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My friend stole my guy!
Ok, so I like this guy right?
I didn’t tell anybody that I liked him, so one of my best friends, decides to go out with him
I’m really confused, because now, she’s not talking to me anymore, so I’m thinking that she knew that I liked him and she asked him out during the Mission Trip, that I didn’t go on, to make me jealous. I don’t know why she would want to make me jealous, but I think that what she’s trying to do. I had to find out from 2 girls that questioned him and I overheard, and I think that the fact that she didn’t tell me herself, that she didn’t want me to know about her secret relationship. According to some of my other friends, they’ve been together for a while now. What should I do?
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Dear "My friend stole my guy!"
Well that stinks. But, sorry babe, the only way you are going to know what REALLY happened is if you and your friend have a talk. In person. alone. No more of this getting information from other people, he said-she said garbage. You two need to get together and straighten this out because you shouldn't let one boy ruin your friendship. Oh those silly boys...
Goodluck!
xoxo
LoLLiPoP
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I agree with the advice given below me, you didn't tell anyone that you liked him, so you can't blame your friend for going out with him. I mean, sure, maybe she had an idea that PERHAPS you did like him, and was afraid to ask you since she likes him too, she probably didn't want it to be awkward between the both of you if you were to find out that they were going out. But now that you know, the only thing you can do is talk to her. Communication is key. Be open minded about this, I mean, if they've been going out for a while now, you should try to move on from him. I know that's probably not what you want to hear, but it's better to just let things be then cause bigger problems, yuh know ? You'll find someone else, but at least talk to your best friend and tell ehr how you feel and that it made you really upset that she didn't trust you with telling you that she was going out with that guy, but be ready for her to say, "well you didn't trust me by telling me you liked him." because it's a 2 way street and no one can really be blamed for the happenings in this situation.
Like one time, my best friend went out with this guy I have known for 5 years, and that I liked for most of those years, and I never told her that I liekd him since at the time I kinda liked someone else, even though I always had liked him more, and she went out with him. So I got really upset, and I didn't even know she had liked him, and so I decided to talk to her about it, and we talked it out and everything got better. soI suggest you just calmly talk to your friend about everything. It really helps.
Hope i helped, and good luck hun. :] if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.
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Well, she didn't technically steal your guy because you didn't tell her that you liked him. For all you know, they've been dating longer than you've liked him. You said they've been together for a while now. Maybe she's not talking to you because she thinks that you already knew they were together and she found out somehow that you like him. Or, maybe she knew you liked him and she started dating him and she's not talking to you know because she feels guilty or thinks that you're mad at her.
At any rate, you should talk to her about it. Ask her why she didn't tell you that they started dating. Normally, a close friend would tell you when they start dating someone. She might have a simple explanation for what's going on.
Darby
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