me after school saying he missed me, he didn't like pretending he didn't see me in the halls, he needed me, ect. So we'd make up.
But around May, I had enough of the asshole moves he would make, so I told him the friendship was done and legit said "You're dead to me"
New school year, we see eachother everyday now.
We're on talking terms, we still ignore eachother for the most part, but we talk sometimes.
Anyway, for some reason, I still feel like I like this guy. And my friend who knew everything about last year has gotten close to him and she told me she liked him. It was kind of mad.
And jealous, because I do miss him and the way things used to be. But he made it clear to me in September he moved on and I'll live.
I need ways to get over him. I thought I was, but when I saw him again it brought back all those memories.
If I don't get over him soon I have no idea what I'll do. I feel like my sadness of us not being close anymore is starting to control my life. (link)
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wow. this actually happened to both me and my friend. like it got SO bad, i would seriously cry everyday for like 3 months. i realize that won't help you so here's the advice that my sister told me when i was going through this: "you just have to let go. he's obviously an asshole and if you don't get over him now, things are gonna progress to get worse and you're going to regret it. i know you think you were in love but i'm not convinced you even loved him. i know you think that he understood you completely, but if he did, he wouldn't have broken up with you. God doesn't give you anything you can't handle. you can do this." hope that helps.
but if it doesn't, find something that will help you get over him. like mine was music, and i wrote at least 20-40 songs about him. it's a good way to vent.
if you don't like that idea, watch movies. make new friends. bake. buy ice cream. go shopping with friends. MEET NEW GUYS.
hope this helps
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I've been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months and I love him so much, but since the beginning of our relationship, there's been problems with him flirting. I've told him 4 times with 4 different situations to tone it down or try to stop and every time it got worse. The last time I told him, nothing has come up so far. But every so often he brags to his guy friends about some hot girl he saw wearing pasties in Havasu and blah blah blah. The worst part is he says it right in front of me, no holding back. I get the whole "macho" act in front of his friends and how he "got a boner" when she wet on the pole and crap, but i don't wanna hear that kinda stuff. It's bad enough that his eyes back track when I'm talking to him and a girl with big boobs walks by. It's not just him, it's me too. I tend to overthink anything and I'm not the kind of girl that just lets thing roll off and "worry about what's happening now and not in the future". whatever. I end up thinking about these little things way too much and ending up extremely depressed. With him, it's all talk, but that's what kills me the most and it really gets to me. Sometimes I think it'sd be easier if he actually cheated on me so I wouldn't have to worry. I know that sounds awful and weird, but I don't know how to explain it. It would be really great if I could get a point of view from someone who's been in a long relationship and has gone through something similar. (link)
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wow thats really rude. i mean what kind of sick mind says stuff like that?
It seems like your really depressed in this question.heres a question for you:
DO YOU LIKE HIM?
because half of that "looking at girls" concept IS HIS PERSONALITY. what you need to do is talk to him. and say okay (insert his name here) look! if you havent noticed, IM NO BOY! i dont like girls,i like boys..like you. but its hard to like boys like you if theyre COMPLETELY PERVERTED! so im gonna give you a choice, you can go ahead and go ask out that lady whos probably 40 right now that was humping the pole and live with that forever and never have life. or you can stay with me.
its your choice. so choose before i make the decision for you(like your gonna break up with him)
^^AND SAY THIS IN FRONT OF HIS FRIENDS
if he chooses you, just dont hang out with him. make HIM hang out with you.
WOW
hope i helped,
XOXO,
MOlly(:
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I have red/curly hair. My hair grows like a snail. I cut my hair to my shoulders 2 1/2 years ago and it has only grown like 1 inch. Any ways that i can get it grow any faster? I want really long hair, like middleback length, like i used to have. Is there a way to get it to grow faster? (link)
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hair grows in hot weather.
woo good thing you asked this question now, or there could be problems.
haha
go to a beach or pool and tan.
lay on your stomach
then lay on your back wear your hair DOWN so you can let it grow
if this doesnt work,im so sorry,bc i havent tried it yet.(: im still waiting for my vacation(:(:
hope i helped,
MOlly
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i am conditioning but im trying to get into a routine. what would be a good routine as in what muscles to workout what day, when i should take a rest day and maybe even some excersises that will help (link)
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heres some things you can do.
first,make a scedule. that way you wont change your excercize everyday and stuff like that(:
okay so here we go:
monday:
the stairs-find stairs. go to your friends house and go up the stairs. do it about like 10 times, rest 2 minutes then do another 10 times.
tuesday:
jog-go jogging in your neighborhood.bring your dog.or if you dont have a dog, then nvm. but if you do have a dog,its a good idea to bring them bc they never give up and stuff. they keep running.
then do stairs again.
wednesday:
yoga/situps/pushups-the first time today is an easier day. to get in shape, you need to be strong and if your a little overweight,you can finally reach your goal and get rid of it. if you DO have rolls or a little belly(:(no offense)go work out at foxys or spectrum or where ever there is a work out place in your town.find a eliptical or a bike. those are the best things. the eliptical helps get rid of that stomach.(: but do be aware that it won't work very fast. pahha(:
then after ^^that:
yoga/pushups/situps
&stairs again
thursday:
jump rope-get a jump rope and jump away. try to jump 10 minutes. if you can do that, can you do 20? 30? try to beat your "score"if you wanna call it.
after ^^ that,
-fitness center
-yoga/pushups/situps
-&stairs
friday/saturday/sunday:
these days you do all of the above. try to beat your "scores" and after a month, if you do this every single day, you will get a workout done,a healthier body,and your in shape. not to mention a daily habit. remember, theres nothing wrong with wanting to stay in shape after your sports.
hope i helped,
MOlly(:
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K so i dated this guy for like a month untill yesterday, hes realllly hot & cool to hang with... & tues. night we went out to a really nice dinner with the people he works with. We wore dresses, suits, ect. & after his co workers went to a cabin on a lake 2 hours away.. I didnt go kas i need to get home kas i live an hour away. anyway... i told him to be good & all & it seemed like we were ok ...but then the next day he texts me that he cant b with me anymore kas he got drunk & lost his virginity to some other girl.. i didnt really get all that upset..i didnt cry or anything.. i was just like ok.. thanks for telling me see you at tcu in the fall... so now were not talking & this friend of the family was like well you can still b with him if you want ...its just sex..no big deal.. & now im confused...i dont want to be with him anymore...but do i have the right to b mad at him? it was only a month but we were exclusive? bleh it makes me so frustrated..anyway any advise on my situation? thanks (link)
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okay so he cheated on you.
UHH YEAH YOU SHOULD BE MAD AT HIM!
i mean seriously.
the real question is..CAN YOU TRUST HIM AGAIN? if I were you i would break up with him bc of it. it would really get him to learn his lesson. expecially about drinking.
hope i helped,
XOXO,
MOlly
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okay im 16/f and im really skinny. and everyone at my school and even my mom makes fun of me how skinny i am. and i really want to put on weight. im 5'4 and i weigh only 89 pounds. i have really skinny legs and arms. so how should i make my arms & legs look more healthier and how should i put on weight so that i look healthy and not like an anorexic? (link)
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theres nothing wrong with being skinny.
you shouldnt have to change the way you look because OTHER people dont like it.but if you really want to gain weight,eat lots of meat..like steak,ribs,hamburgers..stuff like that.and drink lots of milk. milk thickens your bones. and meat gives you a little "fat kick".but get used to working out. because if you gain ALOT of weight,you might want to loose it again..then yeah.so work out every day but eat lots of protein and meats and milk and dairy. and theres your solution.
haha
wow,
hope i helped,
XOXO,
MOlly(:
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okay. so theres this one girl and shes probly the biggest slut i know. im serious.she will do anything with any guy and me and this one guy went out for almost 2 years. guess who comes up? her! right after we broke up she was after him and they held hands as soon as we broke up.then i went out with another guy and two days after we broke up shes the first one to make out with him. then i started liking this guy that has been my best friend for 3 years. and she started liking him too. then they went out for a while then broke up, then went out. so i stopped liking him, or i hesitated to because i know he wouldn't be over her and guess what? its been about a month and hes still not over her. she likes so many guys and shes saying they are supposedly about to go back out. like a week ago he told me he liked me too. so that helped me not to hesitate liking him. now i see them together a lot after school and stuff and im just about ready to explode! what do i do? :[ someone please give me some adivce (link)
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hmm it sounds like shes coppying you or something..it also sounds like its some sort of copettiton. like when you like this guy..she has to prove that shes alot prettier and stuff.and as much as its retarted,it could be true.So find this really ugly guy(a nice person) and explain that that the girl likes him. and be like DONT TELL HER I SAID THAT! then be like okay i know a way i can get her to talk to you. so you bring him with a bunch of hot guys(explain the problem to them too) and talk..sooner or later she'll come around.
hope I helped,
MOlly
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Well heres the thing.
I like three guys.
but one guy is my ex boyfriend.
and He really likes my other friend.
and she really likes him back.
but they dont want to date again becus the have dated before.
and so I like this boy and ever snice he dumped me I tried to make my feelings for him to go away and i dont know what to do.
I dont know if I should tell him or not. and I talked to my friend and she doesnt care as long no one gets hurts cuz i dnt wanna hurt her and she said im not.
so what should i do?
and this guy is like one of my best guy friends. (link)
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If you cant make your feelings for him go away, keep it that way. But dont get your highs up that he will like you too if you tell him how you feel. But you have to realize that yall are broken UP. and now he likes your friend. but just bc theyyy like eachother it doesnt mean you haveee to back off, NO! you should remain friends with him. And flirt a little one week, then a little more the next, and keep doing that through
the weeks. but do it to everyone when hes around.(so he doesnt realize that you like him) what you need to figure out is if hes flirting back with you.then you can tell him or ask someone to tell him for you.
hope i helped,
MOlly
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Ok! Im going crazzzy! I started talking to this guy online and he told me he liked me and everything. so anyway we were friends but not like real tight or nothing. Anyway me hooked up one tight. just kissed and stuff. and than i got right weird (like i always do) i sorta ignored him for like a week. I dunno y i do that. i havent had many boyfriends or anything. anyhow he called all week and id make up excuses. so than the next week. i realized ye kno i miss this guy and i kinda started to like him a nice bit. and than he started igoring me. bso i asked him like do you want to just b friends. and he said no that he really liked me. and than he still prety much ignored me. ended up banging into him another night and he grabbed me by the waist and kissed me.(we were at a friends house) anyhow he said he had to run sumwhere and hed b back. but he never came back.. and than the next day he left to go to europe on a trip. So im all freaked out. i dunno if he likes me or is just fucking around. or if he possibly just wants to get with people on his trip. and not have to worry bout me being mad and that. its driving me cray cuz i really like him.. Please Help .. before i go totaly wacko (link)
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in myy opinion,it seems that this boy only likes you bc he thinks you kiss well or something. if he doesnt like talk to you like at all and ignores you, then goes randomly and starts kissing you, tahts probably why.
and make sure you find out if hes dating someone else..bc that could be why he left that night.but idk
hope i helped,
MOlly
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Ok so i brush my teeth for 2 minutes to 2:£0 every day. use mouthwash twice a day and brush about 3. I also have whitening tooth polish that i brush on before going to bed..Then why aren't my teeth going any whiter?
I've tried so many things it's kinda annoying.
please help.. (link)
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think about it.
you brush 3 times a day..
you mouthwash..
but after all that..
do you eat chocolate, coffee, or lemon?
bc that stains your teeth.
your best bet to get whiter teeth
is everytime you BRUSH your teeth, whiten it too. and floss.
If that doesnt work, try a different product or ask your dentist or doctor about it.
hope i helped,
MOlly
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Hey i was wondering if you could give me some hair styles to do with my hair. It's long, straight and layered. I have no bangs btw. I have it down all the time and it gets soo boring. So if you have any ideas tell me. Thanks!
P.S. i hate ponytails. (link)
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well lucky for you, i am pretty good with hair. my hair is just like yours. its long straight and layered. what i usually do is put my hair up in a ponytail and least twice a week. since you dont like ponytails, i sugest a half-a-pony tail? wear your hair in half-a-pony tail with a headband. if you like wearing your hair different every day try this:
monday- hair down
wearing your hair down shows both your confidence and your glamourous side.
tuesday- half-a-pony tail
i love wearing my hair this way. its really cute. expecially with 2 headbands.[gadzooks-$1.00 for 2] ((the headbands are like really skinny so they look really cute!))
wednesday- curls
this is a very simple process. it takes about 10 to 15 minutes, but its totally worth it. if you dont have a curler or if you cant work one, try using your straightner. its just as good. its really hard to explain. but if you know how to work a curler, then its bacically the same thing. NOTE: HOLD YOUR STRAIGHTNER UP TO 5 SECONDS. IF LONGER, YOU COULD RUIN YOUR STRAIGNTER :(
thursday- hair down (again)
friday-braids? if you dont like braids then just put your hair up. i knowww you hate it, but if you add a cute ribbon in your hair, it will look awesome
i hope i helped
MUCH LOVE,
MOLly
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I like this boy lets call his Cam. and Cam. said he lkes me and a girl lets call her clair and he likes us both and i told Cam i liked him and Clair doesnt like him at all but he still seems to like her better and i've tried alot of things he talks to me alot and we talk so much it seems he wants to be just friends!! help me please,
Massie (link)
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ooo i see you read the clique books. i do too! they are the besttttt. haha
well heres my advice.im sorry to say that maybe Cam is trying to make you jealous by liking Claire. i mean theres nothing you can do other than like telling him you DONT like him even though you do, and just getting to be really good friends with him. thats what i do. im so sorry.
good luck,
XXOOXOX,
MOlly
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can some one tell me some good come backs if a guy calls you a lez.? (link)
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you should be like "Looks whos talking"
just w/e you do, call him like a girl say like "You would know" bc thats what boys hate the most.
hope i helped,
MUCH LOVE,MOlly
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Hey everyone :D,
I'm Hailey, and im 15 years old (freshman in highschool)
I need advice on my love life lol. I like a boy named jake that goes to my school.. but hes a Senior. Hes 17. I don't know what to do.. Do you think that a freshman dating a Senior is wrong? And if you think its okkay, do you have any advice on how to get to know him. He goes out to lunch and i dont have any classes with him, occasionally I see him in the hallway and i start up some kind of small talk untill we get to our classes, but it usually doesn;t branch off from there. Any siguestions? Thanks a million! i REALLY appreciate the help!! :D
hailey,3 (link)
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well this might sound gross, but i know a eighth grader(girl) is going out with a softmore(boy).its soooo gross, but he only likes her for her ENORMUS boobs..ewwww..but anyway, all i can say is-love travels in different ways, so i guess its okay for you to go out with this senior.But if you do go out with him, prepare for this senior's friends to make fun of him and you(sorry to say that) bc theres a 3 year difference b/t you too. just follow your heart. and if he doesnt like you back, move on he's missing out on a great person. :]
hope i helped
MUCH LOVE,
MOlly
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so last i was talking online to my friend "bob" and he was like hey call "jack" he wants to talk to you..i like jack..or i did...aand but i told him i was too tired to push buttons my phone and hes like well he really wants to talk to you. so to get the point i called bob's cell phone instead of jack because i thought bob was lying to me. so i called and bob answered and he handed the phone to jack but jack threw it back at bob..?? i don't really get why he did that? does he not like m that much that he doesn't want to talk to me? i've only known him a week a two and don't talk to him that much. and i don't thik hes really that shy...any thoughts on why he did this cause now i feel like crap not wanting to be talked to. (link)
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boys do this all the time.I think he likes you. and yes he might not be shy, but maybe hes nervous? BUT WHATEVER YOU DO, DONT ASK HIM WHY THIS INCIDENT HAPPENED..bc he will think your a busy-body and stuff.So my advice is to play-it-cool. Act like nothing is wrong. Try talking to him as a friend. Then at the end of the conversationg be like "im glad we're friends" or "nice talking to you" all you need to do, is YOU end the conversation. Leave him wanting more.
good luck
hope I helped
MUCH LOVE,
MOlly
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My boyfriend acts like he is so much better than me when he is with his friends.
He says some pretty mean things, and acts like he can say what he wants because he is 3 years older than me.
Like before, our friend said something about Semi, and how the table is going to be filled with 17-18 year old guys, and 15 year old girls, then he said they are going to look like petifiles. I said jokingly "haha cause you are!" Then my boyfriend was like "you know what, it's that simple, you can just leave, you are the one allowing it."
It's really pissing me off, and I don't know what to do.
Any advice? Thanks in advance! (link)
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if your boyfriend is making you pissed, then follow my advice. My advice is to next time your with him and his friends,& he makes fun of you,ask a stupid question..then if hes like "GOSH YOUR SO STUPID" thats where you come in and say " HMM ME?? YOUR THE ONE WHO JUST GOT DUMPED BY A 15 YEAR OLD" then walk away.
pretty fun right??
haha
hope i helped
good luck
MUCH LOVE,
MOlly
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i'll be brief. dont worry! (;
i need some cute everyday hairstyles.
every day i either wear my hair straight
or in a messy bun or ponytail and it's
getting boring!! (curling takes too long)
what are some cute hair styles besides
the ones i mentioned??? oh yess and
pictures make me happy (: (link)
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well.. let me tell you, im an expert at this :]
monday-hair up
wear your hair in a ponytail. maybe with a cute headband??
tuesday-hair down
:]
wednesday-half-a-pony-tail
maybe wear with a cute headband
****note: if you wear the same headbands in a week, it makes you look cheap, like you cant buy another :]***
thursday-messy bun
with another headband?
friday-hair down (again)
let the boys want to see you over the weekend :]
hope i helped
MUCH LOVE,
MOlly
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I have a younger brother who is 13. Everytime I have food in my room such as a gift basket my friend made me with all kinds of sweets, he ends up taking a bunch of it. Sometimes it's just one or 2 pieces out of 100 so I don't say anything. Today I found a sucker wrapper and I told my mom about it because I was mad that he went into my room and took it...and it's the hundreth time. She didn't really do anything...just told him "sternly" that she didn't want him in my room. What can I do to keep him from taking my things??
I gave him a big bag of 3 musketeers for Christmas and I share with him sometimes. We have cheez its and wheat thins in the pantry so he's not starving.
my mom tries hiding food from him too and he always finds it.. and also, I want easy access to MY food and MY things.
Thanks for any help. - 16/female. (link)
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wooowwww de ja voux..that happends to me too! but im the one doing it..and its that im stealing headbands or w/e from my sister haha.
well if your little brother is stealing your stuff you can do 3 things about it:
1. you can hide your candy
hide it in a safe place. I would mainly hide and eat your candy in the KITCHEN bc bugs will eat it eventually..ew
2.make a concoxtion. if your little brother eats your food,use one trick. ITS CALLED REVERSE-PSHYCOLOGY..first you make a nastyyy concoxtion,then you put it in a container: use one marker to put to:(your name) from:(friends name) REMEMBER TO DESGUISE YOUR HANDWRITING!!then in big letters put: (brothers name)YOU BETTER NOT EAT THIS. ITS MINE!
3.lastly, get a lock for your door.& keep the key wherever you go.example: if your going to take a shower, lock your door,&& bring the key with you.
thats all i can think of
I hope i helped
MUCH LOVE,
MOlly
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Ya so i had a best friend we even called eachother sisters and were always together, we met in the 4th grade, and then were not friends n e more in the middle of the 10th grade. Ever since i moved a couple miles away from my old house i started haning out wit another one of my friends that i met this year, because she lived right across the street from me. Later i found out that my friend who lived near me was my cousin and we became mad close friends. When i went to school i could tell that my bestfriend acted stange she never said hi to me in school i had to say hi to her and if i didnt say hi to her she would get mad. Even if my cousin said hi to her she would say hi in a very snobby way. Then i realized that shes gettin jeaouls because im becoming good friends wit Tally my neighbor. So when i came home and called my friend Jamielia to invite her to go to this place called wings with us shes all like no i dont want to go. Im like ok, then a week later she wrote me a note saying how ever since i moved i blew her off which is total bull shit. She was saying how everything is Tally Tally Tally and jamielia said when im on the phone with her all i talk bout is Tally, and jamielia was saying that she didnt want to her that shit. Jamielia was saying how we were like sisters now we are just friends and that i blew her off for Tally. So i wrote her a note back cussin her out and sayin that shes a jealous bitch, and that shes not my only friend and that you need to get over it. At the end of my note i wrote her i told jamielia to give me a call after school so we can work things out and i also said if you dont call me i will know that you dont want to be friends anymore. Ya i didnt get the phone call so then i knew that she didnt want to be friends with me. She never realized that during our friendship she treated me like shit. One time she came over my house an sneakly left with her boyfriend i was heated, and another time she only used me to come over so that she could go into the city to go to a party so her mom would think she spent the night at my house. i dont even know why i stayed friends with her She even rubbed her looks in my face like sayin o the kid you likes says im pretty thats some shit right there im like u aint all that shit but damn can someone help me because i have class with her and some of my friends are hers and i just feel it that one day shes gonna keep givin me dirty looks and im gonna end up beating the shit out of her
so what should i do?? (link)
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so let me get this straight. your friend has been treating you bad ever since 4th grade.and now that your friends with other people, shes jealous?? my advice is to not be afraid of her.Dont be mean.Dont care.
If she gives you mean looks, smile at her. I mean if you give her dirty looks, its just going to lead to worse things. Seem like your having lots of fun with your NEW friends. Laugh realllly loud.
hahah its fun
bc she WILL sometime miss you and be like "well shes having fun grr"
dont worry.be carefree.
good luck
MUCH LOVE,
MOlly
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