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Hi. My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but we really have no where to go to have sex. No car no nothing. We're both 16 and my question is, is it wrong to have sex in a movie theater when no one is there? And what happens if someone walks in? And how long does it take your first time?

It's really wrong to have sex in a movie theatre or any other public place... if you get caught you will be in A LOT of trouble... you should wait untill your married to have sex... that's the best thing to do...

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okay..I know that this is bad and stuff but I just really need advice--quick! On sunday night i drank about a quarter of a bottle of beer, a few sips of sangria and like a cup of vodka..I am going to the doctor for a check-up on thursday and i'll be getting blood taken, will any of the alcohol be in my body still, and if so will it be shown when my blood is taken? (i'm 5'0'' and 100 lbs)

It most likely will be outta ur system by than... but drink lots of fluids to flush it out... just incase...

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i live in a warm tropical country and i was wondering what perfume would still smell great after about 4 hours in humid weather? something fresh and clean, and will not smell sour later on =) thanks

Try Curious by Britney Spears... endless love by victoria's secret... still by JLo...

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i think im cursed or something.. i have been sick (stomach flu) about 5 times in the past 2 months. it has been on and off. I was sick right before christmas, the day after christmas, new years(yea i couldnt go to a party or anything) and then once in January. Now Im sick again. Its horrible i will throw up, lay down, then when i get back up i have to throw up again. and all i ate this morning was a powdered doughnut. i also used to have an extreme pain on my right side.. it was so bad it made me throw up and i wasnt able to walk.. could someone tell me whats wrong with me.. or how to get rid of this stomach flu? (i have gone to the doctors but they didnt find anything)

i got a stomach virus this year too... i didnt take any anti biotics... i ended up going to the hospital and they hooked me up to an IV and that helped a LOT... take some vitamins to strenghthen ur immune system... try cod liver oil... it's a vitamin... and it works great... try other multi vitamins too..

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i moved this summer and was really, really worried about not being able to make new friends. my friends said that i would make friends in no time, and i did. but last weekend, i called my freind, and when i said i had to go, she asks, "why?" and i told her that i was going over to my new friends house, and she got all huffy and mad. its like she doesnt want me to make friends! i dont get her! it is confusing me alot, so if anyone has any good advice, please tell me.

I rate 5s!

She's probably a lil jealous... she probably wants you to be happy & make new friends... but she doesnt want u to forget about her... so let her know that she's still important to her... call her daily and make plans with her every other weekend or something... btw... i go to connecticut a lot... i usually go to Tolland and Hartford... what part do you live in?

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Hi anybody got any tips at goin to sleep at nite.

I go to bed early cos im always tired during the day but all i do is lie there thinkin an starin for hours an i just cnt get to sleep.

Sum1 help me please!

take benedryl... i used to have the same problem... sometimes what helps is waking up a lil earlier than you usually do... like about half an hr...

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well me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 3 months then all of asudden he says he wants to take a break. i asked him why and he said we need to live our lifes. what do you think he ment by that?

When a guy says that in most cases that means that he wants to date other girls...

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im about 4'11'' and i always have a really hard time finding clothes that fit me especially pants. im like size 1 for most jeans and stuff and i usually wear extra small shirts. where can i go to get clothes that fit me? if u need more info tell me. i rate 5s to answers that dont piss me off!

Im 5ft... i have the same problem... what i usually do is have my mom alter my jeans... to make them shorter from the bottom... she usually does this with a sewing machine... but if you don't have one... you could make your pants shorter yourself with a needle and thread

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why are people put in difficult positions at all times. I fell like God is testing me but I don't know. I guess I need to find my self. It's like I give out alot but I am given less I am feel like I need to do everything at all times for everybody but if I want something to happen for me, it wont happen. I know your suppose to take stuff for your self but sometimes it feels disrespectful to both sides and I am in the middle...i want balance but it is not happening ...I feel like I will be unbalanced if there is no balance.

first... ask yourself what you are doing wrong... apparently you are doing something wrong...If you are tryin to balance everything... than why isn't it happening... if you are giving out a lot... & aren't getting anything in return... than maybe you should stop... always remember to take the side of the person that is right since you are in the middle... or your life and that person's will become hell... it sounds like you have a problem that isn't being solved... well maybe you aren't really doing anything to solve it... you have to actively do something to solve a problem... you can't just sit around and wait for it to be solved... don't expect anyone to help you... because no one is willing to help those who can't help themselves... your tryin to make everyone happy... well maybe you should stop worrying about everyone else & worry about what makes you happy... i don't know why people are put in difficult positions all the time... but when your problem is solved... you'll be stronger, happier, and more satisfied with your life... your life is in your hands... and if you feel like its in anyone elses hands than im sorry to say but that is your fault... people will only treat you as badly as you let them...

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about 2 months ago my friend and i wereiin a huge fight... she was talkin bad about me behind my back... she told my friends i was b****y and that her mom thought so to... she denied she said that but later on told me that she did... and i said u lied to me and she was like i never said i didn't call u that but she did... we made up and got past our differences but it still hurts and i don't wanna bring it up because we've been in enough fights already. What should i do?

I know what you mean... your kinda like... i don't feel the same way about you anymore beacause of what you did... the best thing to do is just try to let it go & move on... cuz im sure you probably did some things that hurt her when y'all were fighting... & I'm sure you didnt mean those things... they just happened cuz you were madd... keep that in mind... & let go of the past...

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does anyone no a good brand of eyeliner that you can like take off cuz all the ones i have wont come off even after i shower

Maybelline ultra liner.. it comes off easily... but the bad part is... it cracks...

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Hey! okay well i know this is kind of gross but i sweat a lot! Whether is summer or winter it's horrible, especially wheni wear tight t-shirts! I get huge sweat marks and i don't know what to do! I use antipersprent deoderant but it doesn't help. Does anyone know a good type of deoderant that isn't perscription that i could use!?! Thanks!!

It soundz like you have hyper hydrosis which is caused by genetics... when you have this condition your palms, the soles of your feet and your under arms are constantly dripping wet... This happens when your sweat controlling nerves work more than they are supposed to... And when you sweat like this theres nothing deodarant or antiperspirants can do... What you can do is go to the Dermatologist and they can inject botox in in your underarms... that'll fix your problem... however this only lasts for a year... so its needs to be done every year... Another choice you have is a Sympathectomy... This is a surgical procedure where the surgeons will cut the nerves in your under arms so they dont send the messege to your sweat glands to work more than they should... this procedure has sum short term side effects which are costly so talk to a doctor and find out whats best for you... what you can do in the meantime is use underarm pads which can be sewn into ur clothes... you can find them at fabric stores...

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does anyone no any really good books. My mom wants me to get into reading (i hate reading) so i need a good book thatti wont hate to read!

anything will do! thanks a lot!

Try " stranger with my face " it's by lois duncan... the same author who wrote "i know what you did last summer" she has some really good books

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I am a good student, but in some classes I am doing bad. I understand the material being taught, but when it come to test time, I forget some of stuff I learned and I end up doing badly. I understand everything and I always do good on my homework, but I have trouble on tests. I think it might be because I get nervous, but Im not sure. Does anyone have any ideas that would help me out? I would appreciate it! Thanx!

I am like that too... i get nervous and i rush through tests... just take deep breaths... & chill... take breaks in between tests and get your thoughts together... another thing that will really help you is by skipping questions you dont know the answers to... because in some subjects those answers are either hinted or given to you in some other form...

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after i straighten my hair.. blowdry and straighten. its always staticy.. what can i do so it wont static to my face and hands ect.

Use hair gel/serum/mouse/hair spray... that happens to me... & hair serum is what works best for me...

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Do you think it is possible to find "The One" you are going to be with for the rest of your life in highschool?

Yeah... anything is possible... everyone is different & every relationship is different... but it's highly unlikely... most people that are in high school arent ready or willing to make a commitment...

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Make it short and sweet. Met the girl at the gym,talked for awhile. Gave me her number,then when I call it she tells me she's got a bf. I think it's a lie and she would really want me to rot in hell. What does anybody else think in here? Was she lying, or if she wasn't, why'd she waste my time in the first place? I'm an 18 year old guy. I want RussianMailman to answer my question,too. I need a good laugh.

This all depends on what type of girl she is... if she said she had a bf... but hinted that she was still interested than she probably wants to stay with him & mess around with u... if she didnt show any interest in you than she's probably lyin...

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I have this like rash type thing on my lip and I've had it for a while and it won't go away. I've put stuff on it to make it go away, but nothing works. Does anyone have any idea what it is, or how to get rid of it? Answer please, I rate HIGH!

If it looks sorta like a pimple... it could be a cold sore... you can get medicine for it over the counter... but the best thing to do is go to the doctor & get it checked out...

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I want to loose wait but I crave candy and sweets all the time I do sit ups but I dont loose allot of wait plz help wut can I don

You need to have a good workout with a combination of cardio & toning to loose a decent amount of weight...the sit-ups are toning... you need to do some cardio too... like riding your bike, running, dancing, etc... you should exercise for about 20min-1 hr at least 3 days a week... If you really crave something sweet that has a lotta fat in it... just have a small amount... & there are also a lotta yummy snacks that are lowfat... try makin your own milkshakes using skim or 1% milk... or get a couple of canned fruit cocktails... & eat em with fat free whip cream...

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I was wondering what straighteners are good to use? like not get it chemically straightened but with a flat iron. ive been looking for a good one but i cant find one. what is the name and where can i find one? also is there anything to put in my hair like after a shower or somthing that would make it straighten better? thanks

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You can buy a hot tools str8 iron for like $30-40 at trade secret or cosmetic center....

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