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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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around what age do guys stop getting those random erections?

I'm not sure. I would guess that when they get into their twenties.

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my hair is so short its pissing me off first of i want to know if anyone knows how long it actually takes for like an inch or so to grow back? And if anyone has any good ideas for things to do with short hair? i can barley put my hair in a pony tail it looks so stupid help please :)

Ask your mom if you can get extensions until your hair grows back. Depending on the length, it'll be a little more than $40-50 bucks.

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ok i have 2 questions..what is the difference between head and a blowjob?? is there a difference? and can you get aids from head or a blowjob?

There is no difference. And yes. If a guy has an STD [genital warts], then you can get it in your mouth. Maybe even genital herpes, so that's why you use a condom at all times. Use a flavored condom when giving head so it doesn't taste bad.

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SO i have a boyfriend, we have been going out for a month. We always cuddle, when we see eachother and we see eachother 6 times while dating. We do kiss but not make out. I dont know why, but I feel like I cant kiss. But the thing is, Ive done lot of kises with other guys..& make outs & they said i was good. But now i feel like i cant kiss, & i love my boyfriend so much, I just dont know why. Well, my question is what can I do to give me confident to kiss my love? Like make out, i dont want him to think im bad:s
Thanks for help:)

He's your boyfriend, and he loves you. I'm pretty sure he wouldn't mind if you kissed bad. And that he'd tell you. Just follow his lead or something.

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Hello everyone! I want to first of all thank you for taking the time to read this- I know that it gets very busy on this site! Alright- to get started. About four days ago, I stubbed my little pinky toe. It did not hurt at first, but then about two hours later, I was crying in pain. I am pretty sure that it is broken, because of the bruising, and it now the bones are not lined up as they were. I am not sure what I can do about it. The doctors cannot do anything, because they can not put such a little cast on a toe. Is there anything I can do to help it heal faster?

Thanks! Have a great day :]

Ask for some crutches so you can take pressure off of that foot.

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Please any advice would be amazing.

Last night, my legs were really itchy. It happens sometimes. I put lotion on them and its usually goes away. But today I noticed tiny red/purple pin point dots on my inner thighs. They aren't bumps. They don't hurt or itch.

If anyone knows anything about it, please any advice is great!

I would suggest seeing a doctor.

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okay so lately i have been having dreams like i had one dream that (im 13/f btw) i went to the kitchen and made instant pudding and when i woke up, there were like three dishes of pudding sitting on the table. and ill have a dream that i went outside to the shed and when i wake up the light will be on and the door open. my mom says she never hears anything and i think i might be doing stuff in my sleep. what can i do???? i dont want to hurt myself or anyone else.

Chances are, you're sleepwalking. There's nothing wrong with it, and lots of people do it. But I doubt you'll do anything horrible. If you're really scared, have your mom take you to the doctor's or something so they can figure something out.

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Ok well my bff...we kinda tend to fight everyonce in a while..but thats not the big deal b/c we always come out stronger in the end. But I know this is bad to say considering she pretty much is my BEST friend..but idk i just can't trust her at all..shes done soo many things in the past, and now i can't really trust her fully. But she always is ditching me for this other girl (who is a total slut). I don't hate the girl, and shes nice and all..but idk were not "best" friends, just more friend. But i can't stand it when my bff is always ditching me. Today i got kicked out of my table b/c my bestfriends, friend came and sat there...and there was no room for me. I get soo sick of it.
& i can never talk to her b/c in school i really can't talk about it, and when shes on aol we'll get into like deep convo. and then just be like gtg bye. and just leave before i can even say anything. URGH this just all makes me soo frustered. i hate it.

Okay, so you can't talk about your problems with your friend. I would just IM her one day & say what you've gotta say. And don't be discouraged that she's finding new people to hang out with [no matter their reputation], I bet you've got other friends you can have fun with too.

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ive clicked on those one bulletins that give you that virus thing before and it makes you post a ton of stupid stuff. but, idk if i have it. if you have it can you see all the bulletins that the virus posted for you? or do only other people see it?

I think you'd be able to see it too, but I would just ask a friend who's on your list to see it. If they can see it & you can't, then you know it's just them & you should probably delete your account & make a new one.

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okay so me and 3 friends were making a movie for school. everything was going smooth, and then they randomly kicked me out of my movie and then told everyone i quit but really i never quit they kicked me out and then they told mr gamba i quit and was complaining so mr gamba said that "theres no quitting in the movie business. victoria is out for good so replace her" so they replaced me with christine coughlin and they ripped up my script and made a whole new script with new lines and gave it to christine.. and now they are rubbing it in my faces saying "christine is a movie star" and they are being so fucking mean. i cant take this and they are getting christine on their side i just cant deal with this. what can i do in a situation like this?

Punch them all in the face, or ignore them. They weren't really your friends, so stop caring about them. They're failures.

I bet their movie ends up sucking.

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i have a couple actual guy friends, but i want more. im so sick of all the drama girls bring along, and i think hanging out with guy friends would be a ncie break once in awhile. the couple i have that are actually friends not just aquantinces could probably introduce me to their friends, but once im introduced i dont know how to like become friends with that person. any advice? also, how do i make more of my OWn guy friends? thnakss

If there's a guy you wanna become friends with, or more with, the best thing to do is just say hi. It seems so corny, and so unoriginal, but it's the truth. If you wanna talk to him, just say hi. And then strike up conversation from there. Find out what he likes, and what he doesn't like.

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I am adopted, and i want to know the WHOLE story of my life. I have talked with my family all about my twin brother, and they tell me he died. They dont give me details, saying in that time nobody talked about things like that. Every time i ask them, they spring new things at me, and it doesnt make sense anymore.
i want to know my real mom, my real dad, my twin brother. I want my parents to send a post-card to my first daddy. but my 2nd dad wont do it, coming up with excuses.
i dont know what to do. I feel so rejected.

It depends how old you are. Maybe they don't feel you're old enough yet, but then again that might not be the case since they've told you things. I would just ask for the names of your real parents & then do your own research from there.

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i have a samsung t619
and t mobile service

when i make a voice recodring
can i somehow set it as a ringtone?
when i got to my voice recordings
it ahs the set as option
but its like darkened out.

any help ?? :]]

Silent mode is basically when your phone rings, but you don't hear it. Sort of like vibrate without the vibe.

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Ok..the past month i have not hung out with any of my friends. I used to hang out with them every weekend. Like we would have bonfires..go out to eat..go to the movies. But now all of my friends have serious boyfriends. Im talking to a guy but i dont want anything serious with him. I want to hang out with my friends again. Any advice on this?

Have a girls night out for just you guys so their boyfriends can have a guys night out too.

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hey well hopefully this isint so confusing...
mmm ok well i like this one guy and im thinking that i might give up hopes on him you know..well theres this other guy miguel who ive been known&he iz trying to go out with me but then my friend kindah has a crush on him...i mean were not like omg best friends or anything shes just a girl in my 5th period class whom i talk to whenever i see her but we dont hang out or anything...well anyways i told her about the guy liking me so she wouldnt get her hopes up for nothing but the thing is that she says its ok and that i should go for it but i still feel kind of messed up if i do decide to go with him `yadameaniiez?! she says it kool if i go for it&dat she will get over it but something compared to that happened with me and one of my closest friends&my ex who i really really liked...would it be the same thing?? because if shes going to feel as fucked up as i felt i dont want to put her through that yu know!!
*ugh* plz tell me what should i do??

If you like him, and she gave you the go ahead, that should be kept as a sign to go for it. If she's hurt, yeah, you'll feel bad, but it'd be her fault for telling you a lie. Basically, just go for it if you like him.

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Im 15/f, a freshman. In one of my classes theres a guy named connor and hes a sophomore. I talk to him sometimes, and i also went to the dance with him cause i asked and he said yes.and we grinded and shit. lol i get along with him. i dont know, i knew he didn,'t like me, and i only liked him as a friend.

Below are reasons i think he might like me, and reasons he's just ehh.

Why He Might Not
-hes a sophomore. even tho that might not matter
-i usually have to start the talk.
-he doesnt answer my texts.
-doesnt really seem to notice little things i do.
-were not like BONDED or anything
-doesnt seem EXTREMELY interested in me or anything
-we dont talk a lot outside of class. normally cause i dont see him


Why He Might
-okay so i sit next to him and he pokes me and touches me a lot.
-when im turned the other way to talk to my friend or im looking straight, i can feel that hes somewhat watching me.
-he asks me for help instead of the guy next to him .
-we talk.
-makes jokes.
-at the dance when he said "im gonna go hang with my sophomore people" i said "okay want me to look with u" he said "its ok. ill find them later.ill stay with u" and we danced...



Thanks!
just tell me what you really think



He could like you, but then again, he's kinda iffy. I'm sure age doesn't even matter to him. Maybe you guys don't know each other well enough, or maybe he does like you but he's holding back because he's gotten hurt before. Whatever it may be, just wait it out.

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I am 13 years old but turning 14 next month. I have babysat kids from the ages 2-6 numerous times. I also babysit my brothers who are 9 and 12. This Saturday I was asked to babysit these 3 kids. One is 1 1/2 years old, 1 is 8 years old and the other is 10. I know the 10-year old because she goes on my bus and I talk to her. I am worried about the 1 1/2 year old because he is not potty trained so that mean's I will be changing diapers. I have babysat alot before but for some reason this time Im more nervous. Is there anyway I can prepare quickly for Saturday and get over my worries. Thank you

Have you ever babysat them before? If not, it could be just nerves. Maybe you want the kids to like you, maybe you're not sure what activities to do, or maybe you're just nervous altogether. It could be anything. Just remember, you've got a lot of experience with kids & babysitting, so I'm sure if anything goes wrong, you'll have it under control.

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I have two pairs of American Eagle jeans that fit my waist but the leg part is really baggy. Is there anyway to make them tighter (besides washing them a bunch of times)? If there's not, can an alteration place fix them?

I would wash them a lot, if that doesn't help, then you can take them to an alteration place.

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I like a lot of types of music, and i'm starting to get into bands such as Fall Out Boy, Cute Is What We Aim For, Panic! At The Disco. What other bands are similar to them? i don't like screaming heavy metal stuff. help.

The Academy Is...
Hellogoodbye.
Gym Class Heroes.
Head Automatica.
A Heartwell Ending.
Motion City Soundtrack.
Down To Earth Approach.
Down For The Count.
My Chemical Romance.
New Found Glory.
This Providence.
All Time Low.
Jack's Mannequin.
Armor For Sleep.
Good Charlotte.
The Sounds.
Cobra Starship.
The Hush Sound.
The Bronx.
Coheed and Cambria.
Over It.
The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus.

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me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 3months and we're starting to become sexually active. when i think about that im fine with it but when we're in a room, alone i get really nervous, almost to the point of shaking. its not that i don't trust or love him enough, we was my best friend for years before we went out. i can tell him anything and i know he'd listen if i told him i wanted to wait to do anything but i don't want to wait. im so confused. my mind is ready for the next step so what's wrong with my body?

Either you're not ready, or you're just nervous cause this is your first time. [which I'm guessing it is.] If you find yourself rethinking whether or not you should go through with it, then you're not ready & you should wait longer to start doing things. But if he starts to touch you & you feel fine, you were probably just nervous.

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