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i have a bf but i think i still like my other friend
ok so here's the problem. my "best friend" and i did everything together. LITERALLY. but anyways, over time i started to like him a little more than a friend. then it became serious. but then i figured out that he was actually using me for secrets. all he want to know was all of my secrets. but i didnt really talk to him about it. but then when i didnt really have anymore secrets to tell him, he left me (as a friend) for two of my other best friends. of course he was using them also. but they didnt believe that. after he left me for them, he never EVER talked to me. but at the end of the day he would always ask the two girls to text or call him. or he would tell them that he would call them. HE NEVER EVER call me EVER. not even wen we were friends. he broke my heart so much. i would cry everyday. LITERALLY.
so its summer now and i am so happy that i have a bf. someone who actually loves me for me; not my secrets. so im basically trying to forget about my friend. but i cant get him out of my head. i keep thinking about him. and i found out that the two girls arent his friends anymore. and two days after i found that out, he text and emailed me saying "hey wats up? havent talked to you in awhile. call me so we can catch up."
ARE YOU EFFIN' KIDDING? he wants me back since the two girls left him. but im afraid that im going to either break my bf's heart because i still have feelings for my friend. or i will end up falling for my friend AGAIN next year.
"Now, your at the point where you want to forget about the past....all the rude things he said, all the girlfrends he went through, all the secrets you shared, all the tears you shed, all the laughs you shared, and all the time you spent together...but you know you cant...only because you couldnt just forget a person that you spend every second thinking about."
***sorry that was a part from my journal!
please...someone help me get through this. anything will help :)
ps. im a 13 year old girl. going to 8th grade.
and sorry its so long. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO READ IT ALL.
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Look this guy is a jerk, I understand you still have feelings for him because you're hurt but you have to understand you can't be with this guy or even be friends with him because he is a jerk.
Why would you break your boyfriend's heart? You obviously like your boyfriend because like you mentioned you are happy and it's obviously because of your boyfriend.
You don't need this jerk in any way, so reply to his text 'Sorry I'm busy and You're not even worth my time' and when you do that put a big happy smile on your face , move on, and have fun with your boyfriend.
Good Luck =]=]
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Well its up to you, you just have to follow your heart, your friend that leave you and make you cry and using you was messed up and also he ditch you for the two other girls.. and now you have a bf that he loves you.. Please think about it.. you have a bf already and he loves you, not like that other friend of yours who betray you.. Now here is my answer. If you choose your friend instead of your bf, you’ll make your biggest mistake its like what happen to you your friend that leave you it will happen to your bf that way another thing what happen if you leave your bf and that friend of yours will do that again in the near future.. Sometimes it will happen again like last time he leave you.. but I cannot choose but its your choice to choose which side remember the person who did in the past it will happens again in the future so just remember what I said, and btw your bf loves you for who you are is he enough for you or you want your friend that leave you before and breaks your heart again sorry if my answer is too much remember I care about you I just don’t want other ppl to get hurt that way and it will repeats in the future.. ♥ Jun
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