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cleaning So here's the thing.
i'm always stuck at home cleaning. I can never go out ause m cleaning.! my 3 older bros can do watever they want. I';m a girl and the youngest and the only girtl in the family! people think im spoiled but thats the farthest thing i am! im always cleaning!
i dnt get whY!!
sometimes i get sooooooooooooo mad i just wanna slap someone and kill my self! i no a lil frekay!
but i cant stand it!
my bros are always having fun and im stuck at home!
and i cant even see guys not even have them as friend or ewls im grounded!
I HATE MY LIFE!@
i need advice wit this!
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sit down &&` talk to your mom (or dad) and tell yur mom how yu feel. That yu would like to go out more often and get to hang out with friends but yu will still help out around the house but yu think yur brothers should to. If yur mom doesnt listen go to school and talk to your school counceler about it ( she chould do something about it) if yu ever need to talk my contact information is on my page.. my email / hotmail is - maddie_4ever_4lyfe@hotmail.com
hope i helped
xomaddie ]
Keep a chart of everything you do everyday. At the end of the week present it to your folks and ask if some of your brothers could pitch in with a specific chore or two. Start off slowly without complaining. Bring reasonable and detailed plans and ask your parents to include all of you equally in pitching in. Don't just whine or your parents will shut their ears to you. Tell them you are glad to share in the household responsibilities, but you cannot do more than that, because it is cutting into your study time and you feel like you carry a larger responsibility than your older brothers but don't know why. ]
R u albanian btw? Hahaha, cause i am. AND believe me sweety its hard. First talk to your parents and tell them thats it not fair and that they should help you as well. They shouldnt ust leave all the work on you. They are part of the family as well. Ask if you can have friends over or whatever. Try to pry in some type of freedom. Dont stress too much about having boy friends. Work on having them not having all the fun then mve to other issues. ]
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