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me my ex boyfriend and his girlfriend


Question Posted Wednesday July 22 2009, 5:48 am

I need really gd advice! Im 16 and left school not long ago, the lad i like is 16 and left school not long ago too. I was going out with him for 2 months we did nothin but argue so we split up. I was stupid and got with his UGLY brother me and his brother broke up and he took me bk. I was with him for another month then we broke up again he said he heard tales about me. could this be true or is he makin it up? Hes got new g/f aswell he always tells me he likes me more and how much he would like to be with me n how much he likes me. i havnt had sexual intercourse with him, but hes had it with hes new g/f could this be it?? He also cheated on her, wiv me they other night, i feel so guilty and like he can just have me when it suits him. But i need help i cant stop thinkin about him everythin relates to him. thanks ill rate. Kim x

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itdependsonyoux3 answered Thursday July 23 2009, 7:47 pm:
If he likes you as much as he says he does, then why isn't he with you and why is he with his current girlfriend that dulls in comparison to you ? Right now, you're the back-up plan and you're the "other girl" and he's using you. He obviously knows that if he tells you what you want to hear, you'll stick around, that's messed up. open your eyes girl and THINK, why are you even wasting your time on him ? He's a piece of trash, honestly. You can do waaaay better than him OR his brother, so don't settle for less then what you deserve, ever.
And he is tricking you into doing things with him since he knows he has a hold on you and he knows that he can and that you WILL. I mean, you proved it by letting him cheat on his girlfriend with you. so stop this insanity now, it's not right of him OR you. and you are SO right, he can't just have you when the time is right for him.
and eventually, you WILL stop thinking about him, and things will slowly start to stop reminding you of him, but you have to move on and try to find someone else. just cut yourself off from him completely. stop talking to him for a while and just stay away with him for a while. you need to get away from him or you'll just keep falling back on him just like he wants you to. so go out there, and meet guys who will RESPECT you and guys who DESERVE you.
I promise you'll find some :] just ditch the loser. honestly. haha. good luck, hope I helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.

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christina answered Wednesday July 22 2009, 7:41 am:
First off, stop hooking up with him. He has a girlfriend. He more than likely isn't looking for anything serious from his girlfriend or you. If he loved his girlfriend, or even cared for her, he wouldn't have cheated. If he cared about you, he'd be with you.

Also, it's not really a good thing to hook up with people in the same family. It's really trashy and gross, especially when you go back & forth between the two.

He's sweet talking you to get what he wants out of you. He's an asshole who doesn't give a shit about you. When you think about him, think about what a disgusting cheater he is, think about how he uses words to get women to do things for him, think about what a huge liar & manipulator he is. I can guarantee that if you think about that when he comes to mind, he won't be so appealing anymore.

Stop dating assholes. You can do better, and you deserve better.

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