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dry humping
okay so when me and my boyfriend dry hump i orgasm really quickly, then its like i wanna stop, but i feel bad cause i get him hard, then he gets blue balls right? do guys get blue balls everytime when they get hard and you don't let them cum? so is it mean of me to dry hump and not give him a hj/bj after?
and yes i'm one of those lucky few girls who orgasm fast by pretty much doing nothing lol
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It depends if he's already had sex or masturbated before, not if you dry humped. And i wouldn't say its mean of you, when your ready to go that far then talk about it. But don't go that far just because you feel bad for him
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he won't get blue balls because he didn't finish that one time. most guys just say that they will so they can get some lovin' too.
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I wouldn't say that you're being mean by leaving your man with blue balls (after all, it's your choice whether or not you help him out), but as a man I can say that there's nothing worse than being left hanging. Best idea: talk about it with him.
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Do guys get "blue balls"?
---The answer is "yes."
Do guys get "blue balls" EVERY TIME they get hard and you don't let them cum?
---The answer is "no."
When he gets hard, blood flows to his penis and his testicles, causing the penis to erect and the testicles to swell. If he doesn't ejaculate, then the pressure will build up in his testicle and cause it to swollen and kind of turn into a purple-ish color. (I don't know why it calls "blue balls" though; I might need to look into this afterward.)
This doesn't always happen though, depending on how "excited" he got.
Anyway, "blue balls" could cause the man to feel sore and mild ache, but if it is serious (like he got too excited and too much blood flowed in), then it could be as painful as being kicked "where-the-sun-doesn't-shine" (being kicked in the balls).
It could last anywhere from half an hour to over 5 hours.
But the good news is, it's not dangerous, and does no harm to him (except the pain). The blood will eventually drain on its own, if he doesn't ejaculate.
Also, be aware that there will be people, even adults and some teachers, that tell you that this is a myth. It's NOT! "Blue balls" do happen and they do cause discomfort.
Are "blue balls" dangerous? The answer is "NO!" If he tells you that if he doesn't come, his testicle might explode, go kick his balls and see if it got popped. Testicles are hard to be harmed, even if you hit it with a baseball bat, no harm will be done (except the pain). But don't use a hammer, a knife, a sword, or a gun though, hahaha.
And yes, from a guy's point of view, it is mean. As much as you girls don't like your "monthly-annoyance" (your period [or PMS]), we don't like getting "blue balls" either.
Hope this helps,
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