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Q: I was wondering, dont ask me why, but If you are dead is it considered rape or what?
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its called necrophelia.. thats having sex with a dead person.
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Q: I'm 15/f. I need to ask somebody a question. It's pretty long. I'll send it to your inbox, if you're interested in helping me. I don't want to put it on here, because someone that I know might figure out that it's me. It's about me and some guys. Thanks :)
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ill awnser anything you need to ask.
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Q: You know how it's bad to mix some medications with alcohol - is there a bad effect if you smoke pot and drink?
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Like the other person it is all tolerance and how much you smoke while you drink. I can drink alot but when it comes to smoking and drinking it tends to give me a pretty bad stomach ache.. some people can handle it fine. but me it makes me feel like puking.
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Q: 14/F
I've never had a boyfriend, it doesn't bother me much though since i'm only fourteen and have a long time to go.
I've been asked out by some really nice guys but I always turn them down because i'm to shy and scared that he'll end up not liking me.
And i'd be nervous about kissing to. Like what do I say or do after the kiss is done? I'd feel awkward.
And what would we do for fun?
I can be really outgoing and funny with close friends though.
I'm moving in a few weeks so nobody will know me. So if a boy I like asks me out I want to finally say yes and not be scared. What can I do to help me from not freaking out over this so much?
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Everyone freaks out. I remember in the seventh grade i had, had boyfriends but never kissed them. so i asked the guy that was my "boyfriend" if he would kiss me and just kept telling myself i was ready. So after school i kissed him really fast on the lips and ran out the door. I didnt say goodbye or anything. I broke up with him two days later. What a dissaster and how i made a fool out of myself..
Its every girls fear that the guy will not like who they really are once they get to know them.. even when your older you still have that fear. For not knowing what to say after the kiss. Its hard to tell you exactly what to say because it could happen any time at any place and it could be a long kiss a short kiss, a bad kiss or a amazing kiss. it all depends. try not to run away like me. lol.
If you feel like you should say yes then say yes. dont feel pressured if you just want a boyfriend but want to know the guy more. I'm 16 and get freaked out when i get asked out on dates. I was asked to prom and got butterflies and it was from a guy i have known half my life. Even my mom still gets nervous. when she started dating the guy she is now getting married to i had to tell her to calm down and relax because she was so scared something was going to go wrong. Just try to keep calm and be your self. if your not then it might not work if you guys date for a while.
hope i helped..
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Q: Hey if my exbf was leing about his age should i date or not?
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i dont think so. I have had guys lie about there age and guys i even liked then found out later they were 25 or so. They can get in major trouble for even kissing you so it would be in your best interest not to date him especially since he has already lied about his age.. who knows what he might lie about next.
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Q: how can you get revenge on guys? if they have treated you like shit
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Well give me details how exactly did he treat you like shit. cheat??
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Q: LOL...i really need to lose that extra weight on my love handles and fast! Also, my love handles are wide therefore my waist is wide as well. I do have a curve but my curve makes me looks FAT! I know curves are good and some girls dont have them but sometimes i hate it. I cant wear tight clothes anymore. Does Beyonce have this love handle problem or does she have fat on her curves? I wasnt really shure because my sides looks almost the same as Beyonce's.
K thanks!!!
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Beyonce is tall also she has curves she is not a tiny thing but she has some weight. usually when you have love handles its because of diet. i used to eat chips just about everyday and all i would ever drink was coke and i couldnt wear the same pants and gained 2 pant sizes. after i cut that out of my diet and started walking afew miles a couple days a week i lost my love handles. i also started swimming more. if you cannot do these things then try running in place while watching tv or listening to the radio. you can watch a thirty minute show and run for 30 minutes and not even realize you ran for that long. try doing leg lifts while laying in the floor on your back. lift up one leg for 10 seconds about a half a foot off the ground then switch legs.. do that about 15 times each foot and once thats easy to do increase your time to 25 seconds or however you feel comforatable.
hope i helped.
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Q: Okay. So I'm 19 and I dated a guy for about a year, and he broke up with me in January because he thought I cheated on him (I didn't, by the way). I then went on a 2-month visit to another state. A couple days after I left, he told me that he was still in love with me and wanted me to come home. When I did come home, we got back together, and he told me that in the couple of days we were broken up, he had fingered a girl that I used to talk to (she and I weren't friends, more of just acquaintances). I didn't really think much of it -- I mean, we weren't together and he was kind of rebounding anyway.
The other day, he accidentally let it slip that he hadn't just fingered the girl, but he had started having sex with her and they had to stop because she was a virgin and it was hurting her. I'm not really upset that he did it (though, of course, it does hurt). Mostly I'm upset because he lied to me.
We started talking and he basically said he had lied because he didn't want to hurt me. I know he feels really bad for the whole thing, and regrets everything he did with her. I forgave him for lying, and of course for having sex with her. But since he told me, all I can think about is her. Like when I close my eyes, I can literally picture them together, having sex. I try not to let it bother me, because it's in the past and I know that I'm the only one he wants to be with. But it does bother me.
Am I wrong to be letting this bother me? I mean, I know that he would never cheat on me or anything like that. That's not my problem. My problem is the stupid past.
If I'm being stupid by letting this get to me, can someone tell me how to let go of it?
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Your not being stupid. I have been some what in the same place you are. It took me a long time to forget about it and i still bring it up sometimes and talk about it with him. Its hard to imagine forgiving someone even if you wernt dating because it was just afew days later. Its good you are forgiving i try to be and alot of people tell me i am too forgiving and there is a such thing. I understand being upset that he lied to you but he did tell you and he did try to keep it from you so you wouldnt be hurt. that in its own way is sweet. Dont feel stupid because some people would take it much more dramatically i am actually proud that you are that forgiving..
hope i helped.
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Q: what can i do while grinding with a guy to turn him on and give him a boner? like is there a certain way to move my ass, like slow or some shit like that
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While grinding on a guy when you go right on his crotch slow down a little bit and put a little more pressure on him.
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Q: What exactly is considered oral sex? Blow jobs, and eating out? Is titty sucking considered oral sex?
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I dont beleive so because i have never heard it mentioned as oral sex..
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Q: Where were you when you had your first time. My boyfriend of almost a year and I are thinking about doing it for the first time, but we aren't sure where the best places would be, or places that would be fun. and we don't want to be uncomfortable. So if you could list a couple it'd be apriciated. Thanks!
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My first time was on my boyfriends bed with his mom on the other side of the house and we didnt even do it for more than 3 minutes because she was comming. i recomend being comepletly alone and on a bed especially for your first time. it would be kind of weird somewhere else and not being experienced on what to do. hope i helped.
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Q: how can you tell your pregnant are there any early early signs?
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you can have morning sickenss. But only 20% of women have it. your breasts can feel enlarged and sore. YOu can feel bloated like your on your period and just be irritable like your about to start your period. you can crave certain foods for a long time like ice cream or weird foods like asparagus. hope i helped.
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Q: what is a reasonable curfew for a responsible sixteen year old?
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It depends on what your asking on doing. I am sixteen and if i tell my mom i am going to a party tell her i will drink but have a DD then she will usually say 11pm. but if its a movie or something it just depends on when it starts and ends. I dont have a curfew i just go on what i am doing that night and see what my parents say about what i am doing. Depending on your conservative your parents are you should be honest with them about what your going to do. most of the time any way. =]
hope i helped
Courtney.
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Q: how do i masturbate by myself? i finger myself but is there anything else? thanks for answering
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well if you have a shower head with different setting you can put it on the jet setting and put it on your clitoris or you can rub your clitoris, you may not be able to climax by rubbing it but it feels good. you can also massage your breasts. to alot of girls it feels pretty good. hope i helped.
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Q: I heard sex makes your breasts grow if you do it enough (not by getting pregnant). Is this true?
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I'm not sure its true and i dont think it is. I have been having sex for over a year now and i havnt seen any abnormaly fast growth in my breasts. I dont think its true unless you were pregnant.
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Q: Ok This might sound funny but it's realyl seriuos! Me and my sister were shooting each other with water guns and I ran her into a tree!
There's this HUGE cut tracing the top of her eye brow and I'm scared something bad might happen!
She always dreamed of being a model and if it scars I'd be the one wrecking her dream and it really was an accidnet but my aunts are liek yelling and rubbing it in my face!
What do I do about thsi situation? it's killing me! what do I do for my sister to help her heal the pain? Medicine? etc?
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Well when it starts to get better and scabs up dont pull the scab off and put alot of vitamin E on it and coa coa butter when the scab isnt there any more. vitamin E works wonders on scars.
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Q: Me and my best friend are having a birthday party in June. We're planning on inviting 40 people. The thing is, we have no clue what to do. Most of us are 14 and 13. We don't want our party to be boring or anything and we can't think of something that would be REALLY fun. Any ideas?
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well it depends on where you live if you live in a area with land then you can have a cook out with frisbee's and foot balls. just do out door things or if you have a pool then have a pool party.. Usually cook outs keep everyone entertained just put on some music everyone likes and try to keep everyone talking and enjoying themselves.
hope i helped.
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Q: I dont know what to do! I just got this puppy like a week ago and it aint eating notin i mean like 3 days after we got it it waz playing and running around the house and everything and eating, now it aint eating notin.We tried to give it food today but it want eat it all it would do is drink water and milk. What should i do she is losing weight and everything .
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puppies are like babies. if you are giving it dry food then what you should do is put the puppy food in a big bowl or pot and put water in it till you can see the water through the puppy food then you can wait for it to soak up the water then take a potato masher or metal slotted spoon or just a fork and mash it up alot then give it to him still warm.. he should eat it if not keep him hydrated and take him to the vet soon.
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Q:
ok im 17 and i dont rally know what to do when my boyfriend fingers me..he did it once before and we just kissed and it was fine but am i ment to do something else?
And also how do you go around giving a handjob?lke how do you start it off?do you sit next to them or lye next to them and what do you do next?do you kiss them when youre doing it?
Please help!I just dont know how to start it off!
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Well i need to ask if he is more experienced than you because the first time i was fingered and gave a hand job i just plainly told my boy friend that i was really shy and didnt know what to do and he found it cute and just helped me out and showed me what to do. if not its still confusing to me sometimes and i have been dating my boyfriend for over a year.
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Q: like my nose has a random bump on it and i HATE it!! its hereditary in my family and like my nose it cute looking from the front and ugly from the side and idk if people notice or not...is there anything i can do??
plz help!
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I have the same problem when i was younger it was a lot more prominent and everyone made fun of me. now that i am older people dont say as much about it because it fits my face. you cannot do anything about it unless you got a nose job. but being elevin i think you should just wait till your older because you should grow into it.
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bio
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Hi I'm Courtney. I Love awnsering people questions and alot of my friends call me the therapist. But besides that my life practically evolves around photography and kayaking. I'm 16 years old and bound ready for life. I have had my share of heart ache and my share of drama. But i am more forgiving than most hard core christians. My family is difficult and when i say i know what you mean i truthfully do. I have been in a lot of hard places and have thought i was never going to get out and sometimes i think again i never will. I am open to everyone and will not push you away. I am not judgemental just because everyone judges me on the fact that my hair is about a inch long. I live in a very small town whith very ignorant people so i guess thats why i am the way i am. If you would like to talk i am always on myspace. www.myspace.com/c419420
thanks Courtney
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Info
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: NC Occupation: Photographer Age: 16 AIM: Member Since: April 20, 2007 Answers: 37 Last Update: May 5, 2007 Visitors: 4075
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