ok so theres this one kid in my school that i really like ! and then theres some other kid that lives on my friends street that she introduced me to. the first day i met him, he asked me out and now he always IMs me and is like so what's your answer ? and i'm like i gutta go then i put my away message on and that other thing is that i can only see him on the weekends and thats even if i go to my friends house. i really like the kid that goes to my school, but i dont think he likes me. D= help !
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? itdependsonyoux3 answered Thursday July 23 2009, 7:10 pm: Never settle for less, always try to get what you want or figure out what you want before you decide to make a decision you might regret. If you really have feelings for the kid in your school, definetly start talking to him more [if you haven't already] flirt with him and see where that goes. I mean, the guy you met on your friends street is probably a decent guy too, but he doesn't even KNOW you and is asking you out, I mean, any guy who does that just sounds desperate. You should get to know BOTH of these guys before you do anything drastic :] haha. Once you get to know them, then you can make the decision you are most comfortable with. But for now, I suggest you tell the guy that kepes asking you out that you just want to be friends with him and get to know him more before getting into a relationship because you just want to have fun right now. He'll understand.
Just ALWAYS follow your heart, it has the best judgement :]
good luck and have fun :] dont sweat it so much, take a deep breath and think rationally. if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. hope i helped ! xxo. [ itdependsonyoux3's advice column | Ask itdependsonyoux3 A Question ]
susansexton answered Thursday July 23 2009, 12:59 am: Okay, first thigns first.
Figure out if schoool kid likes you.
text/internet/ or, if you're not shy, ask him in person(:
If so great!
Then street guy, ummmm..
I wouldn't date him. Not right off the back anyways.
Maybe you should try and get to know him and hangout.
But tell him you would like to get to know him first.
Then, once you figure out if school kids likes you, choose who you like more :]
I know it's a hard decision, but in the end, you'll pick the right choice!
& if not, you'll alwyas have a chance with the other boy.
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