I need some advice on a very very close friend that i know only over the internet. We are working towards meeting each other and becoming a proper couple (hes in australia, im in england). Recently he had a breakdown and disappeared for 4 weeks where i heard little from him. Ive been worried sick but now he is back but things seem to have changed greatly. He still has aversions to light and things.
however hes really dependant on me. i dont feel the same way about him anymore but i dont want to make his condition worse - so how can i tell him this?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? SoInToYoUx0x answered Sunday December 4 2005, 4:28 pm: to be honest with you i dont think it is the best idea for you to be talking to this guy. espacaily since you really dont know him and he left you for 4 weeks. four weeks is four weeks and that is a really long time. he shouldnt have done that to you. i bet you were hurt when you found out he was and not knowin when he will back or where he is or what is happening to him. i would slowly try to get myself away from him. like day by day try letting go a lil like talk less to him and dont think of him as much. hope this helps you out.
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BRE111992 answered Sunday December 4 2005, 1:53 pm: first of all you sholdnt even meet him because he or even she could hurt you really badly so what Im trying to say dont go with him or her b/c you might of talked to each other for a year but you never know. So for your safety dont meet them. [ BRE111992's advice column | Ask BRE111992 A Question ]
SexyLexi44 answered Sunday December 4 2005, 1:45 pm: The best thing to do is tell him as quick as possible. However let him down easy because he may be sensitive since he reclenlty had a breeakdown. [ SexyLexi44's advice column | Ask SexyLexi44 A Question ]
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