Question Posted Saturday November 14 2009, 7:45 am
So...the same girl as i said before (the one who took my homework and gave it to someone else) well..today..she started talking about the guy who likes her and stuff..then..she said "wait i'll tell you later" after sometime...(hour or so) i asked again for her to continue...then shes like "wait!" (really angry face) then....later when she was free like totally free..i asked her ..then she says "why do you care? this is my personal problems" this really hurt me. she was the one who started the convo about the guy who likes her. i couldn't help but show her that i was mad at her...and ignored her for half of the day. and..when she was talking to me..i ignored her. but before we went home, i talked to her. tomorrow shes gona come to my house. so i have to talk to her. is this a good friend or not? and what should i do? I NOW KNOW NOT TO ASK HER ANY MORE FAMILY OR RELATIONSHIP QUESTIONS....yeesh :'(
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? sunshine1232 answered Sunday November 15 2009, 12:10 pm: Well i'd say to her you were the one who started
the conversation and if you didn't want me to hear
it you shouldn't of said something in the first place also say that she hurt you no she isn't a good friend you deserve better then her seeing as
something elese happened besides the homework incident try and work things with her and if for some reason things don't work out with your friendship i'd move on there's plenty of other people out there that you can become friends with
i wouldn't get to bent out of shape about it :) [ sunshine1232's advice column | Ask sunshine1232 A Question ]
Rachelpb9 answered Saturday November 14 2009, 11:29 pm: Okay clearly, she's not very open minded but I don't wanna judge. Just talk to her about it. Ask, "What's up? Did i do something? Is something bothering you?" let her know she has someone to talk to and that's you. Yes she's being a little stingy and kind of rude but if you really want to put effort you should talk to her. If she doens't come through then, then i think it's time to move on. Sorry if things don't go too well:( wish ya the best of luckk and i hope i helped :)
Katlyn answered Saturday November 14 2009, 5:44 pm: K this is obviously not a good friend i mean she took your hw and gave it to someone else that should be the first clue of a bad friend and second of all getting you started about a topic and then totally ignoring you when you want to know more about it is kind of childish and i honestly dont think she realizes it but acting bitchy is not cool so forget her you can make way better friends then her. Let her realize how wrong she was. [ Katlyn's advice column | Ask Katlyn A Question ]
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