Ok so you see, I like this guy. Let's call him Guy#1. I wasn't sure if I loved him so I had asked an advice column how I would know...they were right. They say there's no definition for love. To each his own, you know? So I decided I love Guy#1.But then today, later in the day, I realized I just might love this other guy. Let's call him Guy#2. Now to start, there've been rumors that Guy#1 liked me. But Guy#2 I've known since kindergarten and he's been my best frind since then. But today he started telling me how amazing I am...but he tells his friends he wants to be friends. We've dated before but it didn;t work out. Also, my friend loves him...but I've never felt this way before. What's more important? The happiness of Guy#1 and my friend, or my own happiness? What about Guy#2? Help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? gweedsx3 answered Sunday June 28 2009, 4:22 pm: Hey, so you have strong feelings for both of them. You said you dated #2 before, but it didnt work out. Talk to him, and see how he feels. If he has feelings for you, i would say try to go for him. You're friend loves guy #1 and i dont think you want to hurt your friend over a guy. Your happiness is most important, but if you love them both, why not find happiness in a guy that wont hurt others? BUT! if you honestly feel like you are completely and totally in love with guy #1, then go for him. The point of love is to be happy with someone, and you dont want to go for guy #2 and realize that you actually love someone else, you know? So search your heart, if your mind is split, id say talk to guy #2. But if you think that you should be with guy #1, talk to him. I hope everything works out (: xoxo [ gweedsx3's advice column | Ask gweedsx3 A Question ]
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