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never had a boyfriend
14/F
I've never had a boyfriend, it doesn't bother me much though since i'm only fourteen and have a long time to go.
I've been asked out by some really nice guys but I always turn them down because i'm to shy and scared that he'll end up not liking me.
And i'd be nervous about kissing to. Like what do I say or do after the kiss is done? I'd feel awkward.
And what would we do for fun?
I can be really outgoing and funny with close friends though.
I'm moving in a few weeks so nobody will know me. So if a boy I like asks me out I want to finally say yes and not be scared. What can I do to help me from not freaking out over this so much?
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Everyone freaks out. I remember in the seventh grade i had, had boyfriends but never kissed them. so i asked the guy that was my "boyfriend" if he would kiss me and just kept telling myself i was ready. So after school i kissed him really fast on the lips and ran out the door. I didnt say goodbye or anything. I broke up with him two days later. What a dissaster and how i made a fool out of myself..
Its every girls fear that the guy will not like who they really are once they get to know them.. even when your older you still have that fear. For not knowing what to say after the kiss. Its hard to tell you exactly what to say because it could happen any time at any place and it could be a long kiss a short kiss, a bad kiss or a amazing kiss. it all depends. try not to run away like me. lol.
If you feel like you should say yes then say yes. dont feel pressured if you just want a boyfriend but want to know the guy more. I'm 16 and get freaked out when i get asked out on dates. I was asked to prom and got butterflies and it was from a guy i have known half my life. Even my mom still gets nervous. when she started dating the guy she is now getting married to i had to tell her to calm down and relax because she was so scared something was going to go wrong. Just try to keep calm and be your self. if your not then it might not work if you guys date for a while.
hope i helped..
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