Me and my boifriend(josh) have been dateing for about 2 months now but we have knowen eachother for about 5 or 6 years.. but any ways his bestfriend(nate) always talks to me about getting with him. he know's that im with josh he tells me that he dont care. But i have always had a crush and i always really liked him. so i dont know what to do, cause im with nate alot alone and i dont want something to happen. not saying i would let it happen but anything can happen and on top of it i like him. But here is the twist my bestfriend is dateing nate. so i dont know what to do. i rate high
Shortcake22 answered Tuesday December 20 2005, 7:57 pm: I hate to tell you this, but Nate is off limits. Thats a double offense with your best friend (which is the worst) and that would be really bad to Josh. You can't go for nate now that your best friend is dating him. Its totally against "the rules". I'd advise you break it off with Josh if you don't really like him, or at least don't like him as much as you should. Stringing it along will make it worse when the time comes to break up. Especially if hes really into you. So you need to get yourself straight and decide what to do. I can't make your decision for you, but I'd strongly advise you don't go for nate. Maybe in the future if they break up on their own, and then you wait a while, and you have her permission, but not now. Are you really willing to possible throw your friendship with her down the drain? Just take time for yourself to figure all of this out.
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