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15/m

ok sure its a weird question but here goes nothing

anyway my girlfriend and i really love each other. a lot. so anyway, we make out just about every time we're with each other *and don't say that love isn't only about making out, because i know that. we really do love each other*, but it's always kinda the same thing. i guess what i'm trying to ask is: how can i spice things up a bit? not anything sexual but something that could make it better for the both of us?

please and thank you (link)
hey

well while making out, you could try this:

begin making out, but to go farther, just start sucking her bottom lip and slowly move downward towards her neck. it will really turn her on.

don't START OUT sucking her bottom lip - she could be like, "what is he DOING?!" just be confident & don't do it too fast, okay?

you'll do great :]

more infoooo:
http://www.loveletterbox.com/types_of_kisses.htm


i drink about 2 or 3 bottles of water a day, and i was wondering ...what does water do to your body? like, how does it affect a person's weight, health, etc. is there any bad side-effects or something? (link)
Over drinking can be bad. Your tummy really cant handls more then 10-15 glasses a day. Your body is 80% water so it needs about 8 to 10 glasses a day. Its good for your skin, so on and so forth. There really isnt too much to say xpect that you need.


how can you get over some one? i need help he got over me and everything he is doing is really hurting me. How do i fOrget about him> (link)
Time will only heal it. I'm sorry. I'm in this sorta thing. Try to enjoy your friends and freedom. Start talking to other guys. Dont jump into a relationship right away. People make that mistake often and end up hurting themselves more in the end. Try to ignore him. Eventually you will realize why you two arent together. When you figure that out you'll feel alot better. Also, you can write out all his pros and cons and figure why if he really was the one for you. More times then not, they really arent for you.


So here's the thing.

i'm always stuck at home cleaning. I can never go out ause m cleaning.! my 3 older bros can do watever they want. I';m a girl and the youngest and the only girtl in the family! people think im spoiled but thats the farthest thing i am! im always cleaning!

i dnt get whY!!


sometimes i get sooooooooooooo mad i just wanna slap someone and kill my self! i no a lil frekay!

but i cant stand it!

my bros are always having fun and im stuck at home!

and i cant even see guys not even have them as friend or ewls im grounded!


I HATE MY LIFE!@



i need advice wit this!


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R u albanian btw? Hahaha, cause i am. AND believe me sweety its hard. First talk to your parents and tell them thats it not fair and that they should help you as well. They shouldnt ust leave all the work on you. They are part of the family as well. Ask if you can have friends over or whatever. Try to pry in some type of freedom. Dont stress too much about having boy friends. Work on having them not having all the fun then mve to other issues.


what if your ex is late with the alimony but you don't want to get him angry at you? (link)
Alimony? Angry at you? You need to be forward on this? Isnt this a legal agreement here? If he is a day or two late and you feel that you dont want to be mean, then so be it. But if he is more then a few days, maybe even weeks, you need to tell him and if he doesnt do what he is suppose to, you take it to the right people and have them deal with it. Its not a favor he's doing and you are now seperated. So, obiviously, its not a joke neither.


ok just you know i live in Wisconsin and this guy lives in New Hampshire ok so how can guy that far away make your be so fast yet so slow at the same time????? cause i mean were just friends really i mean he says he likes me and whenever i talk to him i start shaking what does this mean??? (link)
Your nervous and /or scared. Whether you think so or not. You might not be ready to really feel for him because he lives in NH. Take it slow. Be his friend. Do you ever visit him in NH or him in WI? If not, how can you ever make it work? Think about everything and not about what he says. Guys are strange and hard to figure out. He probably does like you, but how can you be for sure other then what he tells you. Just put your best judgement forward.


I am a tiny girl 14/f 4'11" size 0 (or 1 depending where i go). I have a very rounded butt! Its not necessarily big just lifted and round. Because of this I've had trouble finding short shorts to fit me. The pockets are always in the wrong place or the patterns emphasize the shape of my butt. Any suggestions of styles or stores to look in to find shorts the actually fit and compliment my tush? (link)
hey

same! i have a really round booty too & i lovelovelove the way abercrombie pants fit me. they seriously just make my butt look GREAT.

their shorts are nice & tight, but not too short (so short that your booty hangs out). so i deff. suggest them. i'm talking abercrombie kids, but abercrombie & fitch is just as good.

i don't like hollister cause they are too short for me.

hm... lux shorts. they don't have a specific store like, the lux store or something (although i wish they did), but urban outfitters sells lots of lux stuff. that's a great brand for anything.

soffees tend to run too bootylishh or too long! i'm a small, but sometimes they ride up. it's so annoying. i suggest like shorts like business type almost, like plaid? you know? that roll up at the ends? those look good. cause the pockets are only like a line on the tush, so the pockets don't get "messed up" (i have the same problem!)



If you eat really unhealthy food for a while, how long does it take to catch up? For example, if you eat bad for a month straight, will it take a month to catch up to your body or what? (link)
No, normally if you eat bad for a month it could catch up to you fast and it is harder to get rid of fast. Certian types of foods can hurt different types of organs in your body and some of them need much more time then others. If you choose to eat junk food. Eat it in moderation.


I am a tiny girl 14/f 4'11" size 0 (or 1 depending where i go). I have a very rounded butt! Its not necessarily big just lifted and round. Because of this I've had trouble finding short shorts to fit me. The pockets are always in the wrong place or the patterns emphasize the shape of my butt. Any suggestions of styles or stores to look in to find shorts the actually fit and compliment my tush? (link)
I have always had a big booty and i am thin. Short shorts are not the aswer for us round about girls. Do you wants your ass cheeks hanging out? Go to a bigger size for shorts or skirts. Cus wear a size 5 and i have to go up a size with shorts becuase of my ass. If you notice, shorts arent meant for big booty girls. So a&f wont have them, but if you like certian clothes from there...try hollister. I hope this helps alil bit. Believe me, i also have a difficult time this time of the year.


so i want to get my belly button pierced at a salon,but i'm only 15 and i don't have my parents permission. however, i have an older sister who i look really similar to...too bad she's 22. she looks really young for her age so i could probably pull it off somehow.. (i'll figure this out myself) and i can talk really proper cuz i hang out with older people alot and everything. and i'll talk in a fake chinese accent cuz it makes me sound older hhaa. anyways, but if i get caught...will they just kick me out of the piercing parlor or will i actually get in troube with the law for using a fake ID? if they all my parents i can have my friend to wait at her phone and pretend to be my mom or something..but would i get in trouble with the actual law? thanks so much.


p.s. i could use my sisters expired drivers license, by the way. (link)
Oy an expired license will never work. They need a vail id. I have my belly pierced. Why dont you have your sister sign for you? She is of legal age. She could be your legal guardian, but i do not suggest you go alone. If you really feel that you need to get this done, why dont you just ask your parents or tal to them about it instead of doing it behind their backs?


i wear and a and im 15. all my friends wear a c-d and alot of them are 12-13 years old. someone please tell me how to make my boobs grow! (link)
I'm 14 and wear a size A. My friends wear a B's. One of my friends wear a 34C. I miss out a lot. I wish I wore a B. We all complain about our body, it's human! Your 15 years old and people don't stop growing until they are about 20. It just depends. If you don't grow (you have 5 years) you will be 20 and might like them...who knows.
All I can advice is wear a push up bra or padded bra. Push up bra gives you cleavage and a hot look. Try that. Your 15, your old enough.


15/f im kinda short compared to my friends. im only 5'2. i kinda like my highth, but my friends constantly tease me because my boyfriend is 5'9. how do i grow a little taller?

i have a little flab. i weigh 127 pounds. i look skinny, but only because of the clothes i wear. when im in a bikina i look nasty. how could i shed a few pounds?

my friends all wear c's and d's in bra sizes. but im only an a. ive seen my boyfriend look at other girls chests and it makes me kind of jealous. im not mad at him or anything because i know i have nothing to look at. how do i grow in the chest area?

thanks! (link)
Hey, we are like twins except I'm a year younger and two inches shorter! Being teased is normal, I get it all the time. My friends always say I can fit in with the 6th graders. Don't worry about your tall boyfriend, if you like him, like him! At least he isn't a cheater.
My friends wear B and C cups...I feel alone also. I wear only a size A.

It's difficult when everyone is taller than you and everything has larger boobs! It's unfair. Except, there's no way to grow in chest except wear a size bigger with padding...lots and lots. Also, with your height, where heels. This is the only unnatural way. If I was you...live with it. It's difficult and yes, frustrating, but there's nothing to do. I complain about my short heigh and flat chest...and I wish I was bigger but all I do is wish...I know it doesn't work. Be happy what you have. If your boyfriend stares at other boobs, he's missing out looking at you! Talk to him about that if you feel uncomfortable.
Hope I solved your answer!


ok i have to do a presentation at school tomorow on my project, in front of the whole class. well i'm really scared of talking to people
(especially a class). i'm considered the shyest and most quietest person in the whole class. and i dont know how to over come my fear of that.
please help me i'm really scared of that. (link)
Think about this: if you are scared, you will look scared. So just concentrate on not being scared. Because when you arive there, they are expecting a good presentation. UNLESS YOU CHANGE THAT BY BEING SCARED. Instead of worrying, expect it to turn out good.


19 f

ok so this doesnt have to do with me im just curious about it lol. how can a women be pregnant even if she gets her menstrual cycle. Also, the term spotting does that mean like bleeding a lot or a little. Again im just curious lol (link)
hey

i'm sorry, i didn't understand your first question, but if you add more information to it rephrasing / rewording it, maybe i could help you out :]

spotting means bleedinig a little bit. like there are "spots" of blood on your underwear / pad. it usually occurs when you are just beginning / ending your period.


Im 14/f and im 5'10. I know I'm tall. I HATE being tall. Anyway, how do I make myself look shorter? And also, do you think people think differently about tall girls? PLEASE BE HONEST. I would rather you say people dont like tall girls. Thanks so much. (link)
There's something you can do besides slouching over, which is disgusting. Guys like tall girls. Tall girls have good legs. Guys like legs. :) I'm not lying, at all. You may think you're "odd" for being different, but you're just hotter than all of the other girls.


How lng are you supposed to leave a pad on? Is it a bad for you to keep it on for 2 or 3 days? I know its discusting, but is it unhealthy for you? Thanks so much. (link)
You COULD. But if you were bleeding heavy then 1. it would fill up fast 2. it would start tearing and balling up and falling apart. Also, it is NOT sanitary. An infection could occur. You're supposed to keep it cleaaaan, and especially when you're on your period.


this is really random but oh well.

what's matt kenseth's middle name? i can't find it anywhere. does anyone know? (link)
Matt Roy Kenseth.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Matt_Kenseth


I really want to use a tampon but I am scared. I'm scared it will hurt when I am putting it in. How can I get over being scared? (link)
hey

omg, girl, please do not be scared. TRRRRUST ME. tampons are seriously the best invention in the world. when i first tried, it hurt a little only cause i was popping my cherry. the second & third times shouldn't hurt if you did it right the first time.

you can't be scared just cause it hurt once. it's really not that bad... the only reason people say that it hurts is cause... a.) either they weren't putting it in correctly or b.) their cherry wasn't popped. tampons do not hurt if you do it correctly.

correctly meaning, you put it in farther than you think you need to (my fear was that i was putting it in too far & the string would get lost). when you stand up after putting it in, you should not feel it.

you have to trust me. pads suck DICK. they smell, you can't swim, they're noticable... i could go on for ages! tampons? you can swim, they don't smell, you can stick one in your pocket and run with it, you can wear thongs, easy clean-up much?!

SPREAD YOUR LEGS REALLY REALLY FAR the first time! playtex gentle glide is my life. it's so comfortable & i never feel it. ever!

if you're scared of tampons, you're gonna be scared of a penis when you're ready to have sex :] might as well pop your cherry now so you can enjoy sex when you're married.

good luck, sweetie.


Im 14/f and im 5'10. I know I'm tall. I HATE being tall. Anyway, how do I make myself look shorter? And also, do you think people think differently about tall girls? PLEASE BE HONEST. I would rather you say people dont like tall girls. Thanks so much. (link)
well im 15, 16 this yea, and i'm 5'11. nd i like a girl with long legs...very nice


is there anyway to make your boobs grow bigger faster. like by eating anything? (link)
hey

hm... well eat lots of fruits & veggies, take vitamins...

just pretty much eat healthy & avoid junk food like fries, chips, burgers, sodas... they're not good for you.

green veggies like broccolli (uh sp?) have lots of minerals so i'm sure those could help a bit.

your best bet? wait it out.

or just wear victoria secret padded bras :]
make yerr boobies go PLUMP! haha

yeah so that's pretty much it... your turn will come :]

also, have you hit puberty yet? like do you have your period or are you tall-ish? maybe when you hit puberty you will have huuuge boobies.




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