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well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




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okay if this is long im very sorry but i would like people to answer it anyways because i will rate high. okay so i have a really good friend.. and yes well i like him too.. but he dosnt like me, big shock there. and well around june my class has somewhat of a prom thing, and like he said he's not going to go because the girl he likes is a freshmen and she cant go because only 10th graders can go. and it like really aggravates me. because it seems like all he cares about is her and like he dosnt want to go unless she's there. and i dont know is it wrong to get aggravated? and what should i do..

thanks

honestly since your friend doesnt like you back and should like get over him he isnt worth your time.and if he knows you like it could be why he is acting so werid.. just leave it alone and dont think about it too much.
*~Stephanie~*

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I haven't started my period, but wanna ask 2 questions for when it comes:

1) Do you bleed all the time or is it like discharge, and comes out everyonce and a while.

2) It says you supposed to stay very clean when you have it. Itake baths cause my shower doesn't work. When I take a bath would thewater get all blooding during my period.

If you have any other info about it;;please tell me =) I'll ate 5 for good answers

1) yes all day and it sucks..

2) i wouldnt do that because it is unhealthy for your body to basically have blood flowin in it. and yes when you are in the shower it does slow it down.

hope this helps you out. if you need anything else drop it in my inbox.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok My mom is 48 and she had a Biopsiy (how ever you spell it) about 2 days ago. She has been Bleeding alot and its not time for her period and she has been having a fever and VERY BAD Cramps!!!!!! What Can I do??!!?!?!?! The roads are sorta icey. but Whats Going On? I'm Scared!!!

Honestly you need to either call 911 (if ur scared to drive and you dont have anyone over there that will take her) or you drive her to see a doctor. she needs care fast. think about she will and probably already is loosing more blood then she regular needs to loose. hope everything works out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Last year my Pre-Cal teacher told me that if I went on to take Calculus AP that I would flunk out by first report card. I knew that I wouldn't and the only reason I decided to take the class was because she said that about me even though I kept an A+ average in her class. Well, it's coming around to the end of the semester and I now have an A in Calculus AP. I was wondering; if this happened to you, would you tell your old teacher about your grade?

if i were you i would rub it in her face and teach her not to put the student that isnt her job her job is to help improve students not tell them your wont make it.shit i am planning to do that with my middle school teacher that thinks just because i talk in class i cant pass the class and make something out of my life.
*~Stephanie~*

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I know that 13-year-olds are too young to fall in love. But does that mean you can't say "I love you" to your boyfriend?

NEVER and it is never to young to be in love. only you and your heart know when it is true.
*~Stephanie~*

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Okay so my boyfriend and I are like super close! I mean really close. However something has been bothering me when we were first going out he told me his longest relationship was 6 months. Well were about up to that the 10th of this month. Now suddenly it changes? Today I was walking with him and I said "so soon ill be the longest" and he goes "nope there was my x of 9 and half months"....why would he lie about that? I mean he almost seemed like it bothered him that I felt I was the longest

truthfully the only reason he could probably do this is his past is his past and you really cant change. he might have had a bad past or it can be one other thing. i just thought of this. maybe because he doesnt want you to break his record and leave and eh wants you to be a lot longer then any girlfriend he has ever had.
*~Stwphanie~*

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Is it bad that im 16 and I am having protected sex with my boyfriend of five months like once every other week?

honestly it is all on you. i just want to say the more you do it the more of a chance you have of gettin pregnant.
*~Stephanie~*

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should girls shave thier pubes? and if so how much? and how are you saposed to get the hair wwaayy down there.. since its pretty much.. surrounded..?

yes all the way. guys like it more and pluss when you shave it well have an order or nothin will be able to get stuck in the hair.
*~Stephanie~*

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16/f. Well my boyfriend and I have gone out for about 7 months, and we were good friends before that, and we have a wonderful relationship. We started fooling around about a month ago, but we're not going to have sex, at least not for a long time because we're not ready. I discussed this with him and (separately) with my mom, because I told her I'd always tell her if I was becoming more intimate in a relationship, and she was fine with it. Well, the other night my boyfriend dropped me off at my house and we were both extremely tired and we fell asleep on my bed, we didn't do anything at all. And my parents came home and flipped out, called his parents, now he's not allowed to see me for a very long time, etc...
And my mom says she doesn't trust me and she thinks we've been having sex. She fully knows my views on this and both my boyfriend and I are very ambitious academically and would not do anything that might jeopardize our education or futures. But there is mutual trust and understanding in this relationship, and I thought there was between my mom and I, and I'm very confused. Does anyone have any advice?
Sorry this is so long. Thanks.

you really need to sit down with your mother and talk things out. your mother should not have over reacted as much as she did. you need to tell her how you feel and what happened. that is the only thing you really can do and maybe even get him to talk to her and his family. hope everything works out for you.
*~Stephanie~*

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I have been goin out with my boyfriend for justa few days now, but we have known each other for a couple of months now. Well, when I was talkin to him onthe internet today, I got a sudden urge to just be like "I love you". I'm the kind of person who, I have to know i really do love somebody before I say that, cause to me, it has alot of meaning. so, I didn't say it, but my question is,since I felt like I wantedto all the sudden, does that mean I am in love with him, or what?
I'll rate 5's for any helpful answers!!
thanks in advance!!

when you love someoen it is just sayin the word that makes it meaning full it is showing it. if you love this guy you will find yourself sprung over him and that you cant control it.
*~Stephanie~*

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I know that when in a relationship 'Trust' is the key element. Well, I trust my boyfriend with everything I am, but that's not the problem. I know that he thinks other girls are pretty and that he looks at other girls like that upsets me. I know, I know. I probably sound really immature, but I know that ever since I've been dating him I don't really look at guys that way anymore because I don't need to look- I have him. I haven't got upset over this, but I can't help but think he's checking girls out while he out with me. Any advice?

trust me it is completely normal. i do the samething. even though my bf tells me he doesnt flirt or look at other girls i know he does it is just a guy thing that they cant control. for instance my bf is the biggest flirt you will ever meet. it isnt that i dont trust him its just that other girls take it the wrong since they dont see him with his girlfriend (bc we dont go to the same school) it is nothin i can contol. think of it like this if he does cheat on you(which he better not) it is his loose not really urse he is the one that wasnt man enough to tell you he didnt want to be with you. so hun dont worry about it.
*~Stephanie~*

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i am 13/f, 8th grade, virgin, flat, has not yet had my period, don't masterbate, etc etc. I havent even had my first kiss yet, which totally sucks. but i always have this gross white goopy stuff in my vagina or my underwear. its really gross. it doesnt smell or anything, its just.. gross. what is it????

i rate 5

its called discharge and it is normal all it means is that you will be getting your period in the near future.
*~Stephanie~*

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I am 13 and in 8th grade and have never had a boyfriend. I think I'll be able to manage one better when I get to high school. Is it a turn-off to guys if you've never had a boyfriend before? I need to know, thanks.

I give fives.

nope actually i was like i didnt get a boyfriend in till highschool and you know something really cool about guys; they like being the first guy to do things to you. like the like it when they are your first kiss ur first make out and so on. dont worry about it and everythin will be fine. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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how do you upload a picture of yourself on here?

real simple where it says welcome and your username go to profile settin and then there is a spot that say upload your picture. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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I'm starting to throw up my dinner each night. I know this isn't good, but i cant stop myself. What should i do?

the best advice i can give you is to is a doctor if you cant stop yourself then you need to see a octor. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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http://tinypic.com/i5tawn.jpg
First of all, that's my dog. It's a red dacshund and I need some good names for HIM

that is an adorable puppy a really cute name would be lilo or brownie..
*~Stephanie~*

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whats 4th base please answer asap!! will rate

all the way a home run which means to have sex,
*~Stephanie~*

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Hey what if someone wanted to have sex and u didnt want to and they layed you on his bed should you have sex of call for help?

you need to tell who ever it is that you dont want to have sex and igf they dont listen you should tell an adult or the cups it is rap and it is illegal.
*~Stephanie~*

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okay im a f/16 and i shave down there. is that weird if im not having sex at all and dont plan on it any time soon? does anyone else?

nope it is normal.. it is only for your personal benifiet.
*~Stephanie~*

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I need some advice on a very very close friend that i know only over the internet. We are working towards meeting each other and becoming a proper couple (hes in australia, im in england). Recently he had a breakdown and disappeared for 4 weeks where i heard little from him. Ive been worried sick but now he is back but things seem to have changed greatly. He still has aversions to light and things.
however hes really dependant on me. i dont feel the same way about him anymore but i dont want to make his condition worse - so how can i tell him this?

to be honest with you i dont think it is the best idea for you to be talking to this guy. espacaily since you really dont know him and he left you for 4 weeks. four weeks is four weeks and that is a really long time. he shouldnt have done that to you. i bet you were hurt when you found out he was and not knowin when he will back or where he is or what is happening to him. i would slowly try to get myself away from him. like day by day try letting go a lil like talk less to him and dont think of him as much. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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