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ok well i have this ''friend'' he is actually my ex boyfriend who is entirely my 1st true love him and i went out for 2 years on and off our relationship has always been really bumpy he just turned 19 yesterday and i turned 14 last week on thursday so as you can see him and i have always had some issues but we still love eachother.. well anyways i have a new boyfriend now who is my age and i like him alot but i promised travis my v-card [virginity] and he says next time we chill its gonna happen and rite now i dont really no whut to do bcuz i still love travis i just am not sure wheather he deserves that from me if hes not even still my man help me..
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NO NO NO....ONE HUNDRED TIMES NO. You are fourteen and he is nineteen and thinking you love him might not be love at all. I know that might sound mean but you have your whole life to really full in love with someone. Dont just give your virginity to someone because you promised him. You could make the worst mistake of your life. Take it slow, hun. You have time to really find someone who loves you dearly. You dont want to be considered a "whore". He is 19. He has been there and done that. Whether or not you two were ex's. He is not your bf any longer and for a reason. You dont who's he's slept with and you dont know what he's gone through. YOU have to be safe about this. The fact that Kenny is your current bf and for you to betray him could hurt you in the end as well. Think, please, before you take a large leap like this. I hope i helped, alil.
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Okay well first off Kenny is your man, and you should be faithful to him, okay. Secondly, Travis is way too old for you, i personal dont think he's still your man. I also think think that all he wants from you is sex. So dont give it to him, i know you may want to, but dont do it because the likelyhood is that after you do it your going to regret it, so when you do have sex, make sure your ready 100% ready and that your in love, okay:) I wish all the luck, with your decision, just make sure it's a good one okay.
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I can't tell you if you're ready to have sex, but if you even have to ask, I don't think you are. If you love him and want him to have your virginity, then it's not my right to tell you not to. So, just make sure if you do you consider the consequences. Not just about pregnancy and std's, but with your new boyfriend. What's going to happen with him and you when he finds out you cheated on him with your ex boyfriend?
Hope I helped.
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