Hey everyone :D,
I'm Hailey, and im 15 years old (freshman in highschool)
I need advice on my love life lol. I like a boy named jake that goes to my school.. but hes a Senior. Hes 17. I don't know what to do.. Do you think that a freshman dating a Senior is wrong? And if you think its okkay, do you have any advice on how to get to know him. He goes out to lunch and i dont have any classes with him, occasionally I see him in the hallway and i start up some kind of small talk untill we get to our classes, but it usually doesn;t branch off from there. Any siguestions? Thanks a million! i REALLY appreciate the help!! :D
hailey,3<3
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MOLLY124 answered Monday January 15 2007, 7:07 pm: well this might sound gross, but i know a eighth grader(girl) is going out with a softmore(boy).its soooo gross, but he only likes her for her ENORMUS boobs..ewwww..but anyway, all i can say is-love travels in different ways, so i guess its okay for you to go out with this senior.But if you do go out with him, prepare for this senior's friends to make fun of him and you(sorry to say that) bc theres a 3 year difference b/t you too. just follow your heart. and if he doesnt like you back, move on he's missing out on a great person. :]
lalalovely17 answered Monday January 15 2007, 3:48 pm: Yeah there is no problem with that. I dated a senior my freshman year and we're still really close. Just make sure that since he's older he may be more like into drinking or sex, or maybe not. But if he is make sure you don't get into that kind of stuff. You can get to know him by talking on the phone and hanging out like on the weekends not just at school. [ lalalovely17's advice column | Ask lalalovely17 A Question ]
kc answered Monday January 15 2007, 2:07 pm: Hey there [:
Well first off, if it is wrong, we are both messed up. I am a freshman of 15 dating a senior of 18 for about 4 months now. There is not a big age difference, in fact we don't care, because we mean alot to eachother.
Ask him to hang out sometime, nothing big, and don't be alone at first, remember he is a 17 year old boy. Maybe get a group of friends and go somewhere.
That might be kind of awkard though.
Think of something creative, maybe even when you are talking to him in the hallway be like "so are you going to be at lunch?" And since he is going to say no, look disappointed, and maybe, just maybe, he can ask you to come along.
Don't act immature though, be yourself and be confident.
xomichelle891xo answered Monday January 15 2007, 10:42 am: Its OK. If youre ready for it. If youre going to try to actually have something with this guy, KNOW the risks. He's older. Seniors have more experience usually in things like SEX, drugs, drinking, etc. Which means he MIGHT pressure you to do things. Also, he's going to college probably next year. So, know that, too. Ask him for his screen name. Or suggest you hang out this weekend. [ xomichelle891xo's advice column | Ask xomichelle891xo A Question ]
ductape_n_roses answered Monday January 15 2007, 12:57 am: Well, My friend Matt is going out with Shane and they're in 9th/12th grade...and yes they're gay. I personally don't know a girl and a guy who's in 9th and 12th grade going out.
I mean I'm in 9th grade and I have severl senior friends. But it's just a casual I know you friendship kind of thing. They don't really want to persue a friendship and more with freshies most of the times.
But, in the hallway, get his sn and talk to him IM first. Just be like, Hey whats your sn?
Then get his number eventually if you think he doesn't mind being friends with a freshie. Then hang out with him if he still doesnt. But be careful not to try and urge him to give you anything or make him your friend because that'll just drive him awaay [ ductape_n_roses's advice column | Ask ductape_n_roses A Question ]
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