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I neeed some help
Well heres the thing.
I like three guys.
but one guy is my ex boyfriend.
and He really likes my other friend.
and she really likes him back.
but they dont want to date again becus the have dated before.
and so I like this boy and ever snice he dumped me I tried to make my feelings for him to go away and i dont know what to do.
I dont know if I should tell him or not. and I talked to my friend and she doesnt care as long no one gets hurts cuz i dnt wanna hurt her and she said im not.
so what should i do?
and this guy is like one of my best guy friends.
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You can't really "make" your feelings go away, and you said he wasn't interested in you, I would let it go. It sounds like this guy has been dating a lot of girls, and if you go out again with him, it's only going to end in heartbreak. I can tell you from experience, getting back together with an ex is NOT fun. You think you want to, but things end up getting very awkward, and it will only bring up the point of why you two broke up in the first place. I would try to avoid this guy as much as possible, don't dwell on the thought of him. You can still be his friend, and talk to him occasionally, but play it cool. You don't want to be having a three hour long conversation with him, or he'll think you're desperate. In the mean time, try going for the other two guys you like. Stay open minded when it comes to new relationships. Maybe you could even make your ex jealous if you dated one of the new guys. ;]
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If you cant make your feelings for him go away, keep it that way. But dont get your highs up that he will like you too if you tell him how you feel. But you have to realize that yall are broken UP. and now he likes your friend. but just bc theyyy like eachother it doesnt mean you haveee to back off, NO! you should remain friends with him. And flirt a little one week, then a little more the next, and keep doing that through
the weeks. but do it to everyone when hes around.(so he doesnt realize that you like him) what you need to figure out is if hes flirting back with you.then you can tell him or ask someone to tell him for you.
hope i helped,
MOlly
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