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about friendship conflict
Well Recently me and my good friend that i've known for 5 years isnt talking to me because,she thinks that i had talked behind her back and despise her race.However, i had never talked badly about her,she latly has been hanging around the wrong type of crowd and i think some girls that dislike me are gossiping false information to her.
The last word she spoke to me during our last converation was "I dont need you or anyone else". That day i cried so much infront of her but it
didnt bother her. We both are in high school,and she and me know everything there is to know about each other. I had at that time written a heart felt letter & she again took it the wrong way. I feel helpless and down thinking about it.I love her so much however, i feel like a fool towards the end.Wasting so much time and energy thinking about one person in my life, who i care so much about.
Most of my friends know my side of the story and tell me constantly to forget her, for she isnt a good enough friend to understand that i would never do that.
Should i even try speaking to her or do i seem so desperate that she wont even care? What should i do?
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I agree with the advice given below me, people do change, and unfortunatley when people change, so do their social groups. You honestly do NOT deserve to have someone abuse your friendship like that when you did absolutley nothing. Your "friend" should believe you more than her new friends, but I guess she is just trying to fit in to be "in" with her new group of friends. It sucks, and she basically ditched you, but you have other friends, prove to her that you don't need her to believe you.. actually, you should tell her that. You should call her, and give her one ast chance to hear you out [and then in the end, you can know that you did all you could do to try to get her to be the good friend she used to be] you should say something like, "I don't need you to believe me, it's your choice, but I never said anything about you behind your back, I would never want to, friends don't do that, but friends DO trust one another, and if you can't trust what I'm telling you then obviously you aren't the friend i thought you were. I love you bud, but if it comes down to this, then i really hope you can enjoy your friends who are lying to you."
If you tell her something along the lines of that she may actually take you seriously, but if she doesn't, then screw her. you have other people you can be yourself with and trust and who DESERVE your friendship. So I say give t one last shot and then if nothing is accomplished, then just let it go. people change, there's nothing you can do about it, and if she decides to come crawling back to you, then you can decide what will happen. but really, I wish you the best of luck, im sorry this is a sucky situation, but I know how you feel :/
good luck, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! :] xxo.
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confront her!
don't be all mushy tho.
tell her you think she's being very disrespectful and you deserve better than that from a friend.
it seems to me that she's not a real friend tho, if she believes those people.
friends come and go.
it's very sad to know that, but it's true.
it happens to everyone.
hope you make it through this(:
T.
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