about

Hi, I'm Courtney. I want to become a pre-school teacher :] and I've been though a whole heck of a lot, so feel free to ask me anything, i'll do my best to help ! xxo.
"i refuse to sink."

advice

We are expecting our first child and need baby name help. My husband and I have chosen not to find out the sex of our baby until he/she has been born. We have some names we like, but we aren't 100% sure on any of them. We thought maybe someone could suggest some that they really enjoy and let us know what they thought about some of ours.

Baby names we like so far...

Baby boy names:
Michael David
John Patrick
James Paul
David Austin

Baby girl names:
Grace Anne
Madison Faith
Anna-Claire
Elisa Grace

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

We like sweet, old-fashioned names, and traditional names mainly.

Thank you.

Awww, congratulations ! :] but okay, to answer your question, out of the names you've chosen so far I REALLY like..

BOY: John Patrick
GIRL: Madison Faith

A few other names you could try out and miz and match are..

BOY:
- Justin
- Andrew
- Aaron
- Alexander [alex]

GIRL:
- Shannon
- Marie
- Rebecca
- Lauren
- Elizabeth
- Hannah

there are so many to choose from :] you could always look up some on online sites, but GOOD LUCK :] and i wish you the best for you and your family :] ! have fun and follow your heart xox.

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ok so i started gettin my peirod when i was like 12. im 14 now and i have never had sex but my peirods stopped. what does that mean?

Your period will be irregular for quite some time, so it could stop for a month or two .. but don't worry about it. you're fine. as long as you're not doing anything sexual, which you're not [good for you :)] then you're in the clear. But if you think this might be a problem, as your mom to go see a gynotolegist or your regular doctor !
good luck ! don't sweat it so much :] you're a-okay. xxo :]

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What does the quote,

Keep your friends close and your enemies closer mean ?

Everyone is gonna have a different definition for what this means for them, but for me, it basically means that keep your friends close, because you know they won't betray you or hurt you and you trust them, but keep your enemies even CLOSER so you can keep an eye on them because you don't trust them and they could potentially hurt you. yuh know ? hahaa. I hope that made sense, because it did in my head .. :]
good luck, hope i helped ! xox

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i'm writing a novella about an arranged marriage long story short. the two are learning about each other each day they spend together - and i'm thinking of using the title "Dazzle Me" - as in like, win me over, etc. would you read this if you saw this title on a book?

I would definetly read it, it sounds so .. intriguing haha, i like it :]
good luck xox

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Ok, so i am a day dreamer and lately i have been day dreaming about this gorgeous guy that i made up and now he is all i can think about. I draw what he is supposed to look like. I think about him CONSTANTLY. Well, earlier today i saw him. It sounds crazy because i made him up, but i saw him a party. And he looked at me like he knew me but he didnt know from where. When i saw him i thought i was dreaming but i wasnt. It turned out we are going to the same school in fall so i went to talk to him but after that i couldn't find him and someone told me he left. What should i do? Should i pursue him in the fall and try to date him or do you think it was my mind just playing with me?

That actually doesn't sound crazy to me. I think fate is fate, and if this guy is the one you've been picturing, go for it :] get to know him. It can't hurt.
If you believe in something enough, it could come true.. call ME crazy, but i think that your luck is changing :] so pursue him, get to know him, and potentially become something more that friends :] im rooting for yuh !
good luck, hope i helped, and follow your heart. xxo.

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15f/
I broke up with my boyfriend, we went out for a really long time (a little under a year.) I finally got over it, and now all the time my brother and sister bring up his, just to annoy me. for instance, I will be texting and they will say who are you texting? Tom? something like that. It doesnt bother me that they are trying to annoy me, it hurts me that they are bringing up his name, because it makes me remember when all I want to do is forget. I have tried explaining this to them, and they laugh. another example is when we argue, they will tell me to go suck on toms cock just to be cruel.
help please!
ps my siblings are the same age as me so its not like they are younger.

this sounds SO MUCH like my family. I'm a triplet, and my siblings are the SAME exact way. Okay, I currently have a boyfriend, but somtimes to piss me off they'll be like, "oh you and [boyfriends name] together forever, love foreverrrr." and then they'll laugh or something. It's so retarded and they try to make me pissed. if you give them a reaction, they'll keep doing it, so I suggest you just act like it doesn't bother you. I mean, they still bring up my exes to and they call them nicknames, like for one of me sxes, they call him stork [because he was really tall] and for my bouyfriend, they call him like ... his name with an O at the end. it's just the little things like that that really push me to the limit, so i know how you feel when you can't have any privacy.
All you can really do is ignore them because they are just being immature and jealous [age doesnt exactly matter in this situation, i know that sucks, but its the truth] or you can maybe talk to your parents and try to get them to tell your siblings how hurtful this is. or you ca just keep trying to talk to them yourself, if they don't understand or keep doing it, so be it. they'll stop if they see it doesn't effect you. or say something back at them. there's many approaches you can take with this. choose wisely :]
hope i helped ! good luck and i hope this works out for you, if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.

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17f

im really into soccer, i have been playing for about 3 years now, would it be stupid to get a small soccer tatoo somewhere on my body? where would i put it? you can say its a stupid idea, i just want opinions.

Well, put it this way ... another 3 years from now, do you want to have a small soccer tattoo on your body ? it's really your decision. I say go for it if it really means something to you. Nothing important or meaningful is ever stupid.
If you do decide to go through with this, I say you either put it on...
- your shoulderblade on your back
- ankle
- back of your neck
- wrist
hope i helped, good luck and have fun :] ! xxo.

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Hi. i am 16 years old and a female. two days ago i lost my virginity to a guy in my neighborhood. I am so ashamed. It's not like me at all, and I am so depressed with myself right now. only one of my friends knows and my parents do not know. i don't want to tell anyone though because i know they would think of me differently if i did, especially my parents. I regret it soo much though. I feel like i lost my childhood and my innocence. I don't know how to keep living like nothing changed because I don't feel like I am still a kid now. Also I am worried because although I know this person does not have any STDs, and we used a condom and it didnt break, my stomach hurts a lot since two days ago and (sorry if this is tmi) but when I peed today I found a light pink discharge when i wiped. I don't know what is wrong. I finished my last period on sunday the 19th. so it isnt my period. i don't know if i should be worried that i am pregnant if the condom didnt break. btw i am not on the pill. My periods are normally very irregular so idk how to tell if i am late or not with it. please help me :(
thanks,
Maggie

Awww, sweetie, it's okay, don't feel bad, people get caught up in the moment and these things can happen. Don't beat yourself up over this, it's not fair to you, this is just a lesson learned to be more careful, yuh know ? dont think of it like the most horrible think of it as a mistake that you're GLAD happened because you'll be more smart about it next time. I know you feel like you lost your childhood, but you're still 16, having sex ONCE was a mistake, yes, but try not to think about it as losing your innocence. You are still the same person you were before, you just made a bad choice, yuh know ? It WILL get better, I promise, you just have to get through it and try not to worry about it. You still are a kid, just a kid who had sex. no biggie, you still have your innocence, you just dont have a hymen anymore :] haha i know this isn't a joking matter, but i'm trying to make you feel better girl. and if you don't want anyone to know about this, no one will have to know, it can just be your secret, the boy's, your friend's, and ours.
And you "maybe" being pregnant, it might just all be in your head. Sometimes after sex your stomach may hurt, at least, that's what my friend told me. and you could be making yourself feel sick because you feel so guilty. And for the light pink discharge, you should be fine. It's perfectly normal to have a light pink discharge or a brown discharge after having intercourse. If it's just a little, then you have nothing to worry about, it doesn NOT mean that you are pregnant. and since your period is so irregular, you should really get a pregnancy test, maybe go with your friend. It's the only way you'll know for sure, or you can make an appointment with your gyno or regular doctor, they don't have to tell your parents if you dont want them to, so just go get a pregnancy test and then take it from there. If you are pregnant, DO NOT FREAK OUT, panicking is like the worst thing you could do. Just take a deep breath and you'll figure it out. I wish you the best of luck, I'm sorry you have to go through this :[
hope i helped ! good luck, and if you need anything else hun, feel free to inbox me. :] xxo.

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I need really gd advice! Im 16 and left school not long ago, the lad i like is 16 and left school not long ago too. I was going out with him for 2 months we did nothin but argue so we split up. I was stupid and got with his UGLY brother me and his brother broke up and he took me bk. I was with him for another month then we broke up again he said he heard tales about me. could this be true or is he makin it up? Hes got new g/f aswell he always tells me he likes me more and how much he would like to be with me n how much he likes me. i havnt had sexual intercourse with him, but hes had it with hes new g/f could this be it?? He also cheated on her, wiv me they other night, i feel so guilty and like he can just have me when it suits him. But i need help i cant stop thinkin about him everythin relates to him. thanks ill rate. Kim x

If he likes you as much as he says he does, then why isn't he with you and why is he with his current girlfriend that dulls in comparison to you ? Right now, you're the back-up plan and you're the "other girl" and he's using you. He obviously knows that if he tells you what you want to hear, you'll stick around, that's messed up. open your eyes girl and THINK, why are you even wasting your time on him ? He's a piece of trash, honestly. You can do waaaay better than him OR his brother, so don't settle for less then what you deserve, ever.
And he is tricking you into doing things with him since he knows he has a hold on you and he knows that he can and that you WILL. I mean, you proved it by letting him cheat on his girlfriend with you. so stop this insanity now, it's not right of him OR you. and you are SO right, he can't just have you when the time is right for him.
and eventually, you WILL stop thinking about him, and things will slowly start to stop reminding you of him, but you have to move on and try to find someone else. just cut yourself off from him completely. stop talking to him for a while and just stay away with him for a while. you need to get away from him or you'll just keep falling back on him just like he wants you to. so go out there, and meet guys who will RESPECT you and guys who DESERVE you.
I promise you'll find some :] just ditch the loser. honestly. haha. good luck, hope I helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.

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I was talking to my exboyfriend on the phone and I mentioned getting back together again,but then this girl "SAMANTHA"showed up and got with her.How can I get him back?

hahaa, wow. I've been down THAT road and it is most definetly not fun by any means. You should just act liek you don't care and aren't interested. If he sees you've moved on, it will make him jealous [trust me] and he'll want to get back with you eventually. But don't be that girl who gets called the "boyfriend stealer" it's really not an honorable classification. You should just try looking for other guys and show him that he's not the only one out there and that you can do better, it will kill him. But sticking around and fighting for him will just stroke his e-go and he'll know he has you wrapped around his finger. So just don't try to get him back, if he wanted you, he'd tell you or go back to you. and obviously, right now, that's not the case. Don't waste your time on stupid boys like that, you can do better, revenge is sweet but victory is sweeter, so he's losing by not being with you, and he'll realize that in the end :]
good luck, hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.

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Hey hunn. okay i have a low self esteem probelm..&&a drinking problem&& a lack of confidece problem.. i have os much go on in my life that i just take it out on drugs and alcohol&& shit liek that.. idk what to do like my 2nd cousin sexually abuses me, and my best friend abusses me and my best friend commited suicide last year... and i just need help... aka. not going to therapist. already tried and it didnt work. THNAKS

First of all, report your cousin and your friend to the police, IMMEDIATLETY. no one should be abusing you in ANY WAY. that will help you ALOT if you just turn them in, honestly.
And I'm sorry about your friend commiting suicide :[ that's got to be really tough, a couple of my friends have attempted to commit suicide, so i know how hard it is and how empty you must be feeling right now. But i DO agree with christina? it could take going to a bunch of different therapists before you actually find one that can help you. because they ARE the best help there is.
Anyways, with that said, you should try writing in a journal. Write down all your thoughts and feelings and anything that gets your wmotions out from inside of you. I know you think, "pssh, yeah right, why would I wanna write in a journal? thats not gonna do crap." but it really does help. I promise.
You should also call this number ...
1-800-273-TALK[8255]
you can talk to a complete stranger about anything, and they'll help you deal with your problems or feelings.
I really hope this gets better for you, hang in there and try to engage in activitied with friend or join a sport, maybe get yourself into art or something. but occupy yourself and communication is key, so maybe talk to your parents and tell them what's going on, trust me, they'd wanna know so they can do their very best to help you. good luck, hope I helped and stay strong :] xxo.

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ok so theres this one kid in my school that i really like ! and then theres some other kid that lives on my friends street that she introduced me to. the first day i met him, he asked me out and now he always IMs me and is like so what's your answer ? and i'm like i gutta go then i put my away message on and that other thing is that i can only see him on the weekends and thats even if i go to my friends house. i really like the kid that goes to my school, but i dont think he likes me. D= help !

Never settle for less, always try to get what you want or figure out what you want before you decide to make a decision you might regret. If you really have feelings for the kid in your school, definetly start talking to him more [if you haven't already] flirt with him and see where that goes. I mean, the guy you met on your friends street is probably a decent guy too, but he doesn't even KNOW you and is asking you out, I mean, any guy who does that just sounds desperate. You should get to know BOTH of these guys before you do anything drastic :] haha. Once you get to know them, then you can make the decision you are most comfortable with. But for now, I suggest you tell the guy that kepes asking you out that you just want to be friends with him and get to know him more before getting into a relationship because you just want to have fun right now. He'll understand.
Just ALWAYS follow your heart, it has the best judgement :]
good luck and have fun :] dont sweat it so much, take a deep breath and think rationally. if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. hope i helped ! xxo.

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Well Recently me and my good friend that i've known for 5 years isnt talking to me because,she thinks that i had talked behind her back and despise her race.However, i had never talked badly about her,she latly has been hanging around the wrong type of crowd and i think some girls that dislike me are gossiping false information to her.
The last word she spoke to me during our last converation was "I dont need you or anyone else". That day i cried so much infront of her but it
didnt bother her. We both are in high school,and she and me know everything there is to know about each other. I had at that time written a heart felt letter & she again took it the wrong way. I feel helpless and down thinking about it.I love her so much however, i feel like a fool towards the end.Wasting so much time and energy thinking about one person in my life, who i care so much about.
Most of my friends know my side of the story and tell me constantly to forget her, for she isnt a good enough friend to understand that i would never do that.
Should i even try speaking to her or do i seem so desperate that she wont even care? What should i do?

I agree with the advice given below me, people do change, and unfortunatley when people change, so do their social groups. You honestly do NOT deserve to have someone abuse your friendship like that when you did absolutley nothing. Your "friend" should believe you more than her new friends, but I guess she is just trying to fit in to be "in" with her new group of friends. It sucks, and she basically ditched you, but you have other friends, prove to her that you don't need her to believe you.. actually, you should tell her that. You should call her, and give her one ast chance to hear you out [and then in the end, you can know that you did all you could do to try to get her to be the good friend she used to be] you should say something like, "I don't need you to believe me, it's your choice, but I never said anything about you behind your back, I would never want to, friends don't do that, but friends DO trust one another, and if you can't trust what I'm telling you then obviously you aren't the friend i thought you were. I love you bud, but if it comes down to this, then i really hope you can enjoy your friends who are lying to you."
If you tell her something along the lines of that she may actually take you seriously, but if she doesn't, then screw her. you have other people you can be yourself with and trust and who DESERVE your friendship. So I say give t one last shot and then if nothing is accomplished, then just let it go. people change, there's nothing you can do about it, and if she decides to come crawling back to you, then you can decide what will happen. but really, I wish you the best of luck, im sorry this is a sucky situation, but I know how you feel :/
good luck, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! :] xxo.

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Is it just me or is it weird that my husband who is 31 years old sits on his mothers lap when we go to visit, or cuddles up next to her on the couch?

Maybe its just me, but i find it odd that a 31 year old would even want to do that. I mean I feel like maybe he does this because of unresolved issues from his childhood.

Unless I'm wrong, and this is completely normal and I just have no feelings.

He's 31 ...? yeah, that does seem a tad bit strange. I agree with the advice below me, definetly talk to him about it and tell him how it makes you feel, and he'll probably tell you why he does it. It might just be a habit from when he was younger ... old habits die hard, sometimes :]
good luck, xxo.

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Hey i still need more advice on some romantic ideas for my bf n me... weve bekn together for 6 mnths n i wanna do somethong fun.but sweet

Aww, cute :] okay so, you could go to a park where there's a trail [like a hiking one] and you could go hiking and stuff, go into the streams and river if there are any, have fun and enjoy yourslef, then you could have a picnik somehwere in the park and maybe go on the playground and act liek kids again :] hahaa i did that with my boyfriend and it was sweet and fun, great combination, huh ? :] you could also cook together. go over either your house or your boyfriends house and make a dinner or dessert or something, then maybe pitch a tent in your backyard or put down a blanket and eat what you've guys made. I mean, come on, boys LOVE food :] hahaa. and usually when you're cooking, flour fights start and you guys end up laughing your entire day away haha it's cute and fun.
hope i helped :] if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. HAVE FUN :] ! xxo.

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My boyfriend's birthday is coming up quite soon. And I'm not sure what to get him. We've been dating for almost 9 months. He plays the guitar, and he also likes playing xbox live and such. He's a fan of Georgia Tech, but he's not like obsessive about it. Oh, and he plays and really likes to watch baseball. I don't have a lot of money, but could anyone give me any sort of idea of what to get him? My budget is probably 100 dollars. Help ? :D

When I was going out with my ex boyfriend, for his birthday, I was planning on getting him an engraved guitar pick. [not one he can use, since it would probably break the strings haha] but on to maybe put on a necklace or just fro display, to know its always there, yuh know ? that would be a cute idea and it's not alot of money at all.
http://www.sterlingguitarpics.com/
or
http://www.pickfactory.com/products.php?cat=9
[scroll down on the page]
or you can just go to your local music store, see if they have any silver or metal picks then you can go to a store and get it engraved.
other ideas could be like, buy him a movie, maybe a favorite one of his, and then get some popcorn and candy and snacks and have a movie night with him :] i did that one time, my ex loved it :] haha boys love food and then you could like engrave a frame with a picture of you and him in it on the side [or mabe make a mixtape]
anyways, hope i helped, have fun :] ! and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.

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i have a girlfriend who i'm very dedicated to. but my friend, also my ex, has a beautiful ass. i want to do so many things to it. what can i do to engage in activity with her without it being considered cheating?

if she rubbed it in my face would that count?
or let me sniff it?
any ideas?

any activity you want to "engage" in with your ex would be considered cheating on ALL terms. theres oe simple souloution to this ...
don't do it.
good luck, xxo.

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Ok, so I like this guy right?
I didn’t tell anybody that I liked him, so one of my best friends, decides to go out with him
I’m really confused, because now, she’s not talking to me anymore, so I’m thinking that she knew that I liked him and she asked him out during the Mission Trip, that I didn’t go on, to make me jealous. I don’t know why she would want to make me jealous, but I think that what she’s trying to do. I had to find out from 2 girls that questioned him and I overheard, and I think that the fact that she didn’t tell me herself, that she didn’t want me to know about her secret relationship. According to some of my other friends, they’ve been together for a while now. What should I do?

I agree with the advice given below me, you didn't tell anyone that you liked him, so you can't blame your friend for going out with him. I mean, sure, maybe she had an idea that PERHAPS you did like him, and was afraid to ask you since she likes him too, she probably didn't want it to be awkward between the both of you if you were to find out that they were going out. But now that you know, the only thing you can do is talk to her. Communication is key. Be open minded about this, I mean, if they've been going out for a while now, you should try to move on from him. I know that's probably not what you want to hear, but it's better to just let things be then cause bigger problems, yuh know ? You'll find someone else, but at least talk to your best friend and tell ehr how you feel and that it made you really upset that she didn't trust you with telling you that she was going out with that guy, but be ready for her to say, "well you didn't trust me by telling me you liked him." because it's a 2 way street and no one can really be blamed for the happenings in this situation.
Like one time, my best friend went out with this guy I have known for 5 years, and that I liked for most of those years, and I never told her that I liekd him since at the time I kinda liked someone else, even though I always had liked him more, and she went out with him. So I got really upset, and I didn't even know she had liked him, and so I decided to talk to her about it, and we talked it out and everything got better. soI suggest you just calmly talk to your friend about everything. It really helps.
Hope i helped, and good luck hun. :] if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.

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Okay so. theres my best friend ever. i can tell her everything AND anything. she gets mad easily and i apparently learned this the hard way. earlier today she got mad at me cause i copied her. and im not gonna lied i DO try to be like her. ONLY cause i look up to her. shes everything i want to be. and then she blocked me on aim. and took me out of her profile. and that doesnt bother me. but now she deleted me as a friend. and i dont have the courage to call her cause trust me. she WILL yell at me hardcore. but anyways. we are best friends and she normally isnt this harsh. and i cant stand it. so please help me.

from,
desprate

Alright, in my opinion, I can understand where your friend is coming from. I had a "best friend" who was kinda like you, she copied me, did everything i did, and one time she said to me, "how can I be like YOU." See, that got me really weirded out and pissed. Like, sometimes, people can't deal with clingyness, they just don't like it, I'm one of those "non-liking clingyness" people haha, and so is your friend.
You should definetly give her some space right now, because if she's that heated and blocked you on aim and removed you as a friend, trying to banish you from her life, then she's trying to make a point that she's most definetly not dealing with you trying to be like her. It's nice that you look up to her, but if someone was trying to be liek YOU and did everything you did and dressed like you, you'd be pretty unhappy also. So try talking to her about it in a week or so, let her cool off at the moment. Talking to her right away isn't going to help the situation, it will probably make it worse. So as of right now, try to be yourself. Don't dress like her, or talk like her, or anything like that, show her that you are your own person and she'll respect you for that. The worst thing you could do is repeatedly ask her to not be mad at you and act "desperate" to be her friend again, because that will just piss her off even more. [trust me hahaa]
Good luck, and things will work out in the end, I promise :] you seem like a really chill person, so don't sweat it. hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! xxo.

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hey, i am sixteen and i have dated a guy for 1 year and i absolutley love him..we did so much fun stuff together and we would mail eachother letters and pictures and everything else.. i broke up with him a few weeks ago.. and i realize i love him.. i can't get him off of my mind.. he is all i think about.. and now my best freind is gonna go out with him.. i was so pissed off at her.. she wonders why i am so mad and tells me to get over it.. i still love him.. we were suppose to get back together, but she came along and she ruined it all..she told me it was an accident and she dindt mean it, bullshit.. he told me he still loved me too... then i asked him if he wanted to go back out and he said fuck no.. then he called me a physcho bitch only b/c i was upset that they were gonna go out..i mean a few weeks ago he loved me.. i never felt like this before in a relationship.. we were commited to eachother.. and some best friend she is huh? what am i suppose to do? WE BROKE UP BECAUSE..i only broke up with him b/c he gave me lots of attitude, and he hung out with his freinds more then he did with me.. i felt like i was a nobody. we barely ever saw eachother and he called me like only like once every 2 weeks..and i got sick of it...but now i regret doing it..b/c i love him.. :-( now him and my best freind are gonna hit it off,i just feel so bad and upset and depressed... i never knew how much i really liked him.. he told me later in the future we would work it out.. but i don't see that happening.. well thanks alot... hope you can help me!!!!! jennifer, upset in pa

:[ wow that sucks, but I know how you feel. no best friend would EVER go out with your ex boyfriend, especially if they knew you still loved them and ESPECIALLY if you guys went out for that long. Honestly, that's just messed up. But anyways you have all the right in the world to be upset and mad at both of them. Obviously, your "best friend" is just a backup plan because he told you that he loves you and he ALSO said that there is the potential for you both to have a stronger relationship in the future. You most likely broke his heart when you ended the relationship, and his way of getting back at you is by going out with your best friend. Lame, I know. But sometimes, that's how guys deal with things. If your best friend showed interest in him and he relaized it, he probably thought that that was the best way to hurt you like you hurt him. You breaking up with him was something you chose to do because the relationship didn't feel like a relationship anymore, and as the saying goes "you don't know what you got 'til it's gone."
Unfortunatley, you can't really do anything. You just have to let things play out on their own. If they do end up going out, fine. He's gonna realize that he still loves you and wants to be with you, maybe this is a good thing maybe it will be a wake up call. However, if you REALLY want to try to get him back, you need to ask him to hang out with you ALONE, someplace where you can have complete privacy. Tell him that you're hanging out as just "friends" and he'll come. When you're alone, tell him everything you told us here on advicenators. You need to get your feelings out, and tell him that it bothers you ALOT seeing him with another girl and especially a girl that is supposed to be your best friend. then ask him how he would feel in your position, if you decided to go out with HIS best friend, that should really get him thinking. Tell him that you still love him but are NOT waiting around for him while he dates someone that is totally not right for him. And then he can make the decision of either going out with her or not. In the end, you can't be g him to come back to you, he has to WANT to do it on his own, and if he winds up not wanting to be your boyfriend, then his loss, because you're obviously a great girl who can do SOOO much better than a dirtbag like him. :] honestly.
Good luck, hope I helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! let me know how it goes :] xxo.

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