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Q: I really want one of those cool quizes people have in their profiles on aol instant messanger. I cannot figure out how to get one though. Could any of you help me?
Alright i went to www.ask.com and i came up with a crap load of quiz sites when i typed in Quizes and you can type in friend quized. All go to blogthings.com -trix

Q: My friend and I used to be really close and walk together to class. Now everytime I try to meet her she isn't there because shes with her new friend. What sould I do?
Just talk to her and ask her if she wants to hang out sometime this weekend. Go to a movie. Are we there yet is really good but meet the fockers is a lil bit better!! Anyways if she already has plans with her new friend get to no her new friend and get to know her she may be very cool. Give everyone a chance. Hang out just 3 of you. Later on talk to your friend about this whole thing-trix

Q: i told this guy i liked him and he told me he likes me. well we are unable to go out cause of his grades in school and because he can't have a gf right now. to make the situation better i was told i should hug him. and i have been he gives me hugs and i give him hugs. what more can i do?!
Umm give him bear hugs!? Those are very lovable and the best kind of hugs. Or give him a lil smooch on the cheek. But save that for valentines day. Cuz that would be so adorable.-trix

Q: ok so i've started using tampons and sometimes they leak so i take it out but when i do it hurts like i havent left it in long enough.... i dont know what to do get bigger ones or what

pleez help!!!
I would try a diff. brand maybe with the same size. It could just be that brand. I would just do that and if that doesnt work then i would move a size up-trix

Q: My dad is always playing halo 2 on X-box live and lately he has been acting like the teenagers on there and he is 38 years old. And today he asked me to do something and when I did it, it was wrong and he said he was going to beat my ass. and I said do it and i will call the cops and he said call them now so they can take you away bitch. and that mad me so sad and I am crying right now and before he played halo he was so nice but now I hate him but when he isnt playing it he is nice sometimes and he yells at me all the time. I tell him all the time about I dont like him becuz of halo and hes is like the game isnt changing me..BUT IT IS...
I dont know exactly what HALO is i think its like a gun type of game like fighting. I would pretend it didnt bother you till like next mon. Then have it "Secretly" "magically" dissapear if you know what i mean. Just take it away and claim he misplaced it. I would talk to your mom about this to. I think i can get how it might effect but not dramatically change him it is a violent type of game so that might have impact on him. -trix

Q: Does anyone know where I can find black rouched capris? Like the kind where they scrunch on the bottom. I need them for a project
If your talknig like how they are like kind of bundled up at the bottle .. scrunched like you said then i got some cream looking ones at kohls. They come in all sorts of colors though-trix

Q: what does it mean when a guy says "he can't have a gf right now?" is that a way to let the girl down easy or is it the truth?!
It could honestly be either or i mean he may not be able to juggly a gf, and school and possibly sports all at the same time. I mean then agan it could be to let you down easy but its usually true that he cant handle a gf right now-trix

Q: Well last night i went to a superbowl prty at my friends b/f house, his friend was there!To be honest i nvr really liked him but we were flirting and we sat down to watch the superbowl and he sat next to me, we went closer and closer and by the end of the night we were holding hands and cuddling.But in the middle of all this he starts talkin about the girl he likes.And he says he likes me but he likes the other girl more.But it's one of those shes way out of his league and she doesn't like him at ALL!!Should i ask him out or should i get let him get over her?But i want to go out wit him in time for valentines day!

~Tina~
Well i know as hard as this may be but you shouldnt rush. I mean you dont want him to like another girl while he's with you. Show him that your better then her and that your in his league and your good enough for him. hang out with him this weekend and talk to him alot. Ask him out on sat.-trix

Q: my dog bites alot, we can not stop him. sometimes he is good somtimes he is bad. how do i cure his problem?
You can take him to this place where they train dogs that is what we did for my dog and it trained him to have manners and to sit, jump, shake hands and ect. but it may be that he is to hyper and you might have to send him to a new family. But whenever he does bite hit his nose and say no and shake your finger thats how i did it with my other past dogs-trix

Q: hey,Im 14 I have a Bory friend right. And there's this guy at school who likes me,but I have a BF but I wanna get to know him better. I mean incase me and my Bf break up maybe I can go out with him. Should I give him my phone number, whould people think it the wrong way. Cause I dont want people thinking that Im cheating on my Bf.
You are allowed to make new friends. Just give him the number. if people freak and make a big thing over that they they are defintly immature. So i would do it. And id doubt something would happan-trix

Q: I have a friend and his really special for me, his a guy. And I want to help him , cause I care for him. He smoke weed. I keep telling him to stop but he wont. what should I tell him to stop. Please help me.
Well just talk to him about it and if he wont tell his parents that is if you really want to help him i mean its his choice but you could also point out the bad things in that that happan to him and why its bad for him-trix

Q: if i wanted to be a model... how would i go about doing that? (not as a lifetime career)
Look at john casablanca's website

Q: im selling my house through buy owner and they gave me a standard agreement for sale form. I dont have a clue how to fill this out. Is there somewhere i can get free help?
Thanks so much
You call the place your doing this through and they usually talk you thru it-trix

Q: a couple weeks ago my parents went out of town and me and my sister had the house to ourselve. so we invited some people over. this guy came over and we endin up having sex but he has a gf. i think im startin to like him. what do i do? and do you think his gf should know?
I do think his gf should know but if he hasnt paid any attention to you from that night of the party till now.. then it was a one night stand. Sorri. If you met him just that night to that proves more it. Also if you 2 knew eachother before the party and you guys didnt talk much before and after the party it was defintly a one night stand. If he still talks to you and flirts with you he obviously had fun at the party and wants to maybe hook up later after him and his gf are done. But I dont think you should like a guy like that because if you do then if you hook up with him you could be where his gf is now not knowing that he had sex with someone else. -trix

Q: Is it wrong to cry if your dog died and you've known her since you were a toddler? My friends would think it's silly, and when you think about it, it kind of is. Does anybody else think it's silly?
Yeah i admit it kind of is to cry over a pet. I was talking to my boyfriend about this i said if any of my 3 pets died i would be crying like a big baby. So its perfectly normal i think its just like a little bro or sis you have around. And you are just used to it being there and it gives you the love and attention. So its perfectly normal!! Isn't wierd how we can get so attached to something thats not human and cry over it? I think so but its how life works and its not silly -trixx

Q: I have a friend who is SO not over her ex but really pretends to be. They both really like each other and flirt all the time and they still act like they are going out. What should she do, or what should I tell her to do???
Well if they both like eachother its fine. And if they both flirt all the time thats fine. I dont really see wha the problem is here. Maybe they just dont want to go back out for fear of breaking up again and would rather just stay friends. I know i've done that i went out w/a guy i dumped him and we still like eachother like 2 months later and we flirted and we decided not to go back out cuz we thought maybe with that extra pressure we'd not be as close. So they may be in that situation. You just have to put yourself in her shoes-trix

Q: Can any one tell me how to shut little sisters up and also i keep a diary and it's impossible to have any privesy in my house does any one have any good ideas to stop little brats getting their hands on my diary! Thanks for any suggestions Joolz (plus i rate high)
Well you could get a key diary. Those are good except you have to keep track of the key. I would put your diary like above the fridge. Somewhere they cant reach and wouldnt think of. Or in your sock drawer-trix

Q: My moms bff called me up the other day and said her nephew was moving in with her and she wants to hook us up! I mean I'm really excited because I havent had a boyfriend in over a year. But my ex and I are in love but he is with someone right now...ok I mean im really scared because you know im scared by dating him i might mess things up with my ex and what not...just i really dont know what to do?? what should i do? go for it and date her nephew or stay single and wait for my ex?
Well if your x is already taken that i would go with the nephew. Dont hold yourself back-trix

Q: WhEn iS mArDi GrAs?
This year Mardi Gras is on February 8, 2005. Next year it will be on February 28, 2006.

Q: ok when ever someone asks me to do something i almost instantly forget it and they get get mad...what am i supposed to do?
Pencil it into your brain. Right it down-trix

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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