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what if your ex is late with the alimony but you don't want to get him angry at you?
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First and foremost if he gets mad to bad. If he is court ordered to pay then he has to, even if it makes him mad.
What you need to do is get with your lawyer and have him set it up so your ex pays the money to the court. The court will then pay you. I think all states can do that anyway. He WILL pay the court.
Arguing with you will do him no good. :)
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Alimony? Angry at you? You need to be forward on this? Isnt this a legal agreement here? If he is a day or two late and you feel that you dont want to be mean, then so be it. But if he is more then a few days, maybe even weeks, you need to tell him and if he doesnt do what he is suppose to, you take it to the right people and have them deal with it. Its not a favor he's doing and you are now seperated. So, obiviously, its not a joke neither.
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Well, this is a good one-- but why care if he gets "mad" at you when the court ordered alimony payments and your own personal bills and responsibilities rely on that?
If you are on good terms then ask him for the alimony that he's suppose to pay BECAUSE you have debts and responsibilities to take care of.
You have every right to that money and to take him to court for past due alimony. Remind him.
He is your "ex" and you shouldn't care if he "gets mad" at what he was "ordered" to do.
Take up for yourself.
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