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Question Posted Saturday January 29 2005, 11:02 pm

why are people put in difficult positions at all times. I fell like God is testing me but I don't know. I guess I need to find my self. It's like I give out alot but I am given less I am feel like I need to do everything at all times for everybody but if I want something to happen for me, it wont happen. I know your suppose to take stuff for your self but sometimes it feels disrespectful to both sides and I am in the middle...i want balance but it is not happening ...I feel like I will be unbalanced if there is no balance.

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SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Sunday January 30 2005, 11:41 am:
first... ask yourself what you are doing wrong... apparently you are doing something wrong...If you are tryin to balance everything... than why isn't it happening... if you are giving out a lot... & aren't getting anything in return... than maybe you should stop... always remember to take the side of the person that is right since you are in the middle... or your life and that person's will become hell... it sounds like you have a problem that isn't being solved... well maybe you aren't really doing anything to solve it... you have to actively do something to solve a problem... you can't just sit around and wait for it to be solved... don't expect anyone to help you... because no one is willing to help those who can't help themselves... your tryin to make everyone happy... well maybe you should stop worrying about everyone else & worry about what makes you happy... i don't know why people are put in difficult positions all the time... but when your problem is solved... you'll be stronger, happier, and more satisfied with your life... your life is in your hands... and if you feel like its in anyone elses hands than im sorry to say but that is your fault... people will only treat you as badly as you let them...

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