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does anyone have any ideas for the type of cell phone i can get? website would be appreciated.
-takes pictures/videos
-texting
-any price is fine
-doesnt break easily
-sort of "new" and wont go out of date quickly.
-has good service.
thanks i will rate =]
I just got the Pink Motorolla Razr. I Love it. They come in silver and black too, but the pink is rarer but its 100 dollars more expensive. (that is if you are a girl lol) It works really well. I loveeeee it. The only place that has the pink ones is T mobile (tmobile.com) but the silver and black are found in more than one place. Just look it up on google, and you'll find one. They are at t mobile too though.
This isn't one of those am I fat questions.
I'm 5'4 and weight 113lbs. I know I'm not fat or anywhere near there. When I am with my friends, or any other girls really, I feel confident and that I'm the right size. But, when I'm alone I look at myself and start thinking that I could loose a few more lbs. I'll get so caught up in it that I won't even go near a mirror for the rest of the day. I'm not sure why I do this. Any help? :/
Good for you for being confident most of the time. Thats rare in this day and age. But its perfectly normal to feel bad about your self sometimes. What you should do is start exercising at least 3 days a week (if you dont already). Not to lose weight, but for health, and it will make you feel better about yourself. 20-60 minutes everytime you exercise. Not only will you feel healthier, but it will tone you up. Just do it for yourself, and it will help your self esteem issues tremendously.
im 15/f. i weigh about 118 or 119. im trying to lose 10 pounds! (dont tell me i dont need to, i live by the beach i really do.) anyways, i do really well with the exercising part, but when it comes to eating i cant help but eating even when im not hungry. i wont be hungry or anything and ill just go get a snack, and its not good! how do i stop myself from doing this? thanks.
The best way of getting away from unnecessary food is to keep yourself busy. If you're not busy, then you think about food. Also, dont sit and watch tv. Trust me on this one. All of those commercials of restaurants and such, they get you thinking about food even if you dont realize it.
My bf lives out of state and he is coming to see me for valentines day. i am taking him dancing and i already have this very cute dress. I tried to scrunch my hair... which is what i want to do for valentines day but my hair wont stay. It is naturally straight and wont hold a curl no matter what. I have tried hairspray, gel and mousse. any ideas on how to get my hair to hold without getting a perm or going to a salon? Any particular products that work for you? I really want to scrunch my hair but it isnt holding. It will hold for about 1 minute then it will straighten back out.
I rate high!!
Okay here is what I do for my hair.
Get some sort of curling or volumizing shampoo and conditioner. When you get out of the shower, DONT BRUSH YOUR HAIR. Its very important. You can brush your hair while in the shower, but as soon as the waters off, no more brushing. It will take out all of the clumpiness that was added by the shower, and it will look scraggly and frizzy. Then bend over and scrunch your hair with your head upside down. Take Aquage transforming paste and put one squeeze in your hand. Add about a quarter sized amount of Aquage defining gel to your hand. Rub your hands together to mix and get the mix on both hands. Then flip over and scrunch again. If your blowdryer has a diffuser, then blow dry with that. Take your blowdryer and point up, drying under your hair, rather than above your head pointing down. It will give it more volume that way. You can also scrunch your hair to your head, pin or clip it in place, and then blowdry. After your done, spray with hairspray. Rusk Weightless Plus is best.
When youre all done, you could take a 3/4 to 1 inch curling iron and curl a few random strands.
These products I speak of are salon products, but you can order them online for cheaper. Just google them. Im sure you could substitute products though.. Not sure.
Good luck with your boyfriend!!! Hope everything works out!
My 15-year-old niece is having a birthday soonish and I'd like to get her a present. She likes reading so I figured a book would be good. What's a book that is of literary quality that a 15-year-old would like, but does not contain any sex or swear words (her mom wouldn't let her read it then)? And don't say the Princess Diaries series, I think she has all those already.
The Boyfriend List. I just read it. It talks about relationships with boys, but it doesnt really have sex in it.
The Dating Game.
The Kidnapping of Christina Lattimore.
The Seance.
Summer Boys.
The sequel to summer boys, Next Summer.
The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants (never read those, but I'm pretty sure they are appropriate,)
Chicken soup for the teenage soul (theres 4 of them). Theres also chicken soup on tough stuff, and chicken soup on love and friendship. They are all for teenage audiences.
Just so you know, Hubble08 was very wrong. Gossip girl books are very interesting, and they are my favorites, but they have a great deal of cuss words and deal with a lot of sex, drinking, drugs, and all of the stuff going along with it. Not appropriate at all.
does anyone know any good dance music thats hiphop and gets everyone crazy?? thanks ;)
At the last party I went to, there were a few songs that got everyone dancing.
Play- David Banner
Hollaback Girl- Gwen Stefani
Wait- Ying Yang Twins
Drop it like its hot- Snoop Dogg
Gold Digger- Kanye West
My Humps- Black eyed peas
Err Time- Nelly
1 2 step- Ciara
Run it- Chris Brown
Shake it off- Mariah Carey
Dontcha- Pussycat Dolls
Play and wait got people the most crazy, if that helps
okay like im really skinny but i have like a baby face and when i look down i have a little double chin is there any way to get rid of that (like exercises) without going on a diet cus im skinny enough as it is?
The doctor told my friends mom that if you only drink water for at least a week, your face will become thinner (includes double chin). The longer you do it, the better the results. You have to do it a few weeks to notice if its working. No soda, sports drinks, juices, or anything though. Just plain old water. It worked well for her. It should work for you. She wasnt really skinny though, she was just average. I dont know if that has anything to do with it.
Hope it works for you.
im goin to mexico in feb and i dont have a decent swimsuit to wear. i was wondering if there are any sites with swimsuits this time of year...seeing its winter..thanks..by thw way im a girl...
Victorias secret swimsuits are awesome
Victoriassecret.com
I'm not sure what you consider really expensive, but these are very cute. Have fun in Mexico!
Hey guys, I wanted to know what kind of hair products make your hair sleek and shiny, won't weigh it down and conceals dead ends? Thanks. I'm open to all opinions =)
Sheer Brilliance by rusk.
Kenra Silkening gloss *this one smells so good. Like strawberries, and you can put it on your skin to make it soft too*
Halo Shampoo
I love those products, and they do just what you asked.
Okay, my mom has a friend who has a son. They came over one night and this was the first time I have met him before, he kept on staring at me or just looking at me in the eyes a lot. That night he asked his mom for my e-mail adress and I got an e-mail from him saying " you looked amazing the other night and I think ur really cool, I want to get to know you better," or "do you have a boyfriend" or "what are you most like? Calm and collective, or wild and crazy?"
and stuff like that and I just dont know... is he interested in me?? He's a senior in High School and I am a freshman. What should I do?!?!
Um... Yeah hes interested! lol... Otherwise he wouldnt have sent that email... I say go for it. In Highschool, thats not really a big difference. Don't let him pressure you into anything you dont want. If you're comfortable doing so, ask your mom what she thinks of him, she should have some Idea. Just follow your gut instinct and you should be okay.
okay i dont really like to read but i am going to give it a try do any of you recommand a good book i was reading some book today it was "A Child Called It" and i loved that book so do you know any more books like that and if you havent read that its about a child being abused plz help i rate 5s
Okay. I dont know what gender or age you are, but I will list some books that I'm into.
Gossip girl novels. This whole series is good. I got addicted. They are about a group of rich, beautiful people living in new york. The girls are mean and nasty to each other. Theres a lot of sex, drugs, alcohol, and arguments in it. If you liked the movie mean girls, then you'll looooove these. Even if you didn't, these books are 4390489320 times better anyways. I'd at least give the first a chance if you are into this at all.
The A-List. Somewhat Like Gossip girls, but not as nasty. These are a little toned down, but still good.
Summer Boys, and Next summer. These are about a group of girl cousins that spend the summer together in cabins. Their relationships with guys and each other is the plot of these books.
Go Ask Alice. Its a diary of an anonymous teen girl living in the 70s(Im pretty sure its the 70s...). Its about her downfall and struggle with a life on drugs.
Harry Potter series. These are good because there is soo much detail. It goes beyond the movies. I wont describe because Im sure youve heard of them.
A series of unfortunate events. These books follow 3 orphan siblings as they try to escape a man out for their fortune that their deceased parents left for them once they turn 18. One bad thing after another happens to them. I suppose they could be depressing, but theyre pretty good.
The Seance. Its a mystery book about a girl who attends a seance in an unforgiving town. Erie things happen at the seance. Then the girls that attended start dying, and they have to figure out whats going on before another girl is killed.
The kidnapping of christina lattimore. This one is really good in my opinion. Its by the same author of the seance. Its about a girl, christina, who is kidnapped and held for ransom to be paid by her rich grandmother. After she is returned, she is accused of staging her own kidnapping to get the money for herself. She has to prove her innosence to cops, friends, and even her parents.
To kill a mockingbird. Its classic, but its super good. It has a great message, and a good storyline. I liked it, even though I dislike many of the other assigned books from school.
Good luck with reading. If you want more suggestions, I'd be glad to give you more. Because If these dont suit you, then that really sucks lol. So I hope I helped!
my computer totally crashed the other day so i had to delete everything on it, so just now i reinstalled itunes. the problem is that now all my songs are gone, but they're still on my ipod. is it possible to transfer them back to my libary? i have over 300 songs so im scared to experiment. Please help, i rate
Hey. Let me start off by saying I am soooo sorry. Seriously, I feel your pain lol. The same thing has happened to me Two or three times. I hate to tell you, but it is not possible to transfer them back. You have to start over clean. I would suggest getting all your songs back on your itunes, THEN updating your ipod. When you connect your Ipod, something should pop up that says something about updating the ipod with the library. Dont click this when its blank, because then you will have no music on your ipod either. It deletes every song in less than 2 seconds. So keep your ipod with your songs on it that way you can still use it while you are building your ipod back up. When you are satisfied with your itunes library, then click yes on the little popup, and everything will be fixed.
I suggest you burn all of your songs that you dont have on cds already that are on you itunes(or at least the ones that are important to you) onto blank cds as a backup, that way if it happens again, It will be easy to get your songs back.
Like I said, Im really sorry because the same exact thing happened to me more than once (I had over 300 songs also)
If you need anything else, dont hesitate to leave one in my inbox. Good luck! I hope I helped you!
Me and my boifriend(josh) have been dateing for about 2 months now but we have knowen eachother for about 5 or 6 years.. but any ways his bestfriend(nate) always talks to me about getting with him. he know's that im with josh he tells me that he dont care. But i have always had a crush and i always really liked him. so i dont know what to do, cause im with nate alot alone and i dont want something to happen. not saying i would let it happen but anything can happen and on top of it i like him. But here is the twist my bestfriend is dateing nate. so i dont know what to do. i rate high
I hate to tell you this, but Nate is off limits. Thats a double offense with your best friend (which is the worst) and that would be really bad to Josh. You can't go for nate now that your best friend is dating him. Its totally against "the rules". I'd advise you break it off with Josh if you don't really like him, or at least don't like him as much as you should. Stringing it along will make it worse when the time comes to break up. Especially if hes really into you. So you need to get yourself straight and decide what to do. I can't make your decision for you, but I'd strongly advise you don't go for nate. Maybe in the future if they break up on their own, and then you wait a while, and you have her permission, but not now. Are you really willing to possible throw your friendship with her down the drain? Just take time for yourself to figure all of this out.
Good luck, I hope everything turns out
Does anybody know where I can get all the seasons Degrassi: the next generation
From the beginning to as new as possible
Best buy has seasons 1 and 2 and they have a DVD with the few episodes with Jay and Silent Bob in them. The other seasons arent out yet, Im pretty sure. I last checked about 2 weeks ago, because I'm a huge degrassi fan, and they didn't have any release dates on the websitess I went to.
Can you give me some websites that sell cute clothing. not hollister,abercrombie,american eagle or old navy. Thanks alot i dont know where to shop with my christmas money lol!
www.delias.com
www.alloy.com
www.gojane.com
www.victoriassecret.com- has awesome sweatpants, jackets, and PJs
www.threadless.com- Really cool, unique tshirts
Tonight 6 or 7 of my friends are having a get together. A few boys and some girls. I have nothing planned! What are some activities we can do? We can't really go somewhere cuz the car doesnt hold that many pple. We're all 13 so keep it age appropriate. Thanks !
When I was that age, there was a few things that my friends and I always did
*Truth or dare
*Twister
*watch movies
*Play Ditch (Hide and seek outside when its dark out)
*Play Never have I ever (without alcohol of course) Thats where you hold up 10 fingers and go around in a circle saying things you've never done. If the others have done it, then they put down a finger, if no one else has done it either, then you put down a finger. Once all your fingers are down, then you're out. Last one up wins.
*Play board games
Have fun!
Today I went to a salon to get my hair dyed and they dyed it brown (exactly what i wanted!!) i was just wondering what i need to do to keep it this color. how long do i need to wait until i shower next, how to i keep the blonde highlights (from before) from showing up through the brown, what shampoo should i use, etc... thanks so much!
Get a shampoo thats made for brunettes, such as John Friedas brilliant brunette or Pantene Pro V Brunette expressions. Or just get a color treatment shampoo. If you had a lot of highlights, chances are your color will fade a bit, but just go back in about 8 weeks and get it redone, and after 2 or more dye jobs it should be okay. Um you should be okay to shower anytime. You cant do much else to help from fading.
Good job on the hair change!
I will rate fives for all answers! In about 12 days it will be my boyfriend and I's one year anniversary. I was really low on ideas so I got a fleece throwover blanket embroidered for him, it has our names and December 22nd, 2004 on it and it also says I LOVE YOU. I dont' know, is this a good idea and if it is, what also can i get him to go along with it. I bought all kinds of things to make him a card and I just think maybe a lil' something else will do. thanks! -sahara
If hes the romantic type, then make him a list of all the reasons you love him. if hes not, then that will just scare him.
Give him a framed picture of the two of you together.
Make him his favorite meal or treat.
Treat him to a movie and dinner.
some thing like that is always good. Put thought into it, and Im sure he will love it
good luck! Congrats on the one year!!!!
Okay
So basically I live in Arizona
and it's pretty warm here year-round
& a few of my friends have heated pools and they throw x-mas/newyears pool parties.
Problem is:
I kinda lost my bathing suit and I need a new one.
Anyone know where they sell juniors (xs,s) bathing suits?
online,in stores, I don't really care.
Websites are helpful =]
Victoriassecret.com has great swimsuits. They have some really cute ones.
Swimsuits.com, then go to swimsuits for all, then junior separates.
Good luck! Pool parties at christmas time? how fun. I wish I could do that, but im from Illinois! lol have fun!
Do you believe in God or not? Explain why. Don't say because that's the way you were raised, I'm talking about how you feel now.
Do you really believe that God is real just because a book was written saying there was one? Couldn't it be a fable?
Do you support evolution and the Big Bang Theory or not? Please explain as much as you can. I will give you all 5's!
Yes, I personally believe in god. It did start out because thats how I was raised, but I have done research, I have thought about it a lot, I have compared christianity to other religions, and It just supported what I believe. There is a lot of "proof" out there, and honestly, I believe the earth and the human body among other things are so brilliant and complex that God is the only explaination. And really, it all boils down to faith. I think god has no problem with us questioning and researching, because thats what makes us stronger in him. You just have to believe it in your heart, and only you can make that choice.
The Bible is a reason I believe. And yes, it could be just a fable passed down, but again, thats where you have to have faith. Through research I believe there is enough proof for me personally to believe.
I do not believe in big bang or evolution. I do however beleive that it is possible that after God put us here, when times changed, he could have changed our bodies, and thats where scientists get the whole evolution thing. Im just saying its possible.
http://www.remnantofgod.org/creation.htm#series
Theres a link with a lot of things proving creation....
Hope I helped. I tried the best I could to answer you.