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Should i ask him out?
okay so i have a huge crush on my friends brother, he always says hi to me, and i always say hi back but im too shy usually to have a long conversation, any ways as a joke me and him pass notes and his sister is the messanger (hes in high school 9th grade and im in 8th grade at middle school but the schools are on the same campus) anyways the note usually say like cute little things about how were best friends and every thing, and i want to ask him out, but is that weird considereing that im the girl, or is it too hard to date some one in high school? and if he said no then it would be really akward between me and him and his sister and mine friendship.oh and btw im 14 if that matters. thankyou and please gove advice =]
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Since he writes you notes sayin how you're "best friends", I would first get confirmation that the feelings are mutual so the friendship won't become awkward between you, him and his sister if you found out they weren't after you asked him. I would either go through his sister, since she is already involved being messenger, or ask him yourself. The way I would ask him was to start by bringing up being "best friends." Than I would ask him flirting how much he cares about me. If he repeats the whole best friends label, I would say you were wondering if it were stronger than that. If he says yes, you can go from there to asking him out. If he says no, you can change the subject. This way you wont risk making things awkward between you guys if the feelings aren't mutual. Also, I do not think it is weird to ask a guy out at all. Dating someone in high school when you're in middle school will be a little complicated, but I think it can work. It will be complicated for the fact that you won't see them much during school. Most of the relationship would consist outside of school. But like I said, you could make it work. Good luck with everything! I hope I helped. If you don't mind, please drop me an inbox to let me know how it all turned out. If you ever need anything else, I'm here. =)
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no no no. a girl should NEVER ask a guy out in my opinion. it makes the whole relationship weird. just flirt with him alot and look cute:) he'll catch on and eventually ask you.
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Actually, no that isn't weird. An I'm 14 too giving love advice. Is that weird? Anyway, It isn't weird to ask a guy out because Iv'e asked a guy out before and if I can do it, you can do it too, ok?
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It maybe tough to date someone in high school even though the two school's are on the same
campus if you two do end up dating you both can spend time together outside of school if you'd like to ask him out i say go for it it's worth a shot there's no harm in trying if for some reason things don't work out you'll still know that you tried trying is way better then not doing anything and regretting it later your in control of who you date nobody elese is if he says no then he'll move on and so will his sister also you should as well :)
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