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what is wrong with me?
me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 3months and we're starting to become sexually active. when i think about that im fine with it but when we're in a room, alone i get really nervous, almost to the point of shaking. its not that i don't trust or love him enough, we was my best friend for years before we went out. i can tell him anything and i know he'd listen if i told him i wanted to wait to do anything but i don't want to wait. im so confused. my mind is ready for the next step so what's wrong with my body?
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my freind started having sex about 9months ago and she told me that wen it is a planned event she just spends all the time up until they have sex thinkin of all the concequince like gettting pregnant or someone wlking in ect. and that is all has on her mind so she ends up getting nervousand not going through with it but wen him and her are like jus sitting around like in his truck or something and they begin to kiss and go furthere and it just happends she says there arent ne worries and that it also helps wen your not some where that you can get cought!!
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Either you're not ready, or you're just nervous cause this is your first time. [which I'm guessing it is.] If you find yourself rethinking whether or not you should go through with it, then you're not ready & you should wait longer to start doing things. But if he starts to touch you & you feel fine, you were probably just nervous.
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ok, so there are basically two options here - you really arent ready for this, or its just nerves.
so it could be completely natural to get jittery when it gets down to the moment. its a nerve wrecking thing to do when you rele care about the other person and what they think about you. life isnt like a movie, things dont happen that smoothly. youll get over it with time when you more comfortable in this new area with your bf
or, you really arent ready for this step. your trying to back out of it, and this is kind of an excuse. maybe just the fact that your asking this is a sign that your rele not ready.
so its either persormance anxiety, or you might just be in denial about not feeling comfortable doing this...talk to your bf about it, ill bet u can owrk it out
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hey, well in my opinion, if you have any doubts about having sex, your not ready. you should tell him that and hope that he will respect it. i can imagine that he would, because you said that he would respect it no problem. when the time is right, it will happen. dont worry.
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