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what is dry sex/what is dry humping? thanks. (link)
hey

dry sex - masturbation sex where one or both of the partners are still clothed between the belly & the crotch, dry humping takes place, and one or both have an orgasm but there is no exchange of body fluids because of the layer of clothing. Called "dry" because there is no natural lubrication.

dry humping - The action of humping by two people while being fully clothed, or having underwear or even just sheets. Basically clothed sex

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=dry+sex

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=dry+humping

just make sure you read a few of them to get the gist of it. the first few might be a little off :]


How lng are you supposed to leave a pad on? Is it a bad for you to keep it on for 2 or 3 days? I know its discusting, but is it unhealthy for you? Thanks so much. (link)
hey

look, it all depends on how much blood there was. if it was totally filled up with blood, it's unsanitary. it could also be unhealthy because of all that bacteria touching your vajj.

if you kept it on for 2-3 days and it was PRACTICALLY white (maybe your period just ended and you kept it on just to make sure), then no. it's fine.

it doesn't matter how long you keep a pad on because it all depends on how much blood flow there was. like you can have a pad on for two weeks without your period and nothing will happen but if you have a seriously heavy flow & kept it on for two days, that could lead to some issues.

IF you had a very heavy / medium flow & kept it on for 2-3 days, it's not a big deal, just make sure you really clean all around your vajj. area including inside of you. then you should be okay.


is there any way to change your name on advicenators? I dont like mine, so how do I alter it? thanks so much! (link)
hey

you can change it also by contacting dangernerd & he might change it for free if you have a really good reason :]

http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=dangernerd

or, you could get a paid account and change it then.


i REALLY want to be a model. I'm not pretty or anything and i dont fit the height and weight requirememnts, but im obsessed with americas next top model (the show) and i love posing and stuff. I took a few pictures of myself with high fashion makeup i tried by myself. can you give me your honest opinion: If i got some training could i be a good model? (and lost some weight)?

http://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j182/Babiixbrunette/mcc4.jpg



http://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j182/Babiixbrunette/mcc3.jpg


http://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j182/Babiixbrunette/mcc1.png

(the thir dones kinda bad) (link)
I love that show too and I love posing too. It doesn't mean you're model material. You're just photogenic, if you're good at the poses you do. Go to xanga.com and type in MODEL. It's not as easy as it looks...


I dont know which religion to go with. I dont like christianity because alot of the people around here are fake and they just pretend like they are really good. I know some of you arent going to like me for saying that, but whatever. I dont believe in god. I mean, I believe that there was a man named Jesus and he was a great guy and everything, he helped the poor, and all that. But I dont believe he was sent down from god and all that magical stuff. I just think that the best thing is to love one another and be nice and kind and tolerant. I dont believe in heaven or hell, they were both made up to scare people. And i dont understand why people say god is so forgiving, he will forgive you of your sins and whatever, but then everyone says that bad people are sent to hell. Why doesn't god forgive them?!?! So those I believe were just made up to scare people, "you wont get into heaven if you do this, youll go to hell if you do that." So basically does anyone know of a religion or faith? I just want one that is tolerant of all other religions and one that focuses more on the future than on the past. Supports the wellness of the world and its people and one thats not based all on money. Preferrably one thats liberal, democratic. Oh yeah I have already seen Buddhism and thought about that one... so anything other than that would be great!!! thank you so much, sorry its long
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Hmph. I hate to answer this question. I've been trying to keep high ratings, but I'll have to just face it for this one. Lemme just say, how do you think we got here? If there's no God, then how do our bodies work? I believe: God's real. I know that it's doubtful and hard to believe, but it's FAITH. God designed us to have faith, but others stray and don't believe. So, when time comes for you to go to Heaven or Hell... you're gonna wanna go to Heaven. All it takes is faith. Yes, I understand what you're saying about all of the fake Christians. That doesn't mean that you have to be like that. I don't even go to church. I just live off of my Bible. It's got all the answers. I don't believe in any other religions, and I don't like to talk about them. So I'm sorry that my answer isn't good enough for you, I'm just trying to serve the Lord.

And let me add. What you described, sounds perfect. And I'm an extreme doubter, and I would believe what you said. I mean, God. In the sky? What the... It's kind of, eh. But it's not all about religion- it's about faith. Just believe in something. Something realistic.


Which car has the best gas mileage??

Thanks so much!! (link)
volkswagen golf TDI. turbo diesel. 54 miles to the gallon. really slick little buggers.


okay a random question...

im babysitting...both kids are asleep and i do know how to work the TV. anyone have any ides on what i should do?



and i cant use the phone incase someone tries to call...please give me ideas i rate high and i want something to do. (link)
Pop in movie. Make some popcorn and chill. Read a book or even use the computer [if you can]. Write someone a note. I know its hard when your alone and have nothng to do. Hopefully that helps.


ok well i have this ''friend'' he is actually my ex boyfriend who is entirely my 1st true love him and i went out for 2 years on and off our relationship has always been really bumpy he just turned 19 yesterday and i turned 14 last week on thursday so as you can see him and i have always had some issues but we still love eachother.. well anyways i have a new boyfriend now who is my age and i like him alot but i promised travis my v-card [virginity] and he says next time we chill its gonna happen and rite now i dont really no whut to do bcuz i still love travis i just am not sure wheather he deserves that from me if hes not even still my man help me.. (link)
NO NO NO....ONE HUNDRED TIMES NO. You are fourteen and he is nineteen and thinking you love him might not be love at all. I know that might sound mean but you have your whole life to really full in love with someone. Dont just give your virginity to someone because you promised him. You could make the worst mistake of your life. Take it slow, hun. You have time to really find someone who loves you dearly. You dont want to be considered a "whore". He is 19. He has been there and done that. Whether or not you two were ex's. He is not your bf any longer and for a reason. You dont who's he's slept with and you dont know what he's gone through. YOU have to be safe about this. The fact that Kenny is your current bf and for you to betray him could hurt you in the end as well. Think, please, before you take a large leap like this. I hope i helped, alil.


hi im a 14/f and i really want to have sex, but im afraid of getting dieases and preganacy, the usual so what are other things i could do physically with my bf? thanks (link)
Okay, i just read 'ASHUMMS' answer. Well, you can get an std from oral sex too. You are young and need to be very careful on this. If you need more information about "sex", go to a family parenting clinc and they can give you all the info. Like i said your still young and if you really dont feel like your ready for this [ie; afriad of diseases and pregnancy]then i would suggest not to do it til you really understand the effects of sex. Masterbating is almost the best thing here.


I just turned 16, so i'm working on getting a car from my parents. I'm pretty sure that i'm going to get one. But i'm trying to figure out which one I want.
Can anyone give me any ideas of a good car for a teenager. Preferably one thats not too expensive, that is safe, reliable, and has a good gas mileage. My parents say that if I get a car they want it to be safe.

Any suggestions that you have would be greatly appreciated! (link)
Go onto Google and search all cars, Like [ie; Chrysler, GM, FORD, TOYOTA..]. They will give you prices, gas mileages and whatever else you want to know about the car.


ok so me and my friend went to a pool party. i wore a bikini and after we all changed back into our normal clothes, everyone started calling me rolls. i asked my friend why and she said she didnt know and she laughed. so i asked others and they said because i was fat, i had like 100 rolls, i had some jelly in my belly, and one girl even said it looks like i wasnt wearing a bikini because my rolls covered all of it. i dont think im fat, i mean when i sit or bend over i have this huge roll of fat that comes out but thats all. do you think maybe i am fat? (link)
I wouldnt say you were fat. Depending on your height and weight, people might think your fat. I dont know. I think if you feel its a problem i would just cut the junk out. Everyone seems to have that fat when you sit, because if you didnt you wouldnt be able to bend. Thats why we all have extra skin and fat. The fact that your friend wasnt being truthful or mean to you doesnt seem to be a very good friend. Hun, if you feel that you are fat, Go to a doctor and see. They can measure your weight and how much body fat you do have. Hopefully, things will work out for you in the end.


14/f


i usually, besides cheerleading, walk around. like just walk around town and stuff. when i do its like over a mile atleast depending on where i and friends go. will this burn calories (link)
Yes. It wont burn alot of calories but walking is very good for you. You would be extermly surprised how much calories can burn from walking a mile or more.


Is there any craft store that sells stirefoam balls that are different sizes to model the Solar System? Anything like a Michael's or any kind of craft store like that? Thanks! (link)
Any place that sells crafts will have them. Even some places like Lowe's or Home Deput might too.


Hi, im 14 years old and im 140 pounds and 5'6 i need to get in shape for graduation. Tips to lose weight and get in shape fast. Thanks (link)
Since your 5'6 and only 140lbs. This shouldnt be too hard. I would say slowly cut out all the soda and junk food. If you have it as a habit and you eat it everyday. Its alot harder to quick cold turkey then to cut your portions in half. Start to regualrly excerise. Eat more fruits. And cut the carbs early in the morning. Like breads. [IE; bagel instead of eggs.] Bagels are full of carbs and if you insist on eating breakfest, have a "real" breakfest. Orange juice, eggs...whatever. Basicly start eating heathier and maybe even work out for 30min everyday. Depending on where your weight is more. [ie; pear shape, hour shape, spoon shape] Work out that area the most. Like if you have alil belly. Running/Jogging works best for that area. Even to hola hoop for a hour knocks out a 8mile run. If you dont know excatly what type of exceriese to use. Go to google and search your body shape and the exrecieses best for you.


Ok so I got my ears peirced on April 13th and I know the lady said I should wait 4-6 weeks to take the earrings out but I can't waaaitttt. Lol. I want to try all these earrings, you know? I've cleaned them the first 2 weeks twice a day like I was supposed to and now I've had them for 3 weeks. So yeah.

What would happen if I just switched earrings for a few days? Eh. I'm afraid of them getting infected then I'd have to get them re-peirced and it'd take even longer. Reh. xD Help. (link)
DO NOT DOIT! if you do they will probably get infected and they hurt soooooo bad just wait 5 weeks its really worthh the wait!


hope i helped :D


i lay on my back with my feet up.. looking like an L shape. i bring my legs down to the sides as fas as i can then pull them together, like a v kind of. i do 25 of those and i can feel the pull in my inner thys right by my crotch. will this do me any good if i do 100 a day? (link)
hey

yes. they will strengthen your inner thigh muscles as well as your buttocks. doing 100 a day will create muscle in those areas, and if you have love handle problems, reduce those as well.

if you are looking for weight loss, eat well & do 100 of those a day and you will notice a difference.

if you want to thin up your thighs & are not severely obese, i would stop cause what you are doing is creating muscle. if you are reasonably overweight, it could thin up, but also create muscle which could make them look bigger.


I need a hairstyle. My head has a big forehead and sorta oval. I have side bangs swepted to the right. I haev layered long hair that goes below my shoulder. I also have a tanned skin. I like Japanese Wacky hairs, but my mom will freak. Help?
I also like clothes that are in but my mom is so old fashioneded and never agrees. Please? (link)
hey

i have sidebangs swept to the left, and medium-length layered hair too. i usually put my hair in...

- a quiff / pouf
http://www.virtualhaircare.com.au/virtual%20salon/blow%20and%20style/hairup_quiff.html

it will look like this when you are finished, not like those on the website unless you go way overboard with it.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/slink/images/146x146/hb/partyhair-long_1.jpg

- a frenchbraid
a french braid is great for any occasion! and it's super easy to do

http://www.ehow.com/how_17115_french-braid-hair.html

it seems to me that you like the flat, straight sorta different kind of hair style. do you blowdry your hair upside-down or right-side up? if you do it upside down, it will put a LOT more volume in your hair, and will bring out the layers better. do that, then straighten your hair. it looks great!

you gotta talk to your mom about what kind of clothes you can start wearing or not. you didn't specify how old you are, which is okay, but it might affect my answer a little. if you are like, 13, just talk to her about how you are maturing now and can pick your own clothes & go shopping by yourself. if you are 15 plus, don't yell at her - that always makes the mother feel even more reluctant to letting you pick your own clothes. reason with her. if you don't talk to her, she won't really know what you are thinking. ask her why she likes old-fashioned clothes, and you guys will come to a happy ending. okay? just talk to her.


does anyone know if '97 mustangs have antilock braking systems? thanks. (link)
you ask about mustangs and they post a link to BMWs. this is how helpful other people are here with cars. yes they have ABS. simple as that.


hey. wut are some songs bout having a crush on a boy, but u can't have him. and also, songs bout life not goin the way u want. some examples that i have are "let love in" by goo goo dolls, "it's gonna be love" by mandy moore, "hey there deliah" by plain white t's. and songs kinda like those. i don't want old song, like elton john or somethin. i want up to date songs. thanks!!! (link)
DHT - I GO CRAZY
DJ CRAV3 - I WATCH YOU
FROU FROU - HEAR ME OUT
LAAVA - WHERE EVER YOU ARE
NELLY FURTADO - WAIT FOR YOU
SHINY TOY GUNS - RAINY MONDAY
Gloria Estefan - CANT STAY AWAY FROM YOU


these are only a few i could think of. =]


What are excitement gels?! (link)
Sexual enhancement gels are not natural, but these gels sometimes prove to be more efficient than one can expect. Mostly meant for external usage, sexual enhancement gels can bring about the ultimate and unprecedented joy of sex and enhance the process of lovemaking.

Most of the sexual enhancement gels are specially made for women through detailed understanding of female sexual dysfunction and female sexual health. Most of the gels are meant for enhancing female hormone secretion, augmenting sexual excitement and empowering women with sexual energies anyone could hardly dreamt for.

Ancient Indian literature has already explored the arena of sexual desires, and the secrets of foreplay and other intricacies to enhance your desires and actions. This is now complemented with sexual enhancement gels made especially for those women who want explore and receive this ultimate pleasure of life.

In recent studies it is seen that over 46% of the women in America experience little or no sexual satisfaction from clitoral orgasm and only 25% achieve orgasm with intercourse. In fact, countless numbers of women between the ages of 18 and 80 do not even know what an orgasm is or how it is achieved. Whether you are multi-orgasmic or are among the 46% of women who are sexually frustrated, every woman who desires maximum sexual fulfillment, greater intimacy, and enhanced relationships stands to benefit from regular use of these sexual enhancement gels.

There are numerous sexual enhancement gels available on the market, and it is best to gather some information about the product or consult with your doctor before using it.

Potential benefits of these gels include: enhancement of female arousal and sexual excitement, increased sexual endurance and pleasure, improvement of clitoral sensitivity, and no need to take pills or wait several months for medication to take effect.

By increasing female arousal and sexual pleasure, these gels do for women's sexual health what that famous little blue pill does for men - like an all-natural and wonderful, "passion formula in a bottle".




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