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so, i remember this video on youtube from a couple years back, and i think that the video is whatthefuckswrongwiththiskid? and it was just a kid and he sped up the video to make it seem like hes got a really high pitched voice, and i remember in one he put a tube on his head.

Err, to be honest, I don't understand the question.

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That worked to block whole websites, but is there anyway I can block just single webpages? I don't want to have to enter a password everytime I go to other areas of the website.

Hmm..
I'm not really sure now.
:( sorry.
I could defenetly help you if you had FireFox (I'm anti IE :P)

The only thing I can think of is if you copy the exact URL of the guy's page, not the general website name.

Sorry.

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what are songs that can get you over your x!

''I want you...dead!'' by Wednesday 13 always cheers me up :)

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So. A kid I talk to in school Cole- who isn't even considered friend was beat up Wensday after Baseball practice for wearinf eyeliner... That I put on him, and that I convinced him to wear. I try to apoligise because I can't help but feel slightly [[fully]] responcible. He's basicly taking it as a man, and saying it's no big deal but in Homeroom4 he showed me was Garret [[kid who is an ASSHOLE and did this] and he bruised him... Thats horrible I wanna like cry. I huged him and was like Im sorryyy and he was like its not your fault. And kinda played it off as a joke even though Garrett could get in so much trouble because it is a HATE CRIME! because he has it in his mind that Cole is gay- even tho I practicly begged him to put make-up on him.
Well. Ergh. Now everyones like Oh Katie you only care because you want Cole in the pants, and you only like him and thats why you care.." thats not it at all! I think he's extremely hot.. but he calls me fat pretty much everyday so I obviously don't. Everyone is saying that I like him... and I dont but now He's acting diffrent around me. and my friend Becky says he practicly measures his steps around you.. which I dont want he's like friend and now Idk but Im tired of it. I know people who are gay, and it hits close to home... and yeh it madders that it was Cole- but it hurts expecially because my cousin in a Lesbian and I have no problem sleeping in the same bed with her [[even though wre cousins yehh just making a point]]. I wanna kill garret because now its like all my fault Cole is hurt, and now he can't even be around me because he thinks I like him. Which you try explaing Naawwwt I dont and he wont listen...
And now Im doubting myself. Like what if i do like him.. and I just have such low self esteem that I say I dont. so.. hmm Problems MUCH. You can basicly figure out the problems just by reading this. Like how do I convince COLE and everyone I dont like him! So I see his boxers everyday [[dont ask]] and have fun with him. He's so layed back.. and just I donno he only calls me fat around certain people which I understand because I say I dont like him more strict to a lot certain people. I can relate. and how do I get like vengance on Garrett even though Cole doesnt want it. This hits so close to me that i wanna go to school with a rainbow on it and rep. gay pride even though Im not gay.. [[not saying gay people dont rockk lol because some of the best times was with my cousins and I donno should I explain to Cole why I care so much? or see where this takes me]]
Umm any help is needed badly because I feel like punching people out because there ruining the vbarely friendship I have with Cole.
Please and Thank you.

Wow. This was really hard to read, and even harder to understand.
So basically you're saying that you don't like Cole, you want everyone to know that, but then you're doubting it yourself.
Right.

Basically, get Cole on his own, tell him you don't have feelings for him. You love him as a close friend and you feel like shit because it was mostly your fault that he got beaten up.

At this time when everyone thinks you like him, don't be so close with him, I know he just got beaten up, and you feel shitty about it, but if you go around hugging him and so on, people won't drop that idea.

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i have an alarm system, and every door and window in my house has it installed in it. if you open any of them and the alarm is on, it will go off or if it's not on it will just beep. i jus got my basement done and i don't feel like explaining the whole thing but i'm having some friends sleepover and we need to sneak out. the only thing is that there is an alarm on the basement door. there are 3 little windows in the basement with no alarm, but they won't open up far enough for people to fit through. if anyone knows how to make the alarm not work on the door without my parents knowing, could you help me? like maybe cut a wire or something, or maybe if theres even a way i could turn it off on one door. becasue i am home alone a lot and they probably wouldn't notice for a while and then tehy wouldn't know itw as me. please don't answer saying i shouldn't be sneaking out or i shouldn't be trying to break something in my house because i don't care, i'm in highschool and this is what i do. so if anyone knows how to make the alarm not work on just one door, please help me. thanks!

Well since we don't know what kind of system you have for your alarms, it wouldn't be easy to answer this question.
Don' try to cut a wire at random, that could set the whole thing off, and you honestly don't want that...
First of all try to find out what system you have, then I could maybe try and google it.
It's pretty hard to disable the alarm for one door.
Maybe you could casually ask your mom/dad ''What if a burglar knew how to disconnect the alarm on the door? What would happen?''
maybe with this your parent(s) will tell you how it works or something :P
Worked for me once :)

Sorry I can't help much, just try to google around when you find out the name of your system.

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Is there any way you can block a web page so that you cannot view it?

I need to stop checking up on my ex-boyfriend.

If you tell me whether you have FireFox or IE I can help you :)

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Go to tools > internet options > content >
On the content page, the first part says ''content adviser'' click 'enable' and then go to approved sites (it's at the top)
then type in the website address.
And choose 'never'


It should work :)
Contact me if you need any help.

This is for the latest version of internet.
If you have an older one, use this:
http://www.wikihow.com/Block-a-Website-in-Internet-Explorer

Good Luck.

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I'm 19, 5'8, and I weigh close to 180 pounds. I used to weigh around 200, so I've lost quite a bit. But I also used to weigh 150-- I had an eating disorder. I'm like up and down with weight and I hate it. How do I stay at a healthy weight, once and for all? Help!

Well try to do some form of exercise a day, even if it's for half an hour.
Eat healthily, 5 portions of fruit/veg a day.
Treat yourself to something sweet once a day, but that should be like ONE candy bar, or a ice lolly or a small bowl of ice cream.
If eating dinner, eat rice and fish, or replace chips with boiled potatoes. Eat chicken (try not to eat the skin) and also a lot of salad.
And instead of fizzy drinks, drink normal or sparkling water.

If you follow this for a couple of months, you will notice that you're loosing weight :)

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okk so my boyfriend and i have been going out for a little over three months. and we've started saying "i love you" and all that. but all we've done really is make out. i want to do something to show him how much i really do love him. he's really shy and so am i so i dont really know what i could do. how do i take our relationship to the next level??

I wouldn't suggest going straight into blow jobs/hand jobs. When making out, tease him a bit more... like kiss his neck, or the neck just behind his lobe and so on.
Make it more fun :D

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Can you get pregnant from giving a guy a blow job?

Errm, no.
Sperm won't go from your mouth to your ovaries.

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I'm confused on what to do with it. I sent announcements to about 30 people. Must I use it toward school, or can I use it for whatever I want? I'm assuming I can use it for whatever I want, but I sort of feel bad using people's money for my personal shopping and whatnot, haha. Also, does anyone know about how much money I'll get for that amount of invitations? I'm the oldest in my family, so I have no idea what to expect!

You can spend it on whatever you like.
I got my friend 150 dollars and she put that towards her car savings.

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i play sand volleyball and im thinking about getting my belly button pierced. I see a ton of people with theirs pierced who play, but since sand is starting up i feel like if i get it right now itll hurt bad if i dive on it/get sand in it, or will it be okay? thanks

I wouldn't suggest this.
You will irritate the piercing and it will reject.You should get it when the volleyball season finishes instead.

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Hey I'm 14 years old and in july i have an 2 weddings to go to and i have no idea what to wear. I'm a very informal dresser, dressing up for my is rock consert clothes. I want to have something nice to wear but not look really girly because thats ust not me, have you got any ideas of what i can wear?

Thank You!
XXX

Maybe you could wear pants like these:
http://www.wetseal.com/catalog/product.jsp?categoryId=102&subCategoryId=118&productId=10309

and a top like this?
http://www.charlotterusse.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3014659&cp=2745081.2981847&clickid=cat_leftnav_txt&parentPage=family


My friend who's a tomboy worse something similar to a wedding, she didn't look to girly, but not masculine either.

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alright so im going to europe in 2 weeks and i need some advice. I would like to know some ideas of a cute/chic outfit to wear on the plane so that im comfy and at the same time ready for europe the minute i get off the plane. if anyone has any ideas, plz tell me...oh and it doesnt have to be anything fancy, just as long as it looks chic, because europe is known for great fashion...

Well I live in Europe :P
I'd suggest jeans, or cropped jeans with a nice top.
But then all over europe, shorts and pumps are in fashion.
Greece will most likely be hot, so be prepared for that too.

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16 f, okay so i recently made a demo of my songs and also karaoke songs. i want to add them to my MYSPACE music page becuase hopefully im an up coming artist. so i want to make my page background with a picture of me you know like all the other celebrites have? is it possible? and is okay if i put the karaoke there sung by me i dont want to be sued or anything? i would also appreciate to take the time to ask you guys to request me and listen to my songs i have uploaded, and tell me what you think. www.myspace.com/kittymusiic thanks soo much!!! MAYBE EVEN A REQUEST?

Please don't ask the same question more than once..

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14/f
so i have a pool in my backyard and go to the beach constantly and you know im gonna wanna have a pool party for my birthday. and with planning ahead and sending out invitations im scared the party dates gonna fall on when i start my period. and its not like i can chart it or anything because i take medicine which makes it realllly irregular and unpredictable and i cant use a tampon. ive tried and it just wont...go in! and my mom thinks theyre really unhealthy.
and especially when i have my guyfriends over, what do i tell them?? ahh im freaking out here. HELP?!?!

Well tampons AREN'T unhealthy if used properly.
Basically, you should practice using tampons, use the instruction leaflet included with tampons.
Otherwise, if you're gonna be on your period, and not using a tampon, I don't suggest you go swimming..
Instead wear shorts or a skirt over your bikini bottoms so no one notices, and have fun outside the pool.
If a guy notices, he shouldn't laugh at you, or need an explanation. I mean you're 14, and by this age, most guys know the facts.

My friend was worried about having her period when we went to a water park. A guy noticed the tampon string he just told me to tell my friend (he didn't want to embarrass her, but he was cool about it) and we we're all 13/14

I'm sure it'll be ok, but talk to your mom about using tampons. She probably will understand!

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there has to be some way to figure out who left a message in your myspace truth box...is there? like im sure its possible some how...and i REALLY want to know if anyone has figured out a way yet. does anyone know how?? thanks!

There'd be no point in an anonymous truth box if you could find out who posted something.
No way of finding out

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I've asked a lot of people about this but I just can't get a clear answer.

If my friend lives in England, and I live in the United States....if he calls ME on my cell phone, do I get charged long distance fees?

I have Verizon Wireless. I know I don't get international calling. But people have told me that it doesn't matter as long as HE calls me and that I will only get charged for the minutes, NOT long distance charges. Is this true??

And please don't say, "Ask your company."

Well most likely, you will be charged too.
To be honest, most international calls are charged to both people.
Unless you have some expensive deal...

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Alright, so I've had my belly button ring for over a year now. It has developed a small bump of puss next to it. It hurts and I can pop it, but it comes back.

Please do not reply saying "Take it out", or "Get Medical Help". I am asking this to see if anyone else had encountered these problems, and if so, what they did to solve it.

Yes, if I can not figure it out, I will take it out.

Thanks for answering.

It sounds like a keloid.
Don't worry, they are common with piercings.
You don't have to take out the piercing, instead, mix sea salt (like the big grains, not normal salt) with warm water, so it tastes like tears, and then put it in a cup, and hold it over your navel for 10 minutes.
Try to do this twice a day and it usually works :)
If it doesn't improve after a month of seasalt solution, go to a piercing studio and ask them for advice :)

Oh btw, make sure that the solution isn't too salty, it should taste like tears.

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3 weekends ago I smoke weed it was only like 3-4 hits and I didnt inhale all the way. Since those 3 weeks I have drank a few times and I have a drug test tomorrow will I pass?

It takes a month to get drugs out of your system.
Sorry, but no, you won't pass.

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what are some cool hair styles that would look good on a brunette with hair about to her boob with side bangs grown out to her chin. Hair really thin...has a little natural wave to it. I already take my bangs back into a poof and i wear my hair down and i can't really think of anything else any ideas??

http://images.google.co.uk/images?q=messy+bun&btnG=Search+Images&um=1&hl=en

Messy buns always look good :)

or just messy braids :P

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